Don't Say You're Sorry Again
Aretha Franklin Lyrics


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Please, don't say you're sorry again
Remember our previous saying before
Don't say you're sorry again
You'll only hurt me some more

You take such delight
And you think it's alright
In making me blue
I don't complain
Why I've got to be insane
For stringing along with you

Please, don't, don't say it again
You'll overdo it, overdo it someday
I won't be, I won't believe you and then
There'll be the devil to pay

Well, if that's what you want
Then just say the word
And I'll be on my way
But, please, please, don't say it




Don't say it, don't say it again
Or you'll be sorry someday

Overall Meaning

In "Don't Say You're Sorry Again," Aretha Franklin addresses someone who has repeatedly hurt her and then apologized, asking them to refrain from offering empty apologies anymore. She implores them not to say they're sorry again, as it will only cause more harm. Aretha reminds the person that they have previously discussed this, and that they should not repeat the pattern of causing harm and then seeking forgiveness. She also acknowledges that despite being hurt, she hasn't complained or pushed back, and wonders why she allows herself to continue this cycle.


The second verse highlights the flippancy with which the person treats her feelings, taking "delight" in bringing her pain. Aretha asserts that she is not insane, but rather, has been strung along by this person. The chorus repeats the plea for them to stop saying they're sorry, noting the potential for overuse, insincerity, and the potential resentment that will follow. Aretha reveals that if the person can't stop apologizing, she will have to leave, but she asks them again not to say they're sorry.


One could argue that the song is an anthem for empowerment and self-worth, encouraging listeners to set boundaries and demand respect. The lyrics illustrate the frustration of enduring repeated hurt and empty apologies while still choosing to believe in the sincerity of the relationship. Ultimately, "Don't Say You're Sorry Again" serves as a reminder to take emotional care and to expect healthy boundaries in intimate relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Please, don't say you're sorry again
Remember our previous saying before - don't express regret to me again


Don't say you're sorry again
You'll only hurt me some more by repeating your apology


You take such delight
You find pleasure in causing me pain


And you think it's alright
You believe it's acceptable behavior


In making me blue
In causing me to feel sad and depressed


I don't complain
I don't vocalize my discontent


Why I've got to be insane
I must be crazy to continue putting up with this treatment


For stringing along with you
For allowing you to manipulate and deceive me


You'll overdo it, overdo it someday
If you continue excessively apologizing, it will become insincere and meaningless


I won't be, I won't believe you and then
I won't trust your words and it will cause problems


There'll be the devil to pay
There will be severe consequences to face


Well, if that's what you want
If your intention is to push me away


Then just say the word
Just tell me what you want


And I'll be on my way
I'll leave you alone


But, please, please, don't say it
However, I don't want to hear repeated apologies


Don't say it, don't say it again
Don't apologize anymore


Or you'll be sorry someday
If you continue causing me pain, you will face consequences




Writer(s): West, Berman, Pear

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