You Don't Know Me
Ariana Grande Lyrics


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Center of attention once again
They don't understand
They don't understand
Then they try to tell me who I am
They don't understand
They don't understand

You want a perfect picture to believe in
Then you can't be looking for me then

I don't need to live by your rules, you don't control me
Until you've walked a mile in my shoes, you don't know me
And I know, I know, I know you don't like it
You don't, you don't, you don't know where I've been
It's my life so truth be told
(I see you thinking but there's just one thing clear
You think you know but you don't have no idea
Think you know me but there's more to see my love)

The same arguments time and time again
And you watched them all happen
But they don't understand
Thinkin' you're the reason that it ends
And he won't be back again
But they don't understand, no

You want a perfect picture to believe in
Then you can't be looking for me then

I don't need to live by your rules, you don't control me
Until you've walked a mile in my shoes, you don't know me
And I know, I know, I know you don't like it
You don't, you don't, you don't know where I've been
It's my life so truth be told
You don't know me

The girl you see in photographs is only
A part of the one I am, don't judge me
'Cause that's not reality and all I can be
Is in love with who I'm becoming

(Think you know me but there's more to see my love
You think you know but you don't have no idea)

I don't need to live by your rules, you don't control me
Until you've walked a mile in my shoes, you don't know me
And I know, I know, I know you don't like it
You don't, you don't, you don't know where I've been
It's my life so truth be told
You don't know me

I don't need to live by your rules, you don't control me
Until you've walked a mile in my shoes, you don't know me
And I know, I know, I know you don't like it
You don't, you don't, you don't know where I've been
It's my life so truth be told
(I see you thinking but there's just one thing clear




You think you know but you don't have no idea
Think you know me but there's more to see my love)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ariana Grande's song "You Don't Know Me" revolve around the theme of judgment and misperceptions. The song talks about how people tend to judge her based on their preconceived notions and assumptions, without really knowing her or understanding her struggles. The song also highlights the pressure put on celebrities to fit into a certain 'perfect' image, and how this can be suffocating and unachievable.


The first verse talks about how Ariana Grande is often in the center of attention, but people around her fail to understand her struggles. They try to tell her who she is, without really knowing her. This can be particularly frustrating, as people tend to make assumptions based on the persona she presents in public, which is often very different from her true self. The chorus emphasizes the fact that people tend to judge her without really understanding her struggles, and that only those who have walked in her shoes truly know her.


The second verse highlights the same theme from a different perspective. Ariana Grande talks about how people tend to blame her for issues in their own relationships, without really understanding her side of the story. She also talks about the pressure to maintain a perfect image, and how this can be suffocating. The bridge of the song emphasizes the fact that people tend to see only a part of her, and judge her based on that alone. This is particularly relevant in the age of social media, where people tend to present only their best selves online.


Line by Line Meaning

Center of attention once again
I am in the spotlight once more


They don't understand
Others do not comprehend my situation


Then they try to tell me who I am
They attempt to define me


You want a perfect picture to believe in Then you can't be looking for me then
If you seek perfection, do not look to me


I don't need to live by your rules, you don't control me
I am free to live my life on my own terms


Until you've walked a mile in my shoes, you don't know me
You cannot truly understand me until you have experienced my life


And I know, I know, I know you don't like it You don't, you don't, you don't know where I've been It's my life so truth be told
I am aware that you do not approve of my choices, but it is my life to live


(I see you thinking but there's just one thing clear You think you know but you don't have no idea Think you know me but there's more to see my love)
I understand that you believe you understand me, but there is much more to me than you realize


The same arguments time and time again And you watched them all happen But they don't understand Thinkin' you're the reason that it ends And he won't be back again But they don't understand, no
We always argue about the same things, and you have witnessed it all, but you still do not comprehend the situation. You believe you caused the end of our relationship and think he will not return, but you do not know the whole story.


The girl you see in photographs is only A part of the one I am, don't judge me 'Cause that's not reality and all I can be Is in love with who I'm becoming
The girl in the pictures is just one aspect of me. Do not judge me based on that, as that is not who I truly am. All I can do is love who I am becoming.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: HARMONY SAMUELS, MAURICE WADE, CARMEN REECE, AL SHERROD LAMBERT

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on Love Me Harder

Tell me something I need to know
Then take my breath and never let it go
If you just let me invade your space
I'll take the pleasure, take it with the pain

And if in the moment, I bite my lip
Baby, in that moment, you'll know this is
Something bigger than us and beyond bliss
Give me a reason to believe it


'Cause if you want to keep me
You gotta, gotta, gotta, gotta
Got to love me harder
And if you really need me
You gotta, gotta, gotta, gotta
Got to love me harder
(Lo-love me harder)

Ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh
Love me, love me, love me
Ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh
Harder, harder, harder

I know your motives and you know mine
The ones that love me, I tend to leave behind
If you know about me and choose to stay
Then take this pleasure and take it with the pain

And if in the moment you bite your lip
When I get you moaning, you know it's real
Can you feel the pressure between your hips?
I'll make it feel like the first time

'Cause if you want to keep me
You gotta, gotta, gotta, gotta
Got to love me harder
(I'ma love you harder)
And if you really need me
You gotta, gotta, gotta, gotta
Got to love me harder (love me, baby, love me)
(Lo-love me harder)

Ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh
Love me, love me, love me
Ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh
Harder, harder, harder (oh)
Ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh
Love me, love me, love me
Ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh
Harder, harder, harder (you gotta love me harder)

So what do I do if I can't figure it out? (Figure it out)
You got to try, try, try again, yeah (whoa)
So what do I do if I can't figure it out? (Figure it out)
I'm gonna leave, leave, leave again

'Cause if you want to keep me
You gotta, gotta, gotta, gotta
Got to love me harder
(I'ma love you, love you, love)
And if you really need me
You gotta, gotta, gotta, gotta
Got to love me harder
(Got to love me, baby)
'Cause if you want to keep me
You gotta, gotta, gotta, gotta
Got to love me harder
(Love me harder)
And if you really need me
You gotta, gotta, gotta, gotta (I'ma do it, do it, do it)
Got to love me harder
(I'ma love you harder, hey)

Ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh
Love me, love me, love me (love me)
Ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh
Harder, harder, harder
(Boy, you gotta love me, love me, baby)
Love me, love me, love me
(Just a little bit harder, harder, baby)
Harder, harder, harder

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