Virtual Friend
Armin van Buuren Lyrics


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Autumn leaves we treat as litter
People living on a bench
Childhood friends who lost contact
Fallen soldiers in a trench

By the way are you watching?
How the world says goodbye
Autumn leaves we treat as litter
People living on a bench
Childhood friends who lost contact
Fallen soldiers in a trench

By the way are you watching?
How the world says goodbye

Plastic islands in the ocean
Violent storms drop atom bombs
Hidden women walking slowly
Desperate men sing sacred songs

By the way are you watching?
How the world says goodbye
By the way are you watching?
How the world says goodbye

City boy selling countries
Surgeons lifting sagging skin
Sitting by software windows
Trying to find a virtual friend





By the way are you watching?
How the world says farewell

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Armin van Buuren's song "Virtual Friend" paint a picture of disconnectedness and the shortcomings of the modern world. The repeated stanza of "autumn leaves we treat as litter, people living on a bench, childhood friends who lost contact, fallen soldiers in a trench" highlights how people have become desensitized to their surroundings and fellow human beings, creating a world where even the most tragic or beautiful things go unnoticed. The repetition reinforces that these individuals and their experiences are no longer given the recognition or respect they deserve.


The second stanza goes on to detail more human-made tragedies that go unnoticed by the world. Plastic islands in the ocean, violent storms dropping atom bombs, and hidden women walking slowly are all examples of the ways we have destroyed the planet, our empathy, and our connections with each other. The haunting repetition of "by the way are you watching, how the world says goodbye" serves as a reminder of the apathy that has become normalized in our society.


The last stanza focuses on the isolation and loneliness that arise from this disconnection. The "city boy selling countries" is an image of someone caught up in the rat race, trying to make their mark in a world where everyone else is also struggling. The surgeons lifting sagging skin also highlights our preoccupation with appearances that come at the expense of deeper connections. The final line, "trying to find a virtual friend," underscores the stark reality that many people today struggle to find authentic connections, and thus resort to superficial ones.


Line by Line Meaning

Autumn leaves we treat as litter
We carelessly discard nature's beauty and value.


People living on a bench
We ignore the homeless and don't acknowledge their suffering.


Childhood friends who lost contact
We let precious relationships slip away due to our busy modern lives.


Fallen soldiers in a trench
We often forget the sacrifices made by brave soldiers who died for our freedom.


By the way are you watching?
Are you paying attention to what's happening around you?


How the world says goodbye
The various tragic and unfortunate events that symbolize the end of humanity.


Plastic islands in the ocean
We have polluted the ocean with plastic to the extent of creating islands of plastic waste.


Violent storms drop atom bombs
Nature can be destructive with uncontrollable storms and disasters, much like an atomic bomb.


Hidden women walking slowly
Women still face discrimination and unequal treatment, often going unnoticed as they struggle in silence.


Desperate men sing sacred songs
People often turn to faith in times of despair and hardship.


City boy selling countries
The powerful and wealthy can exert control and influence over nations and people.


Surgeons lifting sagging skin
Our society values youth and beauty, and many resort to surgery to maintain it.


Sitting by software windows
We spend much of our time behind screens, disconnected from the real world.


Trying to find a virtual friend
Despite our constant connectivity, we still feel lonely and seek companionship online.


By the way are you watching?
Are you observing the slow and inevitable decline of humanity?


How the world says farewell
The various negative and disturbing ways that the world will inevitably meet its end.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Downtown Music Publishing, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: ARMIN VAN BUUREN, ARMIN J J D VAN BUUREN, BENNO DE GOEIJ, GUY CHAMBERS

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Comments from YouTube:

@isabelaeyris6932

The best track in the whole Armin van Buuren discography.

@civili666

This song has been my spotify top five 10 years in a row. For some strange sick reason i dont get tired of it and IF i had to chose , that would be the best song/tune ive ever heard in my life.

@juanantonioramirez9809

I totally agree.

@UjjwalGauravRaajSen

The lyrics are a work of poetry. Brilliant.

@jaimesy27

Just found out Mrs Benedict Cumberbatch sang!!

@davidsamy4836

13 years ago and i wish the first day i listen to this art come back

@milanesadepollo7238

2020, this is pure ART ❤️

@700trinity

2021 still going!!!

@MrRihanSaleem

2023 and still on!!!

@Olga_Elis2021

I've just known that Sophie is Cumberbatch's wife! Brilliant voice! Magic. Excellent sound! Applause to Armin and Sophie ❤

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