You Never Know
Anne Murray Lyrics


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You give your hand to me
Then you say hello
I can hardly speak
My heart is beating so
And anyone can tell
You think you know me well
But you don't know me
No, you don't know the one
Who dreams of you at night
And longs to kiss your lips
And longs to hold you tight
Oh I'm just a friend
That's all I've ever been
'Cause you don't know me

I never knew
The art of making love
Though my heart aches
With love for you
Afraid and shy

I've let my chance to go by
The chance that you might
Love me, too

You give your hand to me
And then you say good-bye
I watch you walk away
Beside the lucky guy
You'll never never know
The one who loves you so
Well, you don't know me

You give your hand to me, baby
Then you say good-bye
I watch you walk away
Beside the lucky guy
No, no, you'll never ever know




The one who loves you so
Well, you don't know me

Overall Meaning

Anne Murray's song "You Don't Know Me" talks about unrequited love, the pain of being in love with someone who only sees you as a friend or an acquaintance. The song describes the feeling of having someone close to you, always interacting with you, but never really knowing how much you love them. The first verse opens with the singer feeling flustered, unable to speak or contain her heart when the person she's in love with greets her. People might know her, but they do not know the real her - the one who dreams of the person in the song and wishes to kiss and hold them tight.


The pre-chorus then goes on to describe how Anne Murray's character has never been anything more than friends. The singer is the "just a friend" to the person they love so much. The singer never pursued the person she was in love with because she was afraid of ruining their relationship, and so she let her chance go by. She now lives with the regret of staying quiet and not confessing her love.


The final chorus of the song brings the realization that the person she loves is walking away beside someone else - a lucky person who has won their affection. The singer is left to watch as her love walks away, never knowing how much she cares for them.


Line by Line Meaning

You give your hand to me
You offer your hand to me as a greeting.


Then you say hello
You greet me with a simple hello.


I can hardly speak
I'm feeling overwhelmed and nervous.


My heart is beating so
My heart is racing with excitement and fear.


And anyone can tell
It's very obvious and apparent to anyone watching.


You think you know me well
You have a false sense of understanding of who I am.


But you don't know me
In reality, you have no idea who I truly am.


No, you don't know the one
You are not familiar with the person.


Who dreams of you at night
I often think of you in my dreams.


And longs to kiss your lips
I deeply desire to share a kiss with you.


And longs to hold you tight
I yearn to hold you close in my arms.


Oh I'm just a friend
I am nothing more than a friend to you.


That's all I've ever been
I have never been anything beyond a friend to you.


'Cause you don't know me
You are not familiar with the true feelings I have for you.


I never knew
I was never aware of.


The art of making love
I am inexperienced in the art of love-making.


Though my heart aches
Despite the pain in my heart.


With love for you
I am filled with love for you.


Afraid and shy
I'm paralyzed by fear and shyness.


I've let my chance to go by
I have missed my opportunity with you.


The chance that you might love me, too
The opportunity for you to love me as I love you.


And then you say good-bye
You bid me farewell.


I watch you walk away
I observe you leaving.


Beside the lucky guy
You are walking next to someone else who is lucky to have you.


You'll never never know
You will never be aware of.


The one who loves you so
The person who loves you deeply and completely.


Well, you don't know me
You truly do not know who I am and how I feel for you.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Cindy Walker, Eddy Arnold

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Robert Thompson


on Me Too

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