03 Payin' The Cost To Be The Boss
B.B. King Lyrics


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You act like you don't want to listen
When I'm talking to you
You think you outta do baby
Anything you wanna do
You must be crazy baby
You just gotta be outta your mind
As long as I'm payin' the bills woman
I'm payin' the cost to be the boss

I'll drink if I want to
And play a little poker too
Don't you say nothing to me
As long as I'm taking care of you
As long as I'm workin baby
And payin' all the bills
I don't want no mouth from you
About the way I'm supposed to live
You must be crazy woman
Just gotta be outta your mind
As long as I foot the bills
I'm payin' the cost to be the boss

Now that you got me
You act like you ashamed
You don't act like my woman
You just usin' my name
I tell you I'm gonna have all the money
And I don't want no back-talk
Cause if you don't like the way I'm doin'
Just pick up your things and walk
You gotta be crazy baby
You must be outta your mind




As long as I'm payin' the bills woman
I'm payin' the cost to be the boss

Overall Meaning

In "Paying the Cost to Be the Boss," B.B. King sings about the power dynamic in a romantic relationship, specifically the idea that whoever pays the bills ultimately calls the shots. The song begins with King addressing a partner who seems to ignore him, stating that he is the one in charge as long as he is paying the bills. He then goes on to assert his right to drink and play poker, asking for no judgment as long as he is financially taking care of his partner. King then warns his partner not to act ashamed of him or use his name without respect, saying that he will continue to make money and that she can leave if she doesn't like it.


The song uses a mix of blues and R&B elements, with a slow and steady groove and King's signature powerful vocals. The lyrics themselves touch on themes of power, control, and gender roles, though King's delivery gives the song a sense of confidence and swagger that suggests he is unbothered by his partner's behavior.


Line by Line Meaning

You act like you don't want to listen
When I'm talking to you, you ignore me


When I'm talking to you
During our conversations


You think you outta do baby
You believe you can do whatever you please


Anything you wanna do
Anything that suits your fancy


You must be crazy baby
You seem insane to me


You just gotta be outta your mind
You are acting irrationally


As long as I'm payin' the bills woman
As long as I'm funding our lifestyle


I'm payin' the cost to be the boss
I'm accepting the responsibility of being in charge


I'll drink if I want to
I'll consume alcohol when I desire


And play a little poker too
I'll gamble when it suits me


Don't you say nothing to me
Don't criticize me


As long as I'm taking care of you
As long as I'm providing for you


As long as I'm workin baby
As long as I'm employed


And payin' all the bills
And covering all expenses


I don't want no mouth from you
I don't want you to talk back to me


About the way I'm supposed to live
Regarding how I should conduct my life


You must be crazy woman
You seem insane to me


Just gotta be outta your mind
You are acting irrationally


As long as I foot the bills
As long as I'm covering the costs


Now that you got me
Since you are with me now


You act like you ashamed
You seem embarrassed to be with me


You don't act like my woman
You don't behave like you are in a relationship with me


You just usin' my name
You are only using me for my reputation


I tell you I'm gonna have all the money
I'm declaring my intention to have complete financial control


And I don't want no back-talk
I don't want any pushback or opposition


Cause if you don't like the way I'm doin'
Because if you disagree with me


Just pick up your things and walk
Simply leave and end the relationship


You gotta be crazy baby
You must be insane


As long as I'm payin' the bills woman
As long as I'm supporting our expenses


I'm payin' the cost to be the boss
I'm accepting the burden of being in charge




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: B.B. KING

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Ramesh Kulasingam

This is one of my most favourite songs By BB King.

reginaldessley

I remember one time going to see BB King in the 80's with my Mother she loved BB.  We where entering the club and they ran out of tables and chairs for sitting so we had to stand to see the show.  Will being full of happy juice I insisted on sitting at the "Reserved Table for BB's Guest".  My moms was hesitate but we sit there anyway and when the show started the bouncers tried to remove us and BB gave them a look shock his head and they backed off.  I will never forget his kindness.

RIP BB.

Johnnyc drums

Walkin' bass and drums like a boss.

Zach Doyle

Awesome.  Thanks for posting.

NoLye Pisces

RIP to The King!!!!

amd77j

Legendary stuff here, folks.

ESTER RODRIGUEZ

BUENISIMO

dottie mathews

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moonpie22399

Thank you for recommending this book, ill try to get a copy.

David Klein

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