Talk To Her
Arie India Lyrics


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[Chorus]
When you talk to her, talk to her
Like you want somebody to talk to your mama
Don't get smart with her, have a heart to heart
With her just like you would with your daughter
Cause everything you do or say
You got to live with it everyday
She's somebody's baby
She's somebody's sister
She's somebody's mama

Now when you go to her, speak truthfully
Be honest as you can be from your heart
You're in a situation where ya losing patience
Take some time and look her in the eye
When you just can't find the words you want
And it's hard to reach the point
Where you both can understand
Don't just tell the truth
But tell the whole truth
It'll make a better man outta you

[Chorus]

It doesn't matter if she's wearin'
A mini skirt or a business suit
Whether she's twenty-five or ninety-nine
Treat her the way your mama taught you to
She could be the queen of Sheba
She could be a schoolteacher
Home maker or a lawyer
I think it's good for your Karma
Like when you talk to her

[Chorus]

Now, let's keep it real
Nothing in this world could ever exist
Without its opposite
There has to be a sun and a moon
A man and a woman
And that's just the way it is
Humanity's lop-sided
And everybody's fighting
How do we restore the peace?
Mother Earth is hurting
'Cause everyone is searching
For the feminine energy

When you talk to her, talk to her
Like you want somebody to
Talk to your nana
Watch your mouth, yeah, yeah
Don't get smart with her, have
Heart to heart
With her just like you would
With your daughter
'Cause everything you do or say
You got to live with it everyday
She's somebody's baby
She's somebody's sister
She's somebody's mama

When you talk to her, talk to her
Like you want somebody to talk to your mama
Just like you fight for your sister
If you know that somebody dissed her
How you gonna care for your daughter
Turn around and talk bad 'bout her mama?
Same way you listen to your auntie
Never interrupts while you speak
Make your words sweet like candy
As if you were talking to your granny, yeah
If you really love her, then
(Say so)
If you really need her, then
(Say so)
You love the way she thinks
(Say so)
You love the way she speaks
(Say so)
When you need some good conversation
(Say so)
(Say so)
If you want her in your life
(Say so)
You want her to be your wife
(Say so)
You'll be there to the end
(Say so)
If you're thinking 'bout leaving
(Say so)
If you wonder where she's going
(Say so)
If you need to grieve with her
(Say so)
You just want to be with her
(Say so)
If you love her hair
(Say so)
If you want her there
(Say so)
Tell me if you really want her
(Say so)




You want to slap her down
(Say so)

Overall Meaning

The song "Talk to Her" by Arie India is a powerful reminder of the importance of treating women with respect and honor. The chorus conveys the message that when a man talks to a woman, he should speak to her in the same way that he would speak to his mother or daughter. The lyrics remind men to be honest, patient, and kind with the women in their lives. The first verse encourages men to speak truthfully and to take the time to truly understand and connect with the women they care about. The second verse speaks to the importance of treating women with dignity and respect, regardless of their age, profession, or appearance. The final verse notes the importance of balancing the masculine and feminine energies in the world and encourages men to speak to women with love and kindness.


Overall, "Talk to Her" is a beautiful and important song about treating women with love and respect. It reminds men to be honest, patient, and kind in their interactions with women and to treat them as they would their own mothers, sisters, and daughters.


Line by Line Meaning

When you talk to her, talk to her Like you want somebody to talk to your mama
Address her with respect, kindness, and understanding as you would talk to your mother


Don't get smart with her, have a heart to heart With her just like you would with your daughter
Be sincere, caring, and compassionate when communicating with her like you would with your own daughter


Cause everything you do or say You got to live with it everyday She's somebody's baby She's somebody's sister She's somebody's mama
Remember that your actions and words have consequences that you must live with every day as she is someone's child, sibling, or parent


Now when you go to her, speak truthfully Be honest as you can be from your heart
Be truthful and honest when approaching her, expressing what you genuinely feel from your heart


You're in a situation where ya losing patience Take some time and look her in the eye
If you're feeling frustrated and losing patience, take a moment to make eye contact with her and connect personally


When you just can't find the words you want And it's hard to reach the point Where you both can understand Don't just tell the truth But tell the whole truth It'll make a better man outta you
If you're struggling to express your message, take the time to communicate effectively with full honesty and integrity, which will improve you as a person


It doesn't matter if she's wearin' A mini skirt or a business suit Whether she's twenty-five or ninety-nine Treat her the way your mama taught you to She could be the queen of Sheba She could be a schoolteacher Home maker or a lawyer I think it's good for your Karma
Regardless of her appearance and social status, treat her with utmost respect and dignity as your mother taught you, it will bring you good karma


Now, let's keep it real Nothing in this world could ever exist Without its opposite There has to be a sun and a moon A man and a woman And that's just the way it is Humanity's lop-sided And everybody's fighting
Let's be honest, the world needs both male and female energies, and fighting over differences is imbalanced


How do we restore the peace? Mother Earth is hurting 'Cause everyone is searching For the feminine energy
To bring peace, we need to balance feminine energy globally, as Mother Earth is currently suffering, and many seek more of that energy


When you talk to her, talk to her Like you want somebody to Talk to your nana Watch your mouth, yeah, yeah Don't get smart with her, have Heart to heart
Speak to her respectfully and politely as you would talk to your grandma, and mind your words and attitude, communicating your heart and mind effectively


With her just like you would With your daughter 'Cause everything you do or say You got to live with it everyday She's somebody's baby She's somebody's sister She's somebody's mama
Approach her with a caring and loving attitude as you would with your daughter, recognizing that your words and actions will have a long-term impact, as she is someone's sibling and child


If you really love her, then (Say so) If you really need her, then (Say so) You love the way she thinks (Say so) You love the way she speaks (Say so) When you need some good conversation (Say so) (Say so) If you want her in your life (Say so)
If you genuinely love and appreciate her, share your feelings and thoughts honestly. Whether you want her to be your companion, friend or lover, express your thoughts and intentions clearly


You want her to be your wife (Say so) You'll be there to the end (Say so) If you're thinking 'bout leaving (Say so) If you wonder where she's going (Say so) If you need to grieve with her (Say so) You just want to be with her (Say so)
If you see her as your life partner, promise to be with her forever. When you feel confused, lost or sad, express your emotions clearly, and let her know your intentions or how much you value her presence in your life


If you love her hair (Say so) If you want her there (Say so) Tell me if you really want her (Say so) You want to slap her down (Say so)
Be honest and specific in expressing your admiration for her, concerning even small yet intimate details, such as her hair. Conversely, express your ill intentions or aggression, such as wanting to hurt her or mistreating her




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