In ATHENA's world, there's no more brooding over lost loves, working through dramatic break-ups or letting relationship woes get you down. Instead, through the lyrics that comprise her stunningly infectious debut disc, ATHENA chooses to put a more optimistic spin on matters of the heart. "I'd like people to know through my music that relationships that don't work, don't necessarily have to be negative," she conveys. "You can take something positive from every experience and move forth. You can always use the lesson for your next experience, so that you don't make the same mistake." Drawing on both personal experiences and those of people around her, ATHENA takes a detour from the sassy, attitude-laced "battle of the sexes" message that has been prominent in recent Pop/R&B sounds, opting instead to co-write songs for her solo debut that tell "positive stories."
Asked why she chose the title The Art of A Woman, ATHENA responded, "Music is art. Just as a painter uses his brush to paint pictures, a singer uses her voice to sing songs. So I look at each of my songs as a painting. The songs on my CD represent a collection of my art, thus, The Art of A Woman. I don't know what the critics will say, because my art, if you will, represents a diversity of genres. Some may say it's risky. But I trust music lovers and hope there's something for everyone."
What you hear from ATHENA on The Art Of A Woman has an ultimately refreshing tone. Unlike your run of the mill Pop/R&B diva, ATHENA was intimately involved both in the songwriting and recording process, having co-wrote and co-produced nearly every song on the album, including the first single "Hey Hey," a funky club jam on which she shares a writing and production credit. "I'm also very proud of the fact that most of the album was recorded with live instruments," explains Athena. "Live strings, horns, guitars, piano and percussion. You won't find a single sample on the entire album."
With production by such sonic superstars as Rodney Jerkins, with whom she co-wrote the confident and empowering "All I Need Is Me," a track Jerkins produced with a brand new twist on his million dollar sound, Damon Elliot (Destiny's Child) and Steve Rhythm (Pink), ATHENA presents herself as that modern-day young woman who wants the truth -- no matter how much it initially hurts.
On the lush, easy-paced track "Let Me Know," as her sugar-kissed, multi-layered vocals assure, "I'll be fine all by myself/It won't be hard to find someone else." Continuing the legacy of women demanding their props, her sexy, yet assertive "Respect" can't help but seep into your subconscious with its steady-driving, mid-tempo rhythm, while even a bit of hip-hop makes the mix amidst the slick 'n' shifty glide of "Make You Really Wanna."
Yet you'll find her approach to more delicate material just as enthralling. While ATHENA feels that the very personal "Dream Lover" is "just absolutely beautiful," her on-point sense of melody propels the smooth-groovin', Pop/R&B beat balladry of "Take It Out On Me." In a more soul-baring mode, she turns in the nearly angelic, honey-coated profession of love with "You," while "Until You Come Back To Me," with its live string arrangement, and one of ATHENA's favorites, lays it all on the line in the most tender of ways.
ATHENA also found time in between writing and recording her solo debut to record the pivotal track for Paramount Pictures/MTV Films #1 release "Save The Last Dance." Entitled "All or Nothing (Live Your Dreams)," the song is a catchy, up-tempo number included on the movie's accompanying soundtrack. The hugely successful soundtrack is the third consecutive platinum album on which ATHENA has appeared. Her previous two were with her frequent collaborator, Keith Sweat.
Given her track record, it's no small wonder how she managed such a way with a song. For as far back as she can recall, her Kentucky upbringing was filled with a variety of influences, listening to everything from Shirley Caesar, The Winans and Whitney Houston to Aretha Franklin, Stevie Wonder, Dionne Warwick and even Shania Twain. "I just got into listening to everything," she fondly recollects. "Ever since I can recall, I knew that this was the business for me; I just wanted to be a singer as far back as like eight or nine years-old. I remember barricading myself in my room, just listening to the radio all day long. It was in my blood; I just knew from the beginning -- without a doubt -- that this is what I wanted to do."
Though she'd always envisioned herself as a solo singer, steadfast determination found her signed to platinum-selling r&b singer Keith Sweat's Elektra-distributed Keia Records, as a member of girl group Kut Klose. "Kut Klose allowed me to get my feet wet, and see what this business is like," is how she sums the group experience. Though they created quite a buzz with their Surrender LP and "I Like" single, ATHENA would enjoy even greater chart success and notoriety with "Get Up On It" and the unforgettable "Nobody," her Number One, multi-platinum, hit duet with Keith Sweat. In 1998, ATHENA was honored with the prestigious BMI pop Song of the Year award for co-writing "Twisted" with Keith Sweat. "Twisted" was one of the most successful singles of the previous year. The resulting momentum created by her chart success would find her spending nearly two years on the road, touring non-stop.
Resisting the big-city lure of music industry capitals like New York and Los Angeles, ATHENA decided to return to her native Kentucky, where she spends much of her free time writing songs. "This is the part of the country that was basically forgotten in terms of music," ATHENA says. "You think of New York, L.A. and Atlanta, but no one really thinks about what kind of talent is in Kentucky. So, I wanted to come back and base my music companies here in Bowling Green to take advantage of the wealth of musical talent in the area. Another reason is that I enjoy the peacefulness and being around my family. To me, these are the things that keep you grounded. Plus, when I'm home, I'm a bit more introspective. I really dig deep into myself and come up with song ideas." Thus, while she concentrated on the creative, her management team took care of handling the business end. "I knew I wanted to make the transition into being a solo artist," confides ATHENA, "so my management was negotiating with a few companies."
As the old adage goes, "For those who wait, good things do come." For ATHENA, that "good thing" would be a solo recording contract with Priority Records, that "right situation" she'd held out for. For lovers of fresh-feeling contemporary pop and r&b music for the new millennium, that "good thing" comes in the form of The Art Of A Woman. Ecstatic over the prospects of her long-anticipated solo career, ATHENA enthuses, "I just wanted my debut album to be all me, and basically, I've achieved that. In my estimation, we've got a lot of great songs. I'm very excited over how things are going. You could say I'm positive and upbeat about life, the long and short of it."
Respect
Athena Cage Lyrics
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We were so silly in love
But things changed you became possessive
You're not the man I used to know
Why did you change on me
Think about your mama
Before you take me low
That should be the way it goes
I know you're not my daddy
I refuse to be controlled
Treat me with respect
That should be the way it goes (chorus)
Think before you disrespect me
Think before you play your silly games
Think before you scream at me
Think before you call me out my name
You better think about every little thing
That you do to me
Cause a stone'll happen to you
[Chorus]
Think before you cheat on me
Think before you take her home tonight
Think before you say your sorry
Think before it's too late, stop wasting time
Better think about every little thing
That you do to me
'Cause a stone'll happen to you
[Chorus: x 2]
Boy I won't be with you if you won't respect me
Will never happen so you better think
If you treat me right I'm gon make you happy
So you better think
[Chorus: x 2]
The lyrics of Athena Cage's song Respect are about a relationship that started out on a high note but took a negative turn due to possessiveness and disrespect. The song is directed towards the man in the relationship who has changed from the caring and loving person she once knew to someone who is controlling and disrespectful. She implores him to treat her with the respect she deserves and insults will not be tolerated.
The chorus of the song repeats the message that the man needs to think before he disrespects her and engages in hurtful actions such as cheating and calling her out of her name. Athena is steadfast in her resolve to not be in a relationship with someone who won't respect her and lets him know that if he is willing to change and treat her right, she will reciprocate his actions and make him happy.
The lyrics of Respect contains an important message about the importance of respect in a relationship and not tolerating hurtful behavior from a partner. It serves as an anthem for women who demand respect from their partners and refuse to be treated poorly.
Line by Line Meaning
We were like two birds flying so high as the clouds
We were once happily in love and carefree like two birds soaring high above the clouds.
We were so silly in love
Our love was innocent and foolishly blissful.
But things changed you became possessive
Unfortunately, things took a turn and you became controlling and jealous.
You're not the man I used to know
Your behavior and attitude have altered so much that you are no longer the person I fell in love with.
Why did you change on me
I can't understand why you would change your behavior towards me.
Think about your mama
Remember how your mother raised you and how she would want you to treat others.
Before you take me low
Before you bring yourself down to a level where you show disrespect towards me.
Treat me with respect
I demand to be shown respect in our relationship.
That should be the way it goes
Respect should be the foundation of any healthy and loving relationship.
I know you're not my daddy
You may be my partner but you are not my parent or authority figure.
I refuse to be controlled
I will not allow you to manipulate or control me in any way.
Think before you disrespect me
I am warning you to think carefully before you show any form of disrespect towards me.
Think before you play your silly games
Take a moment to reflect on your actions and reconsider playing games that could hurt me or our relationship.
Think before you scream at me
Do not lash out at me verbally without thinking about the impact of your words and actions.
Think before you call me out my name
Do not use derogatory or offensive names to refer to me.
You better think about every little thing
That you do to me
Cause a stone'll happen to you
You need to carefully consider how you treat me and realize that if you continue to show disrespect or mistreat me, there will be consequences.
Think before you cheat on me
Do not act impulsively or cheat on me without considering the damage it could cause.
Think before you take her home tonight
I'm urging you to think carefully before making any physical or emotional infidelities with another person.
Think before you say your sorry
Be truly remorseful for your actions and give a genuine apology instead of repeating the same disrespectful behavior.
Think before it's too late, stop wasting time
Do not wait until it's too late to change your ways or fix our relationship, act now before we reach a point of no return.
Boy I won't be with you if you won't respect me
I am making it clear that if you do not treat me with respect, there is no future for us as a couple.
Will never happen so you better think
I will not tolerate disrespectful behavior and you need to think twice before crossing that line.
If you treat me right I'm gon make you happy
By treating me with respect and kindness, I will reciprocate and we can have a happy and fulfilling relationship.
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CHARLES COLIN, CHARLIE COLIN, ROBERT HOTCHKISS, ROBERT S HOTCHKISS, PAT MONAHAN, JAMES STAFFORD, JAMES W STAFFORD, SCOTT UNDERWOOD, SCOTT MICHAEL UNDERWOOD
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