I Never Had a Man
B.B. King Lyrics


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I guess there's nothing to do
And nothing to say,
But simply go on my way
And call it a day.

I guess I'm ready to go
Right back on the shelf,
Because at last I've learned
Where you're concerned,
I've just been fooling myself.

I never had a chance,
I thought you cared for me,
But now I see I never had a chance.
I never had a chance.
Though you never told me so,
Somehow I know I never had a chance.

I knew we'd have to part,
For I could always reach your lips
But I could never reach your heart.
My dream about romance
Ended in a friendly chat.
But more than that,
I never had a chance.

I never had a chance,
I thought you cared for me,
But now I see I never had a chance.
I never had a chance.
Though you never told me so,
Somehow I know I never had a chance.

I knew we'd have to part,
For I could always reach your lips
But I could never reach your heart.
My dream about romance
Ended in a friendly chat.




But more than that,
I never had a chance.

Overall Meaning

The main theme of B.B. King's song "I Never Had a Man" is unrequited love. The singer of the song talks about her experience of believing that the subject of her affection reciprocated her feelings, only to later discover that she was mistaken. She reflects on the fact that she was fooling herself and that there was never a chance for them to be together.


The lyrics suggest that the singer had been pursuing this person for some time before coming to this realization. They had conversations and were physically close, yet the singer never felt that they truly connected on an emotional level. She knew that they would have to part ways, as the other person never let her into their heart.


The song is both sad and reflective, conveying the disappointment and pain that come with unrequited love. It is a relatable theme that many people can identify with, and B.B. King's soulful voice and bluesy guitar playing add emotional depth to the lyrics.


Line by Line Meaning

I guess there's nothing to do
I am resigned to the fact that there is nothing that can be done to change our situation.


And nothing to say,
There are no words left to express my emotions about how I feel towards you.


But simply go on my way
I have to move on and continue with my life without you in it.


And call it a day.
I have to accept the reality of the situation and move on to a new chapter of my life.


I guess I'm ready to go
I am emotionally prepared to leave this relationship behind.


Right back on the shelf,
I feel like an object that was used and then put back on a shelf, unused and unappreciated.


Because at last I've learned
I have come to a realization about our relationship.


Where you're concerned,
As far as you are concerned,


I've just been fooling myself.
I was deluding myself into thinking that you had feelings for me when you did not.


I never had a chance,
There was never a possibility of us being together.


I thought you cared for me,
I was under the impression that you had feelings for me.


But now I see I never had a chance.
I now realize that my hopes of being with you were just that, hopes that were never going to come to fruition.


Though you never told me so,
Even though you never explicitly told me,


Somehow I know I never had a chance.
I had a gut feeling that we were never going to be anything more than friends.


I knew we'd have to part,
I was always aware that our relationship would come to an end.


For I could always reach your lips
I was physically close to you, and we had some level of intimacy


But I could never reach your heart.
Despite our intimacy, your heart was never truly invested in me or our relationship nor had any intention of being in the future.


My dream about romance
My aspirations and longings for a romantic relationship


Ended in a friendly chat.
It all amounted to nothing more than a friendly conversation with nothing deeper or romantic involved.


But more than that,
However, there is one more thing to be said,


I never had a chance.
There was never a possibility of us having a romantic relationship.


I thought you cared for me,
I erroneously believed that you had genuine feelings for me.


But now I see I never had a chance.
I now recognize that my hopes of being with you were nothing more than a fantasy.


Though you never told me so,
Although you never explicitly said as much,


Somehow I know I never had a chance.
I could sense that our relationship was doomed to a non-romantic fate, despite any apparent closeness we may have shared.


I knew we'd have to part,
From the onset, I suspected that our relationship would end in separation.


For I could always reach your lips
Our interactions, assumedly affectionate or intimate, were purely physical rather than intimate and emotional.


But I could never reach your heart.
Despite our physical proximity or previous intimacies shared, you were, and always would be, emotionally distant from me.


My dream about romance
My fantasy of a romantic relationship


Ended in a friendly chat.
In the end, all we ever had was nothing more than casual conversation and friendly exchange.


But more than that,
But more than that,


I never had a chance.
In truth, I was never meant to have a chance with you, romantic or otherwise.




Lyrics Β© Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: IRVING BERLIN

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This song is absolutely amazing I just love it.

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My favorite of BB King, love it - gets straight to my heart - thanks a lot for sharing :)

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