I'm Trying To Overcome
Aretha Franklin Lyrics


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I tried to make you happy
And you were feeling sad
Tried to help you forget
All the hearts ships you bad

See you with another woman (Woman)
Always gets the best of me (Woman, woman)
You've got to show me this is the way that life is supposed to be, yeah

Sometimes is hard (Yes, it is)
For a woman to love a man (Woman)
I'm trying to overcome, yes, I am (Yes I am)
Trying to understand

I don't wanna be second best
I wanna be number one
For standing on these wide lands
People, Lord, let me tell you it ain't much fun

Sometimes a woman (Woman)
Has got pains that she can't tell (Woman, woman)
I've gotta find a way to break the spell

Sometimes is hard (Yes, it is)
For a woman to love a man (Woman)
I'm trying to overcome, yes I am (Yes, I am)
Trying everyday to understand

You may lie so better
But, oh, sometimes you make it so doggone sweet
Sometimes my mind is too hard (Yes, it is)
So hard (so hard, Yes, it is)

It's too hard (so hard, Yes, it is)
So hard to be (so hard)

Sometimes is hard (Yes, it is)
For a woman to love a man (Woman)
I'm trying to overcome (Yes I am)
Trying to do the best I can

Sometimes it's too hard (Yes, it is, so hard)
So hard (Yes, it is, so hard)
It's too hard (Yes, it is, so hard)
So hard, Yes, it is (so hard)

Sometimes is hard, Yes, it is (Yes, it is)
For a woman to love a man (Love, Yes, it is)
I'm trying to overcome (Love)
(For a woman to love a man) Trying to understand, yeah

(Yes, it is) Yes, it is
(So hard) So hard
(For a woman to love a man) For a woman to love a man, yeah
(Yes, it is) Yes, it is

(So hard) So hard
(For a woman to love a man) For a woman to love a, yeah




(Yes, it is) Yes, it is
(So hard) So hard

Overall Meaning

In "I'm Trying to Overcome," Aretha Franklin addresses the challenges that come with loving a man. She has tried to make him happy when he is feeling sad and tried to help him forget the hurt that he experienced in his past relationships. However, despite her efforts, he ends up with another woman, and it always gets the best of her. Aretha acknowledges that sometimes, it is hard for a woman to love a man but is determined to overcome the difficulties she faces each day.


Aretha Franklin also implies that it is not just the man who struggles but the woman as well. She sings about how sometimes, a woman has pains that she cannot tell anyone. Her mind is often too hard, and it can be tough to be a woman standing on these wide lands. Aretha admits that she does not want to be second best but wants to be number one. She wants to find a way to break the spell and overcome the challenges of loving a man.


This song is a powerful expression of the struggles that come with love and relationships. Aretha Franklin's powerful voice delivers the hopeful message that even though it can be hard to love someone, with determination and understanding, one can overcome any obstacle.


Line by Line Meaning

I tried to make you happy
I made an effort to bring joy to your life


And you were feeling sad
But unfortunately, you were unhappy


Tried to help you forget
I attempted to aid you in moving past


All the hearts ships you bad
The heartbreak and pain that you endured


See you with another woman (Woman)
Watching you with another person


Always gets the best of me (Woman, woman)
Always affects me in the worst way


You've got to show me this is the way that life is supposed to be, yeah
You need to demonstrate that this is the natural order of things


Sometimes is hard (Yes, it is)
At times, it is difficult


For a woman to love a man (Woman)
For a woman to have love for a man


I'm trying to overcome, yes, I am (Yes I am)
I'm striving to triumph over it, indeed I am


Trying to understand
I'm attempting to grasp it all


I don't wanna be second best
I don't wish to be the second choice


I wanna be number one
I aspire to be the first priority


For standing on these wide lands
Enduring in this vast world


People, Lord, let me tell you it ain't much fun
I must let you know, it's not very enjoyable


Sometimes a woman (Woman)
Occasionally a woman


Has got pains that she can't tell (Woman, woman)
Experiences aches that she can't articulate


I've gotta find a way to break the spell
I need to discover a method to overcome this obstacle


You may lie so better
You may deceive much more cleverly


But, oh, sometimes you make it so doggone sweet
However, occasionally you make it so overwhelmingly delightful


Sometimes my mind is too hard (Yes, it is)
At times, my thoughts are too difficult to manage


So hard (so hard, Yes, it is)
Very difficult


It's too hard (so hard, Yes, it is)
It's excessively tough


So hard to be (so hard)
So challenging to exist


Trying to do the best I can
Doing my utmost


Sometimes it's too hard (Yes, it is, so hard)
Occasionally, it's excruciatingly arduous


For a woman to love a man (Love, Yes, it is)
For a woman to be in love with a man, it certainly is


I'm trying to overcome (Love)
I'm attempting to rise above it all with love


(For a woman to love a man) Trying to understand, yeah
Trying to comprehend, indeed


(Yes, it is) Yes, it is
Indeed, it is


(So hard) So hard
So challenging


(For a woman to love a man) For a woman to love a man, yeah
For a woman to love a man, indeed


(Yes, it is) Yes, it is
Surely, it is


(So hard) So hard
Very difficult


(For a woman to love a man) For a woman to love a, yeah
For a woman to have love for someone, sure


(Yes, it is) Yes, it is
Of course, it is


(So hard) So hard
Very tough




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DOPE GIRL ENTERTAINMENT

This should have a billion views. People just don't know great music.

Thefunksoulbro

It would be boring if we were all the same. But I agree 🤣🤣

J. West

The background vocals on this song are AMAZING!

Honey327

Now, this is my kind of music right here. Real life put to music.

Pius Twelvetrees

For most singers, this performance would be the highlight of her/his career. For Aretha, this track wasn't even released until decades after she recorded it. She's on an entirely different plane.

Pius Twelvetrees

Has any singer ever imparted such palpable feeling into her/his music? That voice is incredible!

Thefunksoulbro

Very big question.

Howard Gaston

Never!

EveTheNine

Ladies and Gents... She laid this track DOWN!

Ansray Thomas

RIP legend

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