Stella Rose Bennett was born and raised in the suburb of Grey Lynn in Auckland. She grew up in a "really musical" family with parents who would expose her to the catalogs of Radiohead, Björk, and Groove Armada. From the age of eight, BENEE began taking guitar lessons in primary school before starting saxophone lessons in high school. Eventually, BENEE dropped all music in order to prioritize water polo. She claims it "was [her] life" and that she at one point hoped to represent New Zealand competitively. BENEE later became interested in writing and recording music at the age of 17, after deciding that she did not want to pursue a career in water polo. BENEE attended an all-girls Catholic school, St. Mary's College, where music was compulsory for four years.
BENEE began her music career by posting covers to SoundCloud and began making her own music in her final year of high school. After dropping out of a communications degree at the Auckland University of Technology after two weeks, during what she called "a quarter-life crisis", she decided to enter the music business professionally. Her music caught the attention of Josh Fountain, a producer and member of the band Leisure, with whom she produced two singles: "Tough Guy", released in 2017, and "Soaked", released in 2018. she earned her first career entry on the Triple J's Hottest 100 of 2018 with "Soaked" at #58.
In both 2019 and 2020, she consecutively won Single of the Year, Best Solo Artist and Best Pop Artist at the New Zealand Music Awards. BENEE initially gained local prominence with her singles "Glitter" and "Soaked", before her 2019 single "Supalonely" saw international popularity following its success on the video-sharing platform TikTok and YouTube. BENEE subsequently released her debut album, Hey U X, in November 2020.
Under the moniker of Bene, she made her solo debut with the 2017 single "Tough Guy", before later gaining prominence with her 2018 single "Soaked", which has been certified double-platinum in New Zealand. She released her debut EP, Fire on Marzz, with help from producer Josh Fountain in June 2019. Her second EP, Stella & Steve, was released in November 2019 and charted in the US, Canada, and France as a result of the international success of the EP's final single, "Supalonely". Since 2018, BENEE has earned five entries on the Triple J Hottest 100, three of which were in the 2019 list. She also released her third EP, Lychee, in March 2022 which charted at number 13 on the Official New Zealand Music Chart.
In an interview for The New Zealand Herald, Benee revealed that she has dyslexia. She also described her childhood experiences with songwriting:
"throughout school I struggled with writing....I liked creative writing, that was what I loved, but I was always making mistakes, and I was confined to this way that I should write....Songwriting for me was this place where I don't have to be grammatically correct. Learning the craft with [Josh Fountain], when he was sharing all his knowledge – something clicked, and I was just like, I love this. It's a great emotional outlet for me; I just love splashing what I feel on to a track."
Hurt You Gus
BENEE Lyrics
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You say you have issues with trust
But we've both experienced love
And I don't want you to go now
It's a new day, I've woken up next to you again
Think I might keep you if you'd be keen to stay
You change your mind 'cause maybe you're just not the guyMaybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
I can see that you're slowly loosening up
Wanna know that you're all in, no one else
Rest assured I won't hurt you, Gus
And I don't want you to go now
It's a new day, I've woken up next to you again
Think I might keep you if you'd be keen to stay
You change your mind 'cause maybe you're just not the guy
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
In "Hurt You Gus," BENEE's lyrics encapsulate a complex emotional landscape that revolves around vulnerability, trust issues, and the uncertainty of a romantic relationship. The opening lines set the stage for a candid dialogue between the singer and their partner, with a keen focus on the struggle to navigate feelings of inadequacy and fear in the face of potential heartbreak. The singer's inquiry about their partner’s feelings highlights the underlying tension and desire for reassurance. This dialogue reveals the insecurities that both individuals face—namely, the partner's issues with trust and the singer’s yearning for commitment. It reflects a common dynamic in relationships where one partner grapples with past experiences that make it difficult to fully invest in a new connection, which is further complicated by the singer's fear of losing what they have built together.
The refrain "It's a new day, I've woken up next to you again" expresses a sense of hope and a celebratory acknowledgment of their shared moments. This line suggests that despite the uncertainty and doubts, there is a tangible joy and warmth in their time together. The notion of wanting to "keep you if you'd be keen to stay" reveals the singer's wish for stability and their desire for the partner to reciprocate those feelings. It also captures the impulse to seek affirmation in a relationship where one party remains hesitant. The recurring theme of second-guessing, illustrated by the reflection "maybe you're just not the guy," introduces a layer of self-doubt. It raises questions about the partner's suitability and the singer's own assumptions, suggesting there’s a tension between hope and reality that underpins their interactions.
As the song progresses, the singer acknowledges the gradual emotional thawing of the partner, indicating a sense of progress in their relationship. The line “I can see that you're slowly loosening up” mirrors the intimate journey both partners are on—one where vulnerability is slowly being embraced. However, this is paired with the desire to establish exclusivity, as the singer expresses the need for assurance that their partner is "all in." This need for transparency in emotional commitments is essential for fostering trust, acting as a counterbalance to the lingering apprehension felt by both individuals. By declaring “Rest assured I won't hurt you, Gus,” the singer attempts to dispel these fears, promising a safe harbor while also invoking a sense of irony in addressing the very person who may be reluctant to fully trust.
The repeated line “Maybe I’m stupid to think that you were right” serves as a poignant reminder of the singer's vulnerability, self-reflection, and the potential futility of hope against heartbreak. It underscores a sobering realization that often accompanies the pursuit of love: feelings can be misleading, and romantic ideals may not align with reality. This expression of doubt lingers as a shadow over the more hopeful sentiments present in the song, balancing optimism with a critical lens on affection. The chorus of “la, la, la” at the end creates a contrasting levity—almost playful, perhaps indicating a desire to rise above the difficulties posed by relational uncertainty. Ultimately, "Hurt You Gus" captures the nuances of youth and love, where emotional complexity and clarity often coexist in an intricate dance.
Line by Line Meaning
Tell me how you feel about us
I want to understand your emotions regarding our relationship.
You say you have issues with trust
You've expressed that you struggle with trusting others, including me.
But we've both experienced love
Despite our challenges, we both know what love feels like.
And I don't want you to go now
I'm pleading for you to stay in my life, as I value our connection.
It's a new day, I've woken up next to you again
Each morning brings the possibility of continuing our journey together.
Think I might keep you if you'd be keen to stay
I consider committing to you, but your willingness to remain is essential.
You change your mind 'cause maybe you're just not the guy
Your indecision suggests that you might feel inadequate or unsure about being with me.
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
I question my judgment for believing that you were the perfect match for me.
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
This self-doubt continues to nag at me, leaving me second-guessing my choices.
I can see that you're slowly loosening up
I notice you starting to relax and become more open in our relationship.
Wanna know that you're all in, no one else
I need reassurance that you are fully committed to me and not involved with anyone else.
Rest assured I won't hurt you, Gus
I want to promise you, Gus, that I have no intention of causing you pain.
And I don't want you to go now
I reiterate my desire for you to stay with me and not leave our relationship.
It's a new day, I've woken up next to you again
Another day begins with hope for continuity in our partnership.
Think I might keep you if you'd be keen to stay
If you show a willingness to commit, I would like to make our bond permanent.
You change your mind 'cause maybe you're just not the guy
Your hesitation might indicate you feel you cannot meet the expectations of our relationship.
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
I find myself questioning if I mistakenly believed in this connection.
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
This refrain emphasizes my ongoing self-doubt about our compatibility.
La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
The repetitive sounds reflect a sense of escapism or a carefree distraction from emotional turmoil.
La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
Reiteration of the carefree tones suggests a yearning to find joy amidst uncertainty.
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Josh Fountain, Stella Bennett
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@ramirohernandez4620
Tell me how you feel about us
You say you have issues with trust
But we've both experienced love
And I don't want you to go now
[Chorus]
It's a new day, I've woken up next to you again
Think I might keep you if you'd be keen to stay
You change your mind 'cause maybe you're just not the guy
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
[Post-Chorus]
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
[Verse 2]
I can see that you're slowly loosening up
Wanna know that you're all in no one else
Rest assured I won't hurt you Gus
And I don't want you to go now
[Chorus]
It's a new day, I've woken up next to you again
Think I might keep you if you'd bе keen to stay
You change your mind 'cause maybe you'rе just not the guy
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
[Post-Chorus]
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
Maybe I'm stupid to think that you were right
@urlocalfolklorian
this woman cannot make a bad song. Prove me wrong
@hazely6076
@@anotherdayanotherslay4713 piss off hater.
@OxzowachiAlt
are you letting go
@shiny_edin
Im sorry, I have failed to prove you wrong
@Ianman258
whattt thats like one of her best :((
@bigt2922
i can’t
@anotherinternettperson
WHY IS THIS SONG SO UNDERRATED?
@RandomVids96233
This has a late 1990's sound with a modern twist , very smooth !
@robbievillani2619
Yesterday I was listening to a friend preform a outdoor concert with a busy town of which I live. I met a girl, she sat down and joined me for coffee. We spoke for a hour or so. I told her I needed a plant for my patio. She took me to a plant store. I bought a heavy plant and a terracotta. She then made me walk home alone with it. This song captures how I feel best
@gr8gazoo777
Best song on the album.
I have this on repeat