Love The One You're With
Aretha Franklin Lyrics


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When you're down, and confused
And you don't remember who you been talking to
Concentration, slips away
Because your baby, is so far away

Well there's a rose in the fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
And if you can't be with the one you love, honey
Love the one you're with
Love the one you're with

Don't be angry, don't be sad
When you sit down and think about
All those good times that we've had
There's a girl, right next to you
And she's just waiting, for something to do

Well there's a rose in the fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
And if you can't be with the one you love
Love the one you're with
Love the one you're with

Do doot doot doot doot doot doot doot
Do doot doot doot doot doot doot doot
Do do doot, Do do doot

Turn your heartache, right into joy
She's a girl, and you're a boy




Get it together and make it nice
You ain't gonna need no more advice

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "Love The One You're With" by Aretha Franklin, speak to the idea of being present in the moment and appreciating what you have. The song acknowledges the feeling of being lost and confused when separated from the one you love. The emphasis is on not dwelling on that feeling and instead finding joy in the company of others around you. The chorus repeats the phrase "Love the one you're with," encouraging the listener to embrace the person with them, appreciate the good times, and turn heartache into joy, leaving no need for advice. The song's message can be interpreted as a call to live in the present and cherish those around you, rather than focusing on unattainable desires.


One interesting fact about "Love The One You're With" is that it was written by musician Stephen Stills of the folk-rock group Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young. The song was included on his self-titled debut solo album, released in 1970. Aretha Franklin's version was released a year later, in 1971. The song enjoyed commercial success, peaking at #19 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart.


Another interesting fact about the song is that it has been covered by numerous artists, including Luther Vandross, The Isley Brothers, Gladys Knight & The Pips, and Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young. The song's longevity and popularity can be attributed to its relatable and timeless message.


"Love The One You're With" has been used in various films and television shows, including an episode of the popular television series, Grey's Anatomy. The song has also been used in advertising campaigns for companies such as Microsoft and Mazda.


The chords for "Love The One You're With" are as follows:


Intro: Dm7 G7 (x2)


Verse 1:
Dm7 G7
When you're down, and confused
Dm7 G7
And you don't remember who you been talking to
Dm7 G7
Concentration, slips away
Dm7 G7
Because your baby, is so far away


Chorus:
Dm7 G7
Well there's a rose in the fisted glove
Dm7 G7
And the eagle flies with the dove
Dm7 G7
And if you can't be with the one you love, honey
Dm7 G7
Love the one you're with
Dm7 G7
Love the one you're with


Verse 2:
Dm7 G7
Don't be angry, don't be sad
Dm7 G7
When you sit down and think about
Dm7 G7
All those good times that we've had
Dm7 G7
There's a girl, right next to you
Dm7 G7
And she's just waiting, for something to do


(Chorus)


Bridge:
Em7 A7
Turn your heartache, right into joy
Em7 A7
She's a girl, and you're a boy
Em7 A7
Get it together and make it nice
Em7 A7
You ain't gonna need no more advice


(Chorus x2)


Line by Line Meaning

When you're down, and confused
When you're feeling low and indecisive


And you don't remember who you been talking to
And you can't recall the conversations you've had


Concentration, slips away
Your focus starts to wane


Because your baby, is so far away
Because the person you love is far from you


Well there's a rose in the fisted glove
There is good to be found in difficult situations


And the eagle flies with the dove
Even opposites can come together


And if you can't be with the one you love, honey
And if you can't be with the one you truly adore,


Love the one you're with
Learn to love the person you're currently with


Don't be angry, don't be sad
Don't feel upset or frustrated


When you sit down and think about
If you take a moment to reflect


All those good times that we've had
On all of the great experiences we've shared


There's a girl, right next to you
There's someone nearby who cares for you


And she's just waiting, for something to do
And she's waiting for you to reciprocate her affection


Turn your heartache, right into joy
Try to shift from distress to happiness


She's a girl, and you're a boy
You and the person beside you are romantically compatible


Get it together and make it nice
Pull yourself together and cultivate a positive atmosphere


You ain't gonna need no more advice
You won't require any further guidance




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