Okay
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(When we look back on our lives
Will we be satisfied with what we've become?
Did we find love?
I know we've all been victims of tragedy and diversity
But the real question
Will we be okay?)

16 when he met the girl
The person who'd be making me
22 he played his job
Supporting his family
Here comes another dream
Had two kids and got married
He said oh god, it's happening
I was five when he moved out
Me and my brothers dead(?)
Now the girl was too stressed out
She took us and moved away
Downtown it seemed like I was
The new kid everyday
I felt like a stray, and so i'd pray

I'd say
Oh my god please help me

I was six when I was first left
On my own
The girl was sick, a baby on the way
So the stepdad had to go
Dropped me off at the apartment
Or watched roomate didnt show(?)
I slept alone, outside on my own
Then there on out I took a vow
Looking out for baby brother and me
Moved back in with him
It was easier to breathe
Next thing you know
I was already turned fifteen
High school flew like a breeze
I'm twenty chasing a dream

And so I said
Oh my god, I'm somebody

Not looking back to the bad
The good times let them roll
Let's make some memories so rad
We'll remember when we're old
And when you look back to your past
Your story won't be untold
It will be like gold
Better as time goes
Life pases you by
it's just like I was five
the other day
Slow or fast
It's weird how time
Slips away
Mom and dad are so proud of how
We turned out in this way
Well I am okay
What else can I say?

But oh my god I survived okay




Oh thank god I'm okay
(Okay Okay Okay)

Overall Meaning

The song "Okay" by Balancing the Different talks about the struggles and tragedies that one faces in life, but ultimately questions whether they will be okay in the end. The beginning of the song starts with reflective lyrics about looking back on one's life and assessing satisfaction with who they have become. It then transitions to the story of a boy who faced various challenges in his life, starting with his parents' divorce when he was just five years old. Despite the initial struggles of feeling like a "stray" and being left on his own, he took a vow to look out for his baby brother and himself, and eventually turned 20, chasing a dream.


The hook of the song, "Oh my god, I survived okay" and "Thank god I'm okay" expresses a sense of relief and appreciation for being able to come out on the other side of difficult situations. The song emphasizes the power of resilience and the ability to overcome trials to ultimately be okay in the end.


Overall, the song encourages listeners to cherish the good times and let them roll, while also acknowledging the hardships of life and questioning if, in the end, we will be okay.


Line by Line Meaning

When we look back on our lives
Reflecting on the past and evaluating life choices


Will we be satisfied with what we've become?
Wondering if we have fulfilled our true potential


Did we find love?
Questioning whether we have found happiness through love


I know we've all been victims of tragedy and diversity
Acknowledging past hardships that have impacted us negatively


But the real question
However, the more important question is


Will we be okay?
Will we still be content with life despite the challenges we face?


16 when he met the girl
Narrating the story of a man's life


The person who'd be making me
Referring to the woman who would become his partner in life


22 he played his job
Working hard to support his family at an early age


Supporting his family
Contributing to the financial stability of his loved ones


Here comes another dream
Facing another challenge or aspiration


Had two kids and got married
Starting a family and getting married


He said oh god, it's happening
Feeling overwhelmed by the changes and responsibilities


I was five when he moved out
Recalling a time when his father left


Me and my brothers dead(?)
Unclear - possibly referring to the difficult situation that followed his father's departure


Now the girl was too stressed out
The woman he was with struggled to cope with the situation


She took us and moved away
Leaving and taking her kids with her


Downtown it seemed like I was
Feeling lost and unsettled in his new environment


The new kid everyday
Constantly being the outsider or newcomer


I felt like a stray, and so i'd pray
Feeling abandoned and longing for guidance from a higher power


I'd say Oh my god please help me
Asking for divine intervention


I was six when I was first left
More hardship in his young life


On my own
Being without a parent or guardian to provide care


The girl was sick, a baby on the way
His mother was unwell and expecting another child


So the stepdad had to go
His stepfather could no longer stay to take care of him and had to leave


Dropped me off at the apartment
Leaving him to fend for himself in the apartment


Or watched roomate didn't show(?)
Possibly meaning that the roommate didn't turn up to keep an eye on him


I slept alone, outside on my own
Sleeping alone outside with no one to provide comfort


Then there on out I took a vow
Making a solemn promise to himself to look after himself and his younger brother


Looking out for baby brother and me
Taking responsibility as the older sibling


Moved back in with him
Leaving the apartment and returning to live with his mother and stepfather


It was easier to breathe
Feeling comforted by being back with family


Next thing you know
The years passed by quickly


I was already turned fifteen
Time moved quickly, and he reached his mid-teens in what felt like no time


High school flew like a breeze
School life passed by in a flash


I'm twenty chasing a dream
Fast-forwarding to the present day where he is pursuing his aspirations


And so I said Oh my god, I'm somebody
Feeling validated by his progress and success


Not looking back to the bad
Optimistically focusing on the positives


The good times let them roll
Enjoying the good moments and memories


Let's make some memories so rad
Making more great memories


We'll remember when we're old
Hoping to recall these happy moments later in life


And when you look back to your past
Expanding on this hope for a joyful review of life


Your story won't be untold
Feeling that his history won't go unnoticed


It will be like gold
Valuing his life experiences and the lessons they taught him


Better as time goes
Believing that life gets better with age


Life passes you by
Acknowledging the speed at which life moves


It's just like I was five the other day
Remembering how quickly life seems to have flown by


Slow or fast
Noticing the paradox of time feeling like it moves both slowly and quickly


It's weird how time slips away
Reflecting on how time can feel slipping away unnoticed


Mom and dad are so proud of how
Feeling good about the approval of his parents


We turned out in this way
Hearing that they think his life turned out well


Well I am okay
Acknowledging that his life is good and he's content


What else can I say?
Feeling like there's not much else to say but being grateful and content with where he is now


But oh my god I survived okay
Reflecting on the hardships but being proud that he made it through


Oh thank god I'm okay
Feeling grateful and blessed to be in a good place now


(Okay Okay Okay)
The repetition signaling the theme of resilience and positivity despite life's challenges




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