The Suburbs
Arcade Fire Lyrics


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In the suburbs I
I learned to drive
And you told me we'd never survive
Grab your mother's keys we're leaving

You always seemed so sure
That one day we'd be fighting in a suburban war
Your part of town against mine
I saw you standing on the opposite shore
But by the time the first bombs fell
We were already bored
We were already, already bored

Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling again

The kids wanna be so hard
But in my dreams, we're still screaming and running through the yard
And all of the walls that they built in the seventies finally fall
And all of the houses they built in the seventies finally fall
Meant nothing at all
Meant nothing at all
It meant nothing

Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling and into the night

So can you understand?
Why I want a daughter while I'm still young
I wanna hold her hand
Show her some beauty before this damage is done
But if it's too much to ask, if it's too much to ask
Then send me a son

Under the overpass
In the parking lot, we're still waiting
It's already passed
So move your feet from hot pavement and into the grass
'Cause it's already passed
It's already, already passed

Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling again

I'm moving past the feeling
I'm moving past the feeling

In my dreams, we're still screaming




We're still screaming
We're still screaming

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Arcade Fire's song The Suburbs mainly talk about the nostalgia of growing up in the suburbs, reflecting on the memories of childhood and how they shaped their lives. The singer recalls learning to drive and being told by someone that they would never survive, but they leave anyway. They then reminisce about how they used to think that one day they would be fighting in a "suburban war" between different parts of the town, but when that day came, they were already too bored to care.


The song goes on to talk about the desire to hold onto the beauty of life before it’s too late. The singer expresses the wish to have a daughter, to show her the beauty of life before any damage is done. They also speak about the passage of time, with the line "in the parking lot, we're still waiting, it's already passed," indicating that time has already moved on, and they are still waiting for something to happen.


Overall, the song is a wistful reflection on nostalgia, childhood memories, and the passage of time, with the lyrics conveying a sense of desperation to make the most of life before it's too late.


Line by Line Meaning

In the suburbs I
The singer grew up in the suburbs


I learned to drive
The singer learned how to drive in the suburbs


And you told me we'd never survive
The singer was told they would not survive in the suburbs


Grab your mother's keys we're leaving
The artist is leaving the suburbs with someone else


You always seemed so sure
Someone else appeared confident about something


That one day we'd be fighting in a suburban war
Someone predicted they would experience conflict in the suburbs


Your part of town against mine
The two people are from different parts of the suburb


I saw you standing on the opposite shore
The artist saw someone else far away


But by the time the first bombs fell
Conflict happened


We were already bored
The artist was already tired of their situation


We were already, already bored
The singer was extremely tired of their situation


Sometimes I can't believe it
The artist is in disbelief


I'm moving past the feeling
The singer is attempting to overcome their emotions


The kids wanna be so hard
Children want to be tough


But in my dreams, we're still screaming and running through the yard
The singer remembers happy times from their childhood


And all of the walls that they built in the seventies finally fall
Old walls are finally breaking down


And all of the houses they built in the seventies finally fall
Old houses are finally breaking down


Meant nothing at all
The old buildings don't have any meaning anymore


Meant nothing at all
The old buildings don't have any meaning anymore


Sometimes I can't believe it
The artist is in disbelief


I'm moving past the feeling
The artist is attempting to overcome their emotions


So can you understand?
The artist is asking for understanding


Why I want a daughter while I'm still young
The singer wants to have a daughter while they are still young


I wanna hold her hand
The artist wants to hold their daughter's hand


Show her some beauty before this damage is done
The singer wants to show their daughter beauty before anything bad happens


But if it's too much to ask, if it's too much to ask
The singer is asking for too much


Then send me a son
The singer is willing to settle for a son instead of a daughter


Under the overpass
The artist is in a specific location


In the parking lot, we're still waiting
The artist is waiting in a parking lot


It's already passed
Something has already happened


So move your feet from hot pavement and into the grass
The singer is telling someone else to move from the pavement to the grass


'Cause it's already passed
Something has already happened


It's already, already passed
Something has definitely already happened


Sometimes I can't believe it
The artist is in disbelief


I'm moving past the feeling
The singer is attempting to overcome their emotions


Sometimes I can't believe it
The artist is in disbelief


I'm moving past the feeling and into the night
The singer is moving on from their emotions, and moving into the night


I'm moving past the feeling
The singer is attempting to overcome their emotions


I'm moving past the feeling
The singer is attempting to overcome their emotions


In my dreams, we're still screaming
The artist has dreams of them still screaming


We're still screaming
They are still screaming in the dream


We're still screaming
They are still screaming in the dream




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Jeremy Gara, Regine Chassagne, Richard R Parry, Tin Kingsbury, William Butler, Win Butler

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@volkova6209

this already hits very hard for me as a teenager (about to turn 18)

I moved around a lot throughout my childhood and never settled anywhere for too long.
During this i also had split parents that were on two different sides of the country, so i would go back and forth between them.

I'm now finally settled somewhere and am only living with one parent, but i have no sense of self.
I look back at these past memories and wonder where they all went, and grieving what they could have turned into.

So that's the emotions that this song brings out in me, quite bittersweet.



@LanaDelReyFan1998

Growing up in Sri Lanka, I stumbled upon English and Western music at a young age. Those melodies hit differently for me, and I found myself totally obsessed with English musicians as time rolled on. We had this TV channel that played English music in the middle of the night, probably because no one cared about it at that hour. I used to drag myself out of bed just to catch that channel because it was my only way to watch music videos.

Now, my English wasn't good back then, but I'd just sit there, glued to the TV, blown away by everything – the melodies, the visuals, you name it. I genuinely loved every music video, no matter the genre. At the end of each video, they'd show the song's name, and I'd quickly jot it down. Why? So I could bug my brother to pirate me the MP3 version.

Then on one nigh night, "The Suburbs" by Arcade Fire played on the TV, and I was transported to a whole new world. I was so into the song that I forgot to catch its name. Cue three years of searching for that damn song. The melody was stuck in my head on repeat. I refused to let it go because I loved how it made me feel. But, over time, even the melody faded away.

Fast forward a few years, and I stumble upon a Spotify playlist. Lo and behold, my second rendezvous with "The Suburbs." I fell in love with it all over again, clueless that this was the song I'd been hunting for during my teenage years. Played it a thousand times, no exaggeration. Then, while looking for a lyrics video to share on Instagram, I stumbled upon the music video, and it hit me – this was the one I missed back in the day.

Thinking about it, the song was with me from the get-go. Even without knowing its name, the melody lingered in my mind for years. When it disappeared, the song found me again through a Spotify playlist, and now, it's mine forever.

This is truly the greatest tune in my life, and nothing can take that away from me.



@Pride317

Lyrics

[Verse 1]
In the suburbs, I
I learned to drive
And you told me we'd never survive
Grab your mother's keys, we're leaving
You always seemed so sure
That one day we'd be fighting in a suburban war
Your part of town against mine
I saw you standing on the opposite shore
But by the time the first bombs fell
We were already bored
We were already, already bored

[Chorus]
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling again

[Verse 2]
The kids want to be so hard
But in my dreams, we're still screaming
And running through the yard
And all of the walls that they built in the seventies finally fall
And all of the houses they built in the seventies finally fall
Meant nothing at all
Meant nothing at all, it meant nothing

[Chorus]
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling and into the night

[Verse 3]
So can you understand
That I want a daughter while I'm still young?
I want to hold her hand
And show her some beauty before this damage is done
But if it's too much to ask, if it's too much to ask
Then send me a son
Under the overpass
In the parking lot, we're still waiting, it's already passed
So move your feet from hot pavement and into the grass
Cause it's already passed
It's already, already passed

[Chorus]
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling again
I'm moving past the feeling
I'm moving past the feeling

[Outro]
In my dreams, we're still screaming
We're still screaming
We're still screaming



@allonsyisabelli

I know this song talks about nostalgia, but I can't help but feel very emotional at the chorus.

When he says "Sometimes I can't believe it // I am moving past the feeling", even though he's talking about nostalgia, it still hits me like if it was talking about me, and the way he sings feels so sad and happy at the same time that I feel like it's talking about the hardships I went through in high school

It makes me think

"I am finally moving past the toxic relationships that were still affecting me"

"I am finally moving past the overwhelming anxiety that paralyzed me"

"I am finally moving past the harmful environment that my school had"

"I am finally moving past the feeling of despair, from feeling that I wasn't worthy, that I was not gonna make it"

I am moving past these feelings, and it's crazy. If you're feeling like that still, trust me, it will go away someday.



All comments from YouTube:

@SamClarkschannel

This song gives me the strangest nostalgia and feelings I buried years ago.

@Friditha

It does.

@maisademartine1395

yep!

@joshyh3208

So you killed someone and buried them in the suburbs?

@leonej7519

same!!!! its timeless

@vegaspress

whats nostalgia?

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@alexanderchapman1460

This song perfectly captures being trapped in the melancholy of nostalgia. Stuck in the past without realizing it’s “already past.”

@scoot8942

damn bro….

@doomerconsumer

this one hit different 😞

@mrybird4044

Ya hurt my feelings with this comment lmao

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