Love Me For Me
Ashlee Simpson Lyrics


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Its been three days
You come around here like you know me
Your stuff at my place
Next thing you know, you'll be using my toothpaste
Step up, sit down
Get ready, let me tell you whose the boss now
Stay here, get out
Everytime I turn around you're in my face

Dont care where you think you've been
And how you're getting over.
If you think you got me found just wait it gets much colder

[Chorus]
Here I am
Perfect as I'm ever gonna be
You'll see, love me for me
Stick around
I'm not the kind of girl you wanna leave
You'll see, love me for me

Shut up, come back
No, I didn't really mean to say that
I'm mixed up, so what
Yeah you want me so you're messed up too
I love you, I hate you
If you only knew what I've been through

My head is spinnin but
My heart is in the right place
Sometimes it has to have itself a little earthquake

[Chorus]
Here I am
Perfect as I'm ever gonna be
You'll see, love me for me
Stick around
I'm not the kind of girl you wanna leave
You'll see, love me for me

I've been waiting all my life to finally find you
Just so I can push you away
And when you're crawling over broken glass to get to me
Thats when I'll let you stay

[Chorus]
Uh, here I am
Perfect as I'm ever gonna be
You'll see, love me for me
Stick around
I'm not the kind of girl you wanna leave
You'll see, love me for me

Whoa... love me for me
Whoa...

[Chorus]
Here I am
As perfect as I'm ever gonna be
You'll see, love me for me
Stick around




I'm not the kind of girl you wanna leave
You'll see, love me for me

Overall Meaning

The song "Love for Me" by Ashlee Simpson is about a woman who is trying to assert herself in a relationship. She feels that the man in her life is trying to control her and she is pushing back against that. She is asking the man to accept her for who she is, flaws and all. She tells him that she is not going to change for him and he has to either accept her or leave.


The chorus of the song is particularly powerful, as it conveys the main message of the song. Simpson sings, "Here I am, perfect as I'm ever gonna be, you'll see, love me for me. Stick around, I'm not the kind of girl you wanna leave, you'll see, love me for me." This is a message of self-love and self-acceptance. Simpson is telling the man that she is not going to change to fit his ideal, and he has to accept that if he wants to be with her. She also implies that she is worth sticking around for, and that if he leaves, he will regret it.


Overall, "Love for Me" is a powerful song about standing up for oneself in a relationship and demanding acceptance. It is a message of self-love and self-respect, and it is a great example of Simpson's songwriting skills.


Line by Line Meaning

Its been three days
It hasn't been long since we met


You come around here like you know me
You act familiar with me even though we just met


Your stuff at my place
You leave your belongings at my place


Next thing you know, you'll be using my toothpaste
I fear that you will become too comfortable with me and invade my personal space


Step up, sit down
Take your place and listen to what I have to say


Get ready, let me tell you whose the boss now
Be prepared for me to assert my dominance in this relationship


Stay here, get out
I feel conflicted about your presence in my life


Everytime I turn around you're in my face
I feel suffocated by your constant presence


Dont care where you think you've been
I am indifferent to your past experiences


And how you're getting over.
I am not interested in how you cope with your struggles


If you think you got me found just wait it gets much colder
You may think you know me, but I have layers that you have yet to discover


Here I am
I am presenting myself as I truly am


Perfect as I'm ever gonna be
I am flawed, but I am at my best right now


You'll see, love me for me
I want to be loved for who I am


Stick around
I desire your presence in my life


I'm not the kind of girl you wanna leave
I fear abandonment and rejection


Shut up, come back
I regret what I just said, please stay


No, I didn't really mean to say that
I spoke impulsively and didn't consider the consequences


I'm mixed up, so what
I may be confused, but I am still valuable


Yeah you want me so you're messed up too
You desire me, but you also have your own issues to deal with


I love you, I hate you
My feelings towards you are complex and contradictory


If you only knew what I've been through
You don't fully understand the experiences that have shaped me


My head is spinnin but
I am feeling overwhelmed


My heart is in the right place
I have good intentions and care for you


Sometimes it has to have itself a little earthquake
Growth and change can be difficult and painful


I've been waiting all my life to finally find you
I have been seeking love and companionship for a long time


Just so I can push you away
I fear intimacy and may sabotage this relationship


And when you're crawling over broken glass to get to me
I will make it difficult for you to be with me


Thats when I'll let you stay
If you are persistent and prove yourself, I may open myself up to you




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: SHELLY PEIKEN, JOHN M SHANKS, ASHLEE SIMPSON

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