Bear
Antlers Lyrics


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There's a bear inside your stomach
The cub's been kicking from within
He's loud, though without vocal chords
We'll put an end to him
We'll make all the right appointments
No one ever has to know
And then tomorrow I'll turn 21
We'll script another show
We'll play charades up in the Chelsea
Drink champagne although you shouldn't be
We'll be blind and dumb until we fall asleep
None of our friends will come
They dodge our calls
And they have for quite a while now
It's not a shock
You don't seem to mind and I just can't see how

We're too old
We're not old, old at all
Just too old
We're not old, old at all

There's a bear inside your stomach
The cub's been kicking you for weeks
And if this isn't all a dream
Well then we'll cut him from beneath
Well we're not scared of making caves
Or finding food for him to eat
We're terrified of one another
And terrified of what that means
But we'll make only quick decisions
And you'll just keep my in the waiting room
And all the while I'll know we're fucked
And not getting unfucked soon
When we get home we're bigger strangers than we've ever been before
You sit in front of snowy television, suitcase on the floor

We're too old
We're not old, old at all
Just too old
We're not old, old at all
Just too old
We're not old, old at all
Just too old
We're not old, old at all
Just too old
We're not old, old at all




Just too old
We're not old, old, old, old at all

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Bear" by The Antlers are about a woman who has an unwanted pregnancy. The chorus of the song speaks to the singer's fear of being too old to handle such a situation. The image of a bear inside her stomach, kicking and squirming, is a metaphor for the growing life inside her. The singer understands that their relationship is not strong enough to handle the challenges that come with having a child. They plan to get an abortion and pretend that nothing happened.


The second verse explores the fear and anxiety that comes with the decision to have an abortion. Making "quick decisions" and ignoring the deeper emotional turmoil seems easier than facing the reality of the situation. The singer knows that their relationship is in trouble, and the pregnancy only amplifies their fears.


The third verse is the aftermath of the abortion. The couple returns home to a fractured relationship, feeling like strangers to one another. The singer watches their partner sit in front of a TV, the suitcase on the floor symbolizing the distance between them. Overall, the song is a heartbreaking exploration of a difficult life event and the resulting strain on a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a bear inside your stomach
There is an emotional burden or problem that you are carrying deep within you


The cub's been kicking from within
This problem has been getting worse and more difficult to contain


He's loud, though without vocal chords
This problem is silent, but it still has a strong impact on your life


We'll put an end to him
We will find a way to deal with and resolve this problem


We'll make all the right appointments
We will seek professional help to address this issue


No one ever has to know
We will keep this issue private and not share it with others


And then tomorrow I'll turn 21
This is happening at a young age, which makes it even more challenging to deal with


We'll script another show
We will continue to put on a facade and pretend that everything is okay


We'll play charades up in the Chelsea
We will engage in empty distractions and meaningless activities to avoid facing the problem


Drink champagne although you shouldn't be
We will engage in self-destructive behavior despite knowing it's harmful


We'll be blind and dumb until we fall asleep
We will continue to avoid the issue until we can no longer stay awake


None of our friends will come
Our friends have distanced themselves from us because they can see that something is wrong


They dodge our calls
They are actively avoiding us in an effort to not get involved with our problems


And they have for quite a while now
This has been going on for a long time, and our friends have been distancing themselves for a while


It's not a shock
We are not surprised by our friends' behavior


You don't seem to mind and I just can't see how
You are acting like the problem doesn't bother you, but I can't understand how you can be okay with it


We're too old
We are too experienced and mature to be ignoring this problem


We're not old, old at all
We are still young, but we are acting like we are much older by not addressing this problem in a timely manner


There's a bear inside your stomach
The problem is still present and causing us both distress


The cub's been kicking you for weeks
The problem has been affecting you for a long time and is causing you pain


And if this isn't all a dream
We are unsure if this problem is actually happening or if it's just a figment of our imagination


Well then we'll cut him from beneath
We will do whatever it takes to remove this problem from our lives


Well we're not scared of making caves
We are not afraid of doing the hard work to solve this issue


Or finding food for him to eat
We will provide for this problem and do what is necessary to address it


We're terrified of one another
Our relationship has been negatively affected by this problem, and we are afraid of how it will further impact us


And terrified of what that means
We are afraid of how our relationship and our individual lives will be changed by this problem


But we'll make only quick decisions
We will make decisions regarding this problem quickly, without overthinking or fully considering the implications


And you'll just keep my in the waiting room
You will keep me in the dark and not involve me in the decision-making process


And all the while I'll know we're fucked
I am aware that we are in a bad situation and that this problem is causing us significant harm


And not getting unfucked soon
We will not be able to resolve this issue quickly or easily


When we get home we're bigger strangers than we've ever been before
Our relationship will be fundamentally changed by this problem, and we will feel like strangers to each other


You sit in front of snowy television, suitcase on the floor
You will be distant and detached, withdrawing into yourself and leaving our relationship behind




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Peter Joseph Silberman

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@lalalaurenWHAT

After seeing them live, I love them so much more than before. I highly suggest catching one of their shows. It's unforgettable

@JeffChen7x8

this is my favorite track by them. i dont understand why it only has only 27k views. amazing song, video, and band

@killamilla3046

this is one of the most beautifully written songs i have ever heard...love the antlers

@W3R3W00F

I've been listening to this song for the last 2 or 3 days now... and I have become obsessed with it, and a new found fan of The Antlers. The song is totally memorable and beautifully composed. I love it to death. ...Also, does anyone know that woman's name? She's so pretty.

@jej9510

i have listen to this album like 80 time so far i just love this album

@people287

This song is so sad. I've outright sobbed playing this before, mostly because of what's gone on in my life, though, and not just the song.

@IzzabellaFlynn

Love This Band

@NettySaysRawR666

why is this song so amazing, though it's very sad but true<3(,: i love the antlers!

@Slowpokester

even if there was no lyrics this song could break my heart.

@jubeimiwa

They Inspire Me Soooo Much To Sing.....

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