At the same time, other Arcade Fire band members of a similarly suburban origin across Canada had revisited their childhood environs and, in some cases, found there was not much left: buildings were boarded up, if they still existed at all; new roads and rivers had magically appeared, altering the landscape that now only existed in faded photographs. When they reconvened, this was the first song they wrote. Said Win: "We started working on the song, and once that started to sound like music it felt like we were making an album."
The Suburbs
Arcade Fire Lyrics
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I learned to drive
And you told me we'd never survive
Grab your mother's keys we're leaving
You always seemed so sure
That one day we'd be fighting in a suburban war
Your part of town against mine
But by the time the first bombs fell
We were already bored
We were already, already bored
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling again
The kids wanna be so hard
But in my dreams, we're still screaming and running through the yard
And all of the walls that they built in the seventies finally fall
And all of the houses they built in the seventies finally fall
Meant nothing at all
Meant nothing at all
It meant nothing
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling and into the night
So can you understand?
Why I want a daughter while I'm still young
I wanna hold her hand
Show her some beauty before this damage is done
But if it's too much to ask, if it's too much to ask
Then send me a son
Under the overpass
In the parking lot, we're still waiting
It's already passed
So move your feet from hot pavement and into the grass
'Cause it's already passed
It's already, already passed
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling again
I'm moving past the feeling
I'm moving past the feeling
In my dreams, we're still screaming
We're still screaming
We're still screaming
The lyrics of Arcade Fire's song The Suburbs mainly talk about the nostalgia of growing up in the suburbs, reflecting on the memories of childhood and how they shaped their lives. The singer recalls learning to drive and being told by someone that they would never survive, but they leave anyway. They then reminisce about how they used to think that one day they would be fighting in a "suburban war" between different parts of the town, but when that day came, they were already too bored to care.
The song goes on to talk about the desire to hold onto the beauty of life before it’s too late. The singer expresses the wish to have a daughter, to show her the beauty of life before any damage is done. They also speak about the passage of time, with the line "in the parking lot, we're still waiting, it's already passed," indicating that time has already moved on, and they are still waiting for something to happen.
Overall, the song is a wistful reflection on nostalgia, childhood memories, and the passage of time, with the lyrics conveying a sense of desperation to make the most of life before it's too late.
Line by Line Meaning
In the suburbs I
The singer grew up in the suburbs
I learned to drive
The singer learned how to drive in the suburbs
And you told me we'd never survive
The singer was told they would not survive in the suburbs
Grab your mother's keys we're leaving
The artist is leaving the suburbs with someone else
You always seemed so sure
Someone else appeared confident about something
That one day we'd be fighting in a suburban war
Someone predicted they would experience conflict in the suburbs
Your part of town against mine
The two people are from different parts of the suburb
I saw you standing on the opposite shore
The artist saw someone else far away
But by the time the first bombs fell
Conflict happened
We were already bored
The artist was already tired of their situation
We were already, already bored
The singer was extremely tired of their situation
Sometimes I can't believe it
The artist is in disbelief
I'm moving past the feeling
The singer is attempting to overcome their emotions
The kids wanna be so hard
Children want to be tough
But in my dreams, we're still screaming and running through the yard
The singer remembers happy times from their childhood
And all of the walls that they built in the seventies finally fall
Old walls are finally breaking down
And all of the houses they built in the seventies finally fall
Old houses are finally breaking down
Meant nothing at all
The old buildings don't have any meaning anymore
Meant nothing at all
The old buildings don't have any meaning anymore
Sometimes I can't believe it
The artist is in disbelief
I'm moving past the feeling
The artist is attempting to overcome their emotions
So can you understand?
The artist is asking for understanding
Why I want a daughter while I'm still young
The singer wants to have a daughter while they are still young
I wanna hold her hand
The artist wants to hold their daughter's hand
Show her some beauty before this damage is done
The singer wants to show their daughter beauty before anything bad happens
But if it's too much to ask, if it's too much to ask
The singer is asking for too much
Then send me a son
The singer is willing to settle for a son instead of a daughter
Under the overpass
The artist is in a specific location
In the parking lot, we're still waiting
The artist is waiting in a parking lot
It's already passed
Something has already happened
So move your feet from hot pavement and into the grass
The singer is telling someone else to move from the pavement to the grass
'Cause it's already passed
Something has already happened
It's already, already passed
Something has definitely already happened
Sometimes I can't believe it
The artist is in disbelief
I'm moving past the feeling
The singer is attempting to overcome their emotions
Sometimes I can't believe it
The artist is in disbelief
I'm moving past the feeling and into the night
The singer is moving on from their emotions, and moving into the night
I'm moving past the feeling
The singer is attempting to overcome their emotions
I'm moving past the feeling
The singer is attempting to overcome their emotions
In my dreams, we're still screaming
The artist has dreams of them still screaming
We're still screaming
They are still screaming in the dream
We're still screaming
They are still screaming in the dream
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Jeremy Gara, Regine Chassagne, Richard R Parry, Tin Kingsbury, William Butler, Win Butler
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@volkova6209
this already hits very hard for me as a teenager (about to turn 18)
I moved around a lot throughout my childhood and never settled anywhere for too long.
During this i also had split parents that were on two different sides of the country, so i would go back and forth between them.
I'm now finally settled somewhere and am only living with one parent, but i have no sense of self.
I look back at these past memories and wonder where they all went, and grieving what they could have turned into.
So that's the emotions that this song brings out in me, quite bittersweet.
@LanaDelReyFan1998
Growing up in Sri Lanka, I stumbled upon English and Western music at a young age. Those melodies hit differently for me, and I found myself totally obsessed with English musicians as time rolled on. We had this TV channel that played English music in the middle of the night, probably because no one cared about it at that hour. I used to drag myself out of bed just to catch that channel because it was my only way to watch music videos.
Now, my English wasn't good back then, but I'd just sit there, glued to the TV, blown away by everything – the melodies, the visuals, you name it. I genuinely loved every music video, no matter the genre. At the end of each video, they'd show the song's name, and I'd quickly jot it down. Why? So I could bug my brother to pirate me the MP3 version.
Then on one nigh night, "The Suburbs" by Arcade Fire played on the TV, and I was transported to a whole new world. I was so into the song that I forgot to catch its name. Cue three years of searching for that damn song. The melody was stuck in my head on repeat. I refused to let it go because I loved how it made me feel. But, over time, even the melody faded away.
Fast forward a few years, and I stumble upon a Spotify playlist. Lo and behold, my second rendezvous with "The Suburbs." I fell in love with it all over again, clueless that this was the song I'd been hunting for during my teenage years. Played it a thousand times, no exaggeration. Then, while looking for a lyrics video to share on Instagram, I stumbled upon the music video, and it hit me – this was the one I missed back in the day.
Thinking about it, the song was with me from the get-go. Even without knowing its name, the melody lingered in my mind for years. When it disappeared, the song found me again through a Spotify playlist, and now, it's mine forever.
This is truly the greatest tune in my life, and nothing can take that away from me.
@Pride317
Lyrics
[Verse 1]
In the suburbs, I
I learned to drive
And you told me we'd never survive
Grab your mother's keys, we're leaving
You always seemed so sure
That one day we'd be fighting in a suburban war
Your part of town against mine
I saw you standing on the opposite shore
But by the time the first bombs fell
We were already bored
We were already, already bored
[Chorus]
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling again
[Verse 2]
The kids want to be so hard
But in my dreams, we're still screaming
And running through the yard
And all of the walls that they built in the seventies finally fall
And all of the houses they built in the seventies finally fall
Meant nothing at all
Meant nothing at all, it meant nothing
[Chorus]
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling and into the night
[Verse 3]
So can you understand
That I want a daughter while I'm still young?
I want to hold her hand
And show her some beauty before this damage is done
But if it's too much to ask, if it's too much to ask
Then send me a son
Under the overpass
In the parking lot, we're still waiting, it's already passed
So move your feet from hot pavement and into the grass
Cause it's already passed
It's already, already passed
[Chorus]
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm moving past the feeling again
I'm moving past the feeling
I'm moving past the feeling
[Outro]
In my dreams, we're still screaming
We're still screaming
We're still screaming
@allonsyisabelli
I know this song talks about nostalgia, but I can't help but feel very emotional at the chorus.
When he says "Sometimes I can't believe it // I am moving past the feeling", even though he's talking about nostalgia, it still hits me like if it was talking about me, and the way he sings feels so sad and happy at the same time that I feel like it's talking about the hardships I went through in high school
It makes me think
"I am finally moving past the toxic relationships that were still affecting me"
"I am finally moving past the overwhelming anxiety that paralyzed me"
"I am finally moving past the harmful environment that my school had"
"I am finally moving past the feeling of despair, from feeling that I wasn't worthy, that I was not gonna make it"
I am moving past these feelings, and it's crazy. If you're feeling like that still, trust me, it will go away someday.
@SamClarkschannel
This song gives me the strangest nostalgia and feelings I buried years ago.
@Friditha
It does.
@maisademartine1395
yep!
@joshyh3208
So you killed someone and buried them in the suburbs?
@leonej7519
same!!!! its timeless
@vegaspress
whats nostalgia?
@alexanderchapman1460
This song perfectly captures being trapped in the melancholy of nostalgia. Stuck in the past without realizing it’s “already past.”
@scoot8942
damn bro….
@doomerconsumer
this one hit different 😞
@mrybird4044
Ya hurt my feelings with this comment lmao