boyfriend
Ariana Grande & Social House Lyrics


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I'm a motherfuckin' train wreck
I don't wanna be too much
But I don't wanna miss your touch
And you don't seem to give a fuck
I don't wanna keep you waiting
But I do just what I have to do
And I might not be the one for you
But you ain't about to have no boo, 'cause

I know we be so complicated
But we be so smitten, it's crazy
I can't have what I want, but neither can you

You ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend)
But you don't want me to see nobody else
And I don't want you to see nobody
But you ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend)
But you don't want me to touch nobody else (nobody)
Baby, we ain't gotta tell nobody

Even though you ain't mine
I promise the way we fight
Make me honestly feel like we just in love
'Cause, baby, when push comes to shove
Damn, baby, I'm a train wreck, too (too)
I lose my mind when it comes to you
I take time with the ones I choose
And I don't want a smile if it ain't from you, yeah

I know we be so complicated
Lovin' you sometimes drive me crazy
'Cause I can't have what I want and neither can you (no, no)

You ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend)
But you don't want me to see nobody else
And I don't want you to see nobody
But you ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend)
But you don't want me to touch nobody else (nobody)
Baby, we ain't gotta tell nobody

I wanna kiss you (yeah), don't wanna miss you (yeah)
But I can't be with you 'cause I got issues (no)
Yeah, on the surface, seem like it's easy
Careful with words, but it's still hard to read me
Stress high when the trust low (mmh)
Bad vibes, where'd the fun go? (Ohh)
Try to open up and love more (love more)
Try to open up and love more

If you were my boyfriend
And you were my girlfriend
I probably wouldn't see nobody else
But I can't guarantee that by myself

You ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend, you ain't my boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend, I ain't your girlfriend)
But you don't want me to see nobody else (nobody)
And I don't want you to see nobody
But you ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend, you know you ain't my boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend, yeah, mmh)
But you don't want me to touch nobody else (nobody)
Baby, we ain't gotta tell nobody (oh yeah)

You ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend)
But you don't want me to see nobody else
And I don't want you to see nobody
But you ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend, yeah)




But you don't want me to touch nobody else (nobody)
Baby, we ain't gotta tell nobody

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Ariana Grande's song Boyfriend describe a complicated relationship with a person that is not officially their partner. The singer recognizes that they're a "train wreck" and doesn't want to be too much, but at the same time, they don't want to miss this person's touch. The other person doesn't seem to give a damn, and although the singer doesn't want to keep them waiting, she does what she has to do. The singer acknowledges that they're complicated, but smitten, and even though they can't have each other, they don't want anyone else to take their place either.


The chorus repeats the idea that the singer and the other person aren't dating, but they also don't want to see anyone else. They recognize that they're not each other's boyfriend or girlfriend, but they also don't want to tell anyone about their complicated situation. The second verse emphasizes how crazy the situation is, as it's a rollercoaster of emotions that make it hard to read the other person's mind. However, the singer is trying to love more and work on their trust issues, even though it's not an easy challenge.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm a motherfuckin' train wreck
I'm a disaster of a person.


I don't wanna be too much
I don't want to come on too strong.


But I don't wanna miss your touch
I don't want to miss the way you make me feel.


And you don't seem to give a fuck
And you don't seem to care about my feelings.


I don't wanna keep you waiting
I don't want to make you wait for me.


But I do just what I have to do
But I only do what I need to do for myself.


And I might not be the one for you
And I might not be the right person for you.


But you ain't about to have no boo, 'cause
But you're not going to have anybody else either.


I know we be so complicated
Our relationship is so complicated.


But we be so smitten, it's crazy
But we are so in love, it's insane.


I can't have what I want, but neither can you
Neither of us can have what we truly want.


You ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
We're not officially in a relationship.


And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend)
We're not committed to each other.


But you don't want me to see nobody else
But you don't want me to date anyone else.


And I don't want you to see nobody
And I don't want you to date anyone else either.


But you ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
We're not officially in a relationship, even if it feels like we are.


And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend)
We're not committed to each other, even if it feels like we are.


But you don't want me to touch nobody else (nobody)
But you don't want me to be intimate with anyone else.


Baby, we ain't gotta tell nobody
We don't have to tell anyone about our arrangement.


Even though you ain't mine
Even though we're not officially together.


I promise the way we fight
I promise that our fights make me feel like we're in love.


Make me honestly feel like we just in love
It honestly makes me feel like we're in love.


'Cause, baby, when push comes to shove
Because when it comes down to it,


Damn, baby, I'm a train wreck, too (too)
I'm a disaster of a person as well.


I lose my mind when it comes to you
I can't control my emotions when it comes to you.


I take time with the ones I choose
I'm selective about who I spend my time with.


And I don't want to smile if it ain't from you, yeah
And I don't want to be happy if it's not with you.


Lovin' you sometimes drive me crazy
Loving you can drive me crazy at times.


'Cause I can't have what I want and neither can you (oh no)
Because neither of us can have what we really want.


I wanna kiss you (yeah), don't wanna miss you (yeah)
I want to be close to you and never miss a moment with you.


But I can't be with you 'cause I got issues
But I can't be with you because of my personal problems.


Yeah, on the surface, seem like it's easy
To outsiders, our situation seems simple.


Careful with words, but it's still hard to read me
I'm careful about what I say, but it's still hard to understand me.


Stress high when the trust low (mmh)
When trust is low, stress levels are high.


Bad vibes, where'd the fun go? (Ohh)
There are negative feelings between us, and the fun has disappeared.


Try to open up and love more (love more)
I'm trying to let down my guard and love more freely.


If you were my boyfriend
If we were officially in a relationship.


And you were my girlfriend
If we were officially committed to each other.


I probably wouldn't see nobody else
I wouldn't date anyone else if we were together.


But I can't guarantee that by myself
But I can't promise that without you being committed as well.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, RESERVOIR MEDIA MANAGEMENT INC
Written by: Ariana Grande, Charles Anderson, Edgar Barrera, Michael Foster, Steven Franks, Tommy Brown

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Her ponytail gets an upgrade everytime she releases a song

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