Who's That Man?
Bad Boys Blue Lyrics


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I don't expect the guarantee
From you, but maybe somehow
I thought your love was specially
Made for me, now I know

Dust in the sands, you've been sending
So what is the game you're pretending?
Who's that man by your side
The man by your side

Who's that man by your side
The man by your side
Cause if when we - all or nothing
Cause if when we - you and me

Who's that man by your side
The man by your side
The lesson you have given me
I got it that is for sure

You better stop messing around
I'll walk right out through the door

Dust in the sands, you've been sending
So what is the game you're pretending?
Who's that man by your side
The man by your side

Who's that man by your side
The man by your side
Cause if when we - all or nothing
Cause if when we - you and me
Who's that man by your side
The man by your side

Dust in the sands, you've been sending
So what is the game you're pretending?
Who's that man by your side
Who's that man by your side
The man by your side

Cause if when we - all or nothing
Cause if when we - you and me
Who's that man by your side
The man by your side (I want to know)
Who's that man by your side
The man by your side

Cause if when we - all or nothing




Cause if when we - you and me
Who's that man by your side...

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Bad Boys Blue's song Who's That Man? speak about the pain of betrayal and the confusion that ensues when someone we thought we knew well suddenly acts differently. The song talks about how the singer had a special bond with the person they're singing to, but now they're sending dust in the sands and playing a game by pretending. The singer demands to know, "Who's that man by your side?" and gets frustrated by the lack of transparency, especially since they thought their love was something special. The song's lyrics express the singer's frustration that they can't access the guarantee of love or loyalty they believed they were entitled to, and they fear that they might have been played with.


The verses continue to explore the singer's frustration, and they proceed to state that they've learned their "lesson" and that they will soon leave. They reiterate their demand to know who the other person is with, which the chorus then repeats multiple times. The song's repetition of the chorus emphasizes the singer's uncertainty, frustration, and desire for answers to their questions. Overall, the lyrics are a powerful example of a song that encapsulates the feelings of loss and betrayal, with a driving beat that will make listeners want to dance and sing along.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't expect the guarantee
I don't expect you to make any promises or guarantees to me


From you, but maybe somehow
I don't expect a guarantee from you, but maybe I hoped for something more meaningful to me


I thought your love was specially
I believed your love was unique and special to me


Made for me, now I know
Now I realize your love was not made for me specifically


Dust in the sands, you've been sending
You've been sending me empty, meaningless messages


So what is the game you're pretending?
What is the deception you're playing?


Who's that man by your side
Who is the man that you're with?


Cause if when we - all or nothing
Because if we're going to be in this relationship, it has to be all or nothing


Cause if when we - you and me
Because if it's going to be you and me, there can't be anyone else on the side


The lesson you have given me
The lesson I've learned from you


I got it that is for sure
I understand it now, that's for sure


You better stop messing around
You need to stop playing games and being dishonest


I'll walk right out through the door
I'm willing to leave the relationship if you don't change


Who's that man by your side
Who is the man that you're with?


Cause if when we - all or nothing
Because if we're going to be in this relationship, it has to be all or nothing


Cause if when we - you and me
Because if it's going to be you and me, there can't be anyone else on the side


Who's that man by your side
Who is the man that you're with?


Dust in the sands, you've been sending
You've been sending me empty, meaningless messages


So what is the game you're pretending?
What is the deception you're playing?


Who's that man by your side
Who is the man that you're with?


The man by your side
The man who is always with you


Cause if when we - all or nothing
Because if we're going to be in this relationship, it has to be all or nothing


Cause if when we - you and me
Because if it's going to be you and me, there can't be anyone else on the side


Who's that man by your side
Who is the man that you're with?


The man by your side
The man who is always with you


Cause if when we - all or nothing
Because if we're going to be in this relationship, it has to be all or nothing


Cause if when we - you and me
Because if it's going to be you and me, there can't be anyone else on the side


Who's that man by your side
Who is the man that you're with?


The man by your side (I want to know)
I want to know who the man is that is always by your side


Cause if when we - all or nothing
Because if we're going to be in this relationship, it has to be all or nothing


Cause if when we - you and me
Because if it's going to be you and me, there can't be anyone else on the side


Who's that man by your side
Who is the man that you're with?


The man by your side
The man who is always with you




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: K. VAN HAAREN, TONY HENDRIK

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