Terrible! How Terrible For The Great City!
As Cities Burn Lyrics


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Am I a monster when I sink my teeth into her
When I don't love her
No, I don't love you
Forgive me darling, but love has nothing to do with this
It has nothing to do with how I can't stop
Until I get what I want from you

This is what real men keep quiet
It doesn't exist if you can hide it behind your teeth
And sleep at night next to your wife
Who you love too much to tell her
You don't love her at all

I just feel as empty as the lungs
Of those waiting in the womb
Do you feel as empty as the lungs of those waiting
To come into this world
Where being beautiful means being used

How long will we blame the devils on our shoulders




And pose like angels on the outside
When all I am is a monster

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to As Cities Burn's song Terrible! How Terrible For The Great City! explore the theme of toxic masculinity and the way that men are conditioned to view women as objects to be used and discarded. The singer of the song is grappling with the fact that he doesn't love the woman he is with, but is still using her for his own fulfillment. He questions whether this makes him a monster, and acknowledges that he is participating in a cycle where the objectification of women is normalized, and beauty is equated with being used.


The lines "This is what real men keep quiet / It doesn't exist if you can hide it behind your teeth" speak to the idea that men are taught to suppress their emotions and behave in destructive ways while still presenting a facade of strength and control. The final lines of the song, "How long will we blame the devils on our shoulders / And pose like angels on the outside / When all I am is a monster" are a powerful indictment of the societal pressure placed on men to maintain a facade of dominance and strength even in the face of their own flaws and insecurities.


Overall, the song is a poignant commentary on the dehumanizing effect of patriarchal attitudes on both men and women, and the need for honest self-reflection in the pursuit of healthy, equal relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Am I a monster when I sink my teeth into her
Questioning whether his actions make him a monster when he treats women as objects


When I don't love her
He acknowledges that he doesn't have any genuine feelings for the woman he is treating this way


No, I don't love you
Reiterating the lack of love he has for the woman he is using


Forgive me darling, but love has nothing to do with this
Asking forgiveness but admitting that his actions have no connection to love


It has nothing to do with how I can't stop
Clarifying that his actions are more about a lack of control than anything else


Until I get what I want from you
Justifying the mistreatment of women by asserting that it is in order to get what he wants


This is what real men keep quiet
Implying that this behavior is unfortunately common and a part of toxic masculinity


It doesn't exist if you can hide it behind your teeth
Insisting that ignoring or hiding the problem makes it feel nonexistent


And sleep at night next to your wife
Highlighting the hypocrisy and dishonesty inherent in this behavior


Who you love too much to tell her
Acknowledging that the man may actually love his partner but still engages in this harmful behavior


You don't love her at all
Repeating the earlier assertion that the man doesn't truly love the woman he is using


I just feel as empty as the lungs
Using a metaphor to describe his sense of emptiness


Of those waiting in the womb
Drawing attention to the vulnerability and innocence of unborn children


Do you feel as empty as the lungs of those waiting
Challenging the listener to empathize with the vulnerable and neglected


To come into this world
Reinforcing the earlier metaphor and highlighting the tragedy of being born into a world where people are treated as objects


Where being beautiful means being used
Condemning the culture that values physical beauty over human connection and worth


How long will we blame the devils on our shoulders
Challenging society to take responsibility for its own toxic behavior instead of passing the blame onto outside forces


And pose like angels on the outside
Observing how people often pretend to be innocent and good when they know that they are not


When all I am is a monster
Concluding with the painful self-awareness that the singer knows he is part of the problem and a perpetrator of harmful behavior




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