Don't Need You
Ashanti Lyrics


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(Chorus:)
Baby I don't need you, but I want you so I got you
Got you by my side when things ain't going right
Happy when I see you, but I need to keep it real with you
No relationships, I'm just tryna live

(Verse 1:)
Don't wanna hurt nobody, let me tell you how I feel (tell you how I feel)
Just wanna have somebody I can trust that knows the deal (trust that knows the deal)
Don't wanna make you mad telling you 'bout last night and how much fun I had
Just because I'm not with you I don't need your attitude

(Chorus X2)

(Verse 2:)
The other day you asked why I came home late and who was I with (who was I with)
Don't get me wrong I know you care, but I can't get down with all that questioning
Ooohh I like spending time with you, but don't get the wrong idea
Don't make me your priority cause this settle down now just ain't me

(Chorus x2)

(Bridge:)
Boy don't think I'm here trying to use you, try to confuse you
Just so you know I care a lot about you, happy that I found you
Let's be clear on what we're all about, you gotta figure out
If you want this we gotta know we ain't forming no relationships





(Chorus x2)

Overall Meaning

In "Don't Need You," Ashanti is laying out her perspective on romantic relationships. She tells her partner that even though she doesn't need him, she wants him around as a trusted companion. She's not interested in a traditional relationship, and she doesn't want to be tied down. Ashanti suggests that her partner should take some time to figure out what he wants - if it's not a casual and commitment-free relationship, then they're not going to work out.


The lyrics of the song express an attitude that many people can relate to - the desire for companionship but not at the expense of personal freedom. Ashanti's rejection of traditional relationship constructs provides an alternative that is appealing to many people who value their independence.


It's interesting to note that while the song has a casual, almost apathetic tone, Ashanti's vocal performance conveys a genuine affection for her partner. This juxtaposition creates a sense of emotional complexity that makes the song compelling.



Line by Line Meaning

Baby I don't need you, but I want you so I got you
I have you because I want you, not because I need you


Got you by my side when things ain't going right
I have you by my side for support when things are tough


Happy when I see you, but I need to keep it real with you
I feel happy around you, but I need to be honest with you


No relationships, I'm just tryna live
I am not looking for a committed relationship, I am just living my life


Don't wanna hurt nobody, let me tell you how I feel (tell you how I feel)
I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, so let me be honest with you


Just wanna have somebody I can trust that knows the deal (trust that knows the deal)
I want someone I can trust and who understands my situation


Don't wanna make you mad telling you 'bout last night and how much fun I had
I don't want to make you angry by telling you about my fun experiences without you


Just because I'm not with you I don't need your attitude
Just because I'm not with you doesn't mean I deserve your bad attitude


The other day you asked why I came home late and who was I with (who was I with)
The other day you asked me who I was with and why I came home late


Don't get me wrong I know you care, but I can't get down with all that questioning
I appreciate that you care about me, but I'm uncomfortable with all the questions


Ooohh I like spending time with you, but don't get the wrong idea
I enjoy spending time with you, but don't think it means more than it does


Don't make me your priority cause this settle down now just ain't me
Don't prioritize me because I am not ready to settle down right now


Boy don't think I'm here trying to use you, try to confuse you
I am not here to use you or confuse you


Just so you know I care a lot about you, happy that I found you
I care about you, and I am glad that I found you


Let's be clear on what we're all about, you gotta figure out
Let's be clear about what we want, and you need to decide what you want too


If you want this we gotta know we ain't forming no relationships
If you want to continue with this, we need to be clear that we are not forming a committed relationship




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