They Need Us
Arnej Lyrics


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Love sees love's happiness
But happiness can't see that love is sad
That love is sad
Sadness is hanging there

To show love somewhere something needs a change
They need a change
They'll need a crane, they'll need a crane
To take the house he built for her apart
To make it break it's gonna take
A metal ball hung from a chain

They'll need a crane, they'll need a crane
To pick the broken ruins up again
To mend her heart, to help him start
To see a world apart from pain

Lad's gal is all he has
Gal's gladness hangs upon the love of lad
The love of lad
Some things gal says to lad aren't meant as bad

But cause a little pain
They cause him pain

They'll need a crane, they'll need a crane
To take the house he built for her apart
To make it break, it's gonna take
A metal ball hung from a chain

They'll need a crane, they'll need a crane
To pick the broken ruins up again
To mend her heart, to help him start
To see a world apart from pain

Don't call me at work again
No no, the boss still hates me
I'm just tired and I don't love you anymore
And there's a restaurant, we should check out
Where the other nightmare people like to go
I mean nice people, baby wait
I didn't mean to say nightmare

Lad looks at other gals
Gal thinks Jim Beam is handsomer than lad
He isn't bad
Call off the wedding band

Nobody wants to hear that one again
Play that again

They'll need a crane, they'll need a crane
To take the house he built for her apart
To make it break, it's gonna take
A metal ball hung from a chain

They'll need a crane, they'll need a crane
To pick the broken ruins up again
To mend her heart, to help him start
To see a world apart from pain

They'll need a crane, they'll need a crane
They'll need a crane, they'll need a crane
They'll need a crane, they'll need a crane




They'll need a crane, they'll need a crane
They'll need a crane

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Arnej's song They Need Us are a poetic depiction of the intricacies of relationships and the need for change to bring happiness. The first stanza suggests that love sees happiness, but happiness cannot see the sadness that love may be feeling. This sadness is represented by the imagery of it "hanging there" like a heavy weight on the relationship. The chorus then introduces the metaphor of needing a crane to take apart the house that was built for the other person, effectively breaking the relationship down to its ruins. This symbolizes the necessity of tearing down the old patterns and ways of being in order to rebuild something new.


The second verse delves into the specifics of the couple's issues. It describes how Lad's love for Gal is all he has, but Gal's happiness is dependent upon it, and how some of Gal's words cause Lad pain. The chorus repeats, emphasizing the need for a major change to mend their hearts and see a world apart from pain. The final verse offers a glimpse into the couple's communication struggles, as Lad is tired and no longer loves Gal, while also suggesting that there may be a glimmer of hope in finding a restaurant where "nice people" go.


Overall, the lyrics can be interpreted as a call for needed change in a relationship that has become stagnant and painful. It acknowledges the difficulty of such change, but suggests that it is necessary in order to move forward and find happiness.


Line by Line Meaning

Love sees love's happiness
Love can recognize and appreciate the happiness of another person who is also in love


But happiness can't see that love is sad
Even when someone is happy in a relationship, they may not be able to see or understand the sadness or pain that their partner is experiencing


That love is sad
The love that was once happy is now experiencing sadness or pain


Sadness is hanging there
The sadness or pain is present and affecting the relationship


To show love somewhere something needs a change
In order for the love to be restored and for the couple to be happy again, something needs to be different or change


They need a change
The couple requires a change in order to improve their relationship


They'll need a crane, they'll need a crane
Metaphorically, the couple will need something significant and powerful to help them fix their relationship


To take the house he built for her apart
The couple may need to metaphorically take apart the happy life they have built together in order to see what's wrong and fix it


To make it break it's gonna take
It will take a strong and powerful force to break the happy life the couple has built together in order to change it and improve their relationship


A metal ball hung from a chain
The metaphorical tool required to 'break' the happy life may be something heavy and powerful like a metal ball hung from a chain


To pick the broken ruins up again
After breaking apart their happy life, the couple will need to metaphorically pick up the pieces and start anew


To mend her heart, to help him start
In rebuilding their relationship, it will be important to focus on fixing the issues that caused the sadness or pain and supporting each other through the process


To see a world apart from pain
The goal of fixing their relationship is to create a world where they can live happily and free from the pain or sadness they were previously experiencing


Lad's gal is all he has
The man in the relationship values and cherishes his partner above everything else


Gal's gladness hangs upon the love of lad
The woman's happiness is tied to the love and affection of her partner


The love of lad
The affection and love that the man feels for his partner


Some things gal says to lad aren't meant as bad
Not all of the things that the woman says to her partner are meant to hurt him, even if they do cause him pain


But cause a little pain
Even though the things the woman says weren't intended to hurt him, they still can cause him emotional pain


Don't call me at work again
The singer is asking their partner not to call them at work, possibly because it's causing problems or tension in their relationship


No no, the boss still hates me
The artist is explaining the reason why they don't want to be called at work, possibly because their boss dislikes them and calling could cause problems


I'm just tired and I don't love you anymore
The artist is expressing that they are emotionally drained and may not feel the same love for their partner as they once did


And there's a restaurant, we should check out
The artist is changing the subject, possibly in an attempt to move on from the previous conversation or to distract their partner from discussing their relationship problems


Where the other nightmare people like to go
The singer makes an error in their words, referencing 'nightmare people' instead of 'nice people'


I mean nice people, baby wait
The artist corrects their mistake, clarifying that they meant to suggest that they check out the restaurant where other nice people go


Lad looks at other gals
The man in the relationship appears to be checking out other women


Gal thinks Jim Beam is handsomer than lad
The woman in the relationship thinks that a bottle of Jim Beam is more attractive than her partner


He isn't bad
Despite the woman's thoughts and feelings, she ultimately acknowledges that her partner isn't really a 'bad' person


Call off the wedding band
The couple may no longer be interested in getting married and should possibly consider cancelling their plans


Nobody wants to hear that one again
The artist may be referencing a previous conversation or argument that neither party wants to revisit or discuss again


Play that again
The singer requests to listen to something again, possibly to avoid having to continue discussing anything complicated or emotional




Lyrics © Cloud9
Written by: Arney Secerkadic

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@run_lift_communicate

Why was music so good back in the day?? Does Anything like this exist today??

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Beautiful, love this trance era ❤

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Still rocks in 2024

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I love when an old trance song from years ago randomly comes into my head and I search it up and listen to it. Hnnng

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The comment sections of the best music are often so lonely, it’s nice to see someone in the same boat as you once in a while lol

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2020 still very very classy, what a tune

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Where is this guy lost...I have watched him live too he is incredible.Pure journey.

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