The Way I Love U
Ashanti Lyrics


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After all of this time that we tried
I found out we were living a lie
And after all of this love that we made
I know now you don't love me the same

The way that I love
The way that I love you
The way that I love
The way that I love you
The way that I love
The way that I love you

I woke up kinda early today
And something told me from that moment it wouldn't be the same
It felt like you were hiding something
But I didn't push it, I didn't complain or say nothing

I tried to act like I didn't see it
'Cause deep down I knew I didn't want to believe it
But there it was, it was you and her
You left your Sidekick on the nightstand and I read

Everything you bought and everything you said
And now I'm standing here looking like damn
I thought it was you and I
Now I all I got to say is, why?

After all of the time that we tried
I found out we were living a lie
And after all of this love that we made
I know now you don't love me the same

The way that I love
The way that I love you
The way that I love
The way that I love you
The way that I love
The way that I love you

I notice now that when I'm around
You be trying to lock the door, whispering on the phone
Now wait a minute since we been in this house
You ain't never did this before, tell me what's this about?

I tried to sit and say to myself
This here is too good, he don't want nothing else
But there it was, it was you and her
You left your credit card receipt inside the Beamer babe

Everything you bought and everything you spending
Now I'm standing here once again
I thought it was you and I
Now I all I have to say is why?

After all of this time that we tried
I found out we were living a lie
And after all of this love that we made
I know now you don't love me the same

The way that I love
The way that I love you
The way that I love
The way that I love you
The way that I love
The way that I love you

You lied, you lied, oh why?
Why'd you have to lie to me?
Why'd you have to lie to me?
Why'd you have to lie to me?
Why?

After all of this time that we tried
I found out we were living a lie
And after all of this love that we made
I know now you don't love me the same

The way that I love
The way that I love you
The way that I love
The way that I love you




The way that I love
The way that I love you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ashantiโ€™s song โ€œThe Way That I Love Youโ€ narrate the story of someone who has just discovered that their partner has been deceiving them. The opening lines โ€œAfter all of this time that we tried, I found out we were living a lieโ€ set the tone for the rest of the song. The singer has come to the realization that their relationship had been built on dishonesty, and that the love that they thought existed between them was unrequited. The chorus line โ€œthe way that I love youโ€ serves not only as a reminder of the singerโ€™s feelings for their partner, but also as a contrast to the lack of love coming from the other person.


The lyrics go on to describe how the singer started to suspect their partner was hiding something after waking up one day and feeling that things were not the same. The singer noticed her partner being secretive and whispering on the phone, and felt compelled to investigate. The verse โ€œI tried to sit and say to myself, this here is too good, he don't want nothing else but there it was, it was you and herโ€ describes the singerโ€™s disbelief at discovering evidence of their partnerโ€™s infidelity. The chorus repeats, emphasizing the singerโ€™s pain and hurt upon realizing the deception.


The song ends with the lines โ€œYou lied, oh why? Why'd you have to lie to me?โ€ The repeated questions โ€œwhy?โ€ throughout the song imply that the singer may never truly understand why their partner lied to them. Overall, the lyrics of โ€œThe Way That I Love Youโ€ speak to the universal experience of heartbreak after realizing that someone we love doesnโ€™t feel the same way about us.


Line by Line Meaning

After all of this time that we tried
Even after all the time and effort we invested in this relationship


I found out we were living a lie
I finally realized that our relationship was based on a lie


And after all of this love that we made
Despite all the love that we shared


I know now you don't love me the same
I now understand that you don't love me with the same intensity as before


The way that I love
The depth and magnitude of my love towards you


The way that I love you
The only way I know how to love you


I woke up kinda early today
I woke up earlier than usual


And something told me from that moment it wouldn't be the same
I had a feeling that things were about to change


It felt like you were hiding something
I sensed that you were keeping something from me


But I didn't push it, I didn't complain or say nothing
I decided not to confront you about it


Now I'm standing here looking like damn
I am now in a state of shock and disbelief


I thought it was you and I
I believed that we were in this together


I notice now that when I'm around
I have recently become aware that in your presence


You be trying to lock the door, whispering on the phone
You have started to lock the door and whisper on the phone


You left your credit card receipt inside the Beamer babe
You carelessly left behind evidence of your wrongdoing


Everything you bought and everything you spending
All the things you have been spending money on


You lied, you lied, oh why?
I am now certain that you have been lying to me


Why'd you have to lie to me?
I am questioning why you felt the need to deceive me




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Chorus]
After all of the times that we tried
I found out we were living a lie
And after all of this love that we made
I know now you don't love me the same
The way that I love (The way that I love)
The way that I love (The way that I love)
The way that I love (The way that I love you)

[Verse 1]
I woke up kind of early today and something told me from that moment it wouldn't be the same
Felt like you were hiding something, but I didn't push it
I didn't complain or say nothing
I tried to act like I didn't see it
'Cause deep down, I knew I didn't wanna believe it
There it was, it was you and her, you left your sidekick on the nightstand
And I read
[Pre-Chorus]
Everything you did and everything you said
Now I'm standing here looking like damn
I thought it was you and I
Now all I got to say is why

[Chorus]
After all of the times that we tried
I found out we were living a lie
And after all of this love that we made
I know now you don't love me the same
The way that I love (The way that I love)
The way that I love (The way that I love)
The way that I love (The way that I love you)
Ohh, ohh, ohh

[Verse 2]
I notice now that when I'm around you be tryna lock the doors, whispering on the phone
Now wait a minute, since we been in this house, you ain't never did this before
Tell me what's this about, I tried to sit and say to myself
This here is too good, he don't want nothing else
But there it was, it was you and her
You left the credit card receipt inside the beamer with

[Pre-Chorus]
Everything you bought
Everything you spent, now I'm standing here once again
I thought it was you and I, now all I've got to say is
Why

[Chorus]
After all of the times that we tried
I found out we were living a lie
And after all of this love that we made
I know now you don't love me the same
The way that I love (The way that I love)
The way that I love (The way that I love)
The way that I love (The way that I love you)

[Bridge]
Ohh, ohh, ohh
You lied, you lied, oh why, oh why?
Can't, why'd you have to lie to me?
Why'd you have to lie to me?
Why'd you have to lie to me?
Why?

[Chorus]
After all of the times that we tried
I found out we were living a lie
And after all of this love that we made
I know now you don't love me the same
The way that I love (The way that I loved you)
The way that I love (The way that I loved you)
The way that I love (The way that I loved you)

[Outro]
Ohh, whoa, whoa, whoa, ohh



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@adriannabroadway4999

This HITS different when youve been through it

@kcjones7735

Cali In the building, I understand but I ddnt kill my shorty.... Love is Pain & Pain is Love

@lashawn6264

Very true

@Queenkeke101

Honestly ๐Ÿ™‚

@trinaj9749

Mine had another woman and 2 kids he was hiding from me ๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก

@mz.necie1976

Ikr๐Ÿ˜–

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Ladies don't lose your life over one man! JESUS can ALWAYS upgrade you! ๐ŸŽ‰

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YES

@bef-zeye-duh8410

Amen sis ๐Ÿ˜Š

@pyeb.5984

AAAAAMEN๐Ÿ’•

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