What's Happened to You My Dearest Friend
Another Sunny Day Lyrics


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We were both young once
Young and proud to feel so carefree
Days of innocence
But people can change and they do so easily
And now you've grown up
I'm so surprised at how little time it takes
And how you've changed now
I'm always amazed at what a difference money makes.

What's happened to you?
What's happened to me?
Now I'm confused
What am I supposed to do?
Then I look at you
And I can't comprehend
What's happened to you,
My dearest friend.

And now you've won yourself
A position and sense of responsibility
You're in the best of health
Living with friends and staying so happy
As long as you're content
As long as this is what you want to be
I'm very pleased for you
But what you are means nothing now to me.

What's happened to you?
What's happened to me?
Now I'm confused
Who am I supposed to be?
Then I look at you
And I can't comprehend




What's happened to you,
My dearest friend.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "What's Happened to You My Dearest Friend" by Another Sunny Day reflect on the changes that come over us and our friendships as we grow up and take on new responsibilities. The singer reminisces about the days of innocence when they and their friend were young and carefree, but now they have both changed. The friend has grown up and become successful, with a good job and a happy life, while the singer has not kept up with those changes.


The singer is confused about how to relate to their friend now, with the sense that they no longer have anything in common. They are still pleased for their friend's success but feel left behind and struggle to understand how their friend has changed so much. The lyrics express a sense of loss and disorientation, as the singer tries to come to terms with these changes and their place in the world.


Overall, the song is a powerful reflection on the nature of friendship and change. It offers a melancholy reminder that even the strongest bonds can be tested by time and experience and offers a poignant reminder that we must cherish our relationships and the times we have together.


Line by Line Meaning

We were both young once
At some point in the past, you and I were both youthful and energetic.


Young and proud to feel so carefree
We used to feel confident and without worry due to our young age.


Days of innocence
Those were simpler times when we were not yet exposed to the complexities of life.


But people can change and they do so easily
Individuals change as they mature, and it's a common occurrence.


And now you've grown up
You have entered adulthood, and with it comes added responsibilities and obligations.


I'm so surprised at how little time it takes
It took a relatively short amount of time for you to mature and transform into an adult.


And how you've changed now
You have evolved, and it's something I find remarkable and intriguing.


I'm always amazed at what a difference money makes.
I'm stunned by how finances can have a significant impact on a person's character and lifestyle.


What's happened to you?
I'm baffled by the change in your personality and behavior.


What's happened to me?
I'm uncertain of how to act or feel because of what I'm witnessing in you.


Now I'm confused
I feel perplexed and uncertain about our friendship.


What am I supposed to do?
I'm unclear about how I should perceive and respond to your newfound identity.


Then I look at you
When I gaze upon you, your new persona perplexes me.


And I can't comprehend
I cannot fathom how you have become the person you are now.


What's happened to you,
I'm struggling to accept and understand the changes you've undergone,


My dearest friend.
despite being close to you as a friend for so long.


And now you've won yourself
You have attained and earned a position of esteem and responsibility for yourself


A position and sense of responsibility
You now occupy a place of significance and authority in your life.


You're in the best of health
You are in excellent physical condition, which is a good thing.


Living with friends and staying so happy
You live with your friends and are content with your life.


As long as you're content
As long as you're satisfied with the way things are.


As long as this is what you want to be
As long as you are content and happy with your current self.


I'm very pleased for you
I'm happy that you're doing well.


But what you are means nothing now to me.
However, I'm saddened that we're not as close as we used to be due to my difficulty in understanding the new you.




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