Elegy
As I Lay Dying Lyrics


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Did you ever see me or could you even see at all
I looked at your cold white face, so still, so empty
Yet I knew you were at rest
Much more comforted than I

What else could I find to replace who you were
It was the carefree unrestricted love that you never meant to give
You never had the choice
It was your innocence





It was part of who you were
It was the comfort of a friend

Overall Meaning

The first verse of As I Lay Dying's song Elegy presents a scene of mourning, with the singer looking at the face of someone who has passed away. The tone is somber, as the singer wonders if the person ever truly saw them or their surroundings. The coldness of the face is contrasted with the peace of their rest, which offers more comfort than the living narrator can find.


The second verse touches on the difficulty of moving on from the loss of someone, especially if they offered a kind of love that cannot be replaced. The lyrics describe this love as "carefree unrestricted", suggesting that the person who has passed may have been someone who accepted the singer without judgment or condition. There is a sense of regret that this love was not fully appreciated or reciprocated, as the person never had the choice to give it in the first place - it was simply part of their innocent nature. Finally, the verse ends with the suggestion that the comfort of a true friend is still available, despite the loss.


The lyrics of Elegy as a whole convey the complex emotions of grief, including regret and longing. The repetition of the word "comfort" suggests a search for solace in the wake of tragedy, while the use of past tense verbs implies a sense of finality.


Line by Line Meaning

Did you ever see me or could you even see at all
Did you possess the ability to understand me and my emotions?


I looked at your cold white face, so still, so empty
I saw your lifeless body lying motionless and emotionless


Yet I knew you were at rest
Yet, I found solace in knowing that you were finally at peace


Much more comforted than I
You were much more comforted than I was, as you were released from the pain and suffering of this world


What else could I find to replace who you were
What else could I find to fill the void left by your absence from this world


It was the carefree unrestricted love that you never meant to give
It was the pure and unbounded love, which you unconsciously emanated, that I could never replace


You never had the choice
You never had the option to choose whether to give or withhold that love


It was your innocence
It was your natural, uncorrupted state of being


It was part of who you were
It was an innate quality that defined you as a person


It was the comfort of a friend
It was the soothing presence of a companion, which now eludes me




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: EVAN WHITE, JASON KREBS, JORDAN MANCINO, TIMOTHY P. LAMBESIS

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