Enid
Barenaked Ladies Lyrics


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Enid, we never really knew each other anyway
Enid, we never really knew each other anyway

It took me a year to believe it was over
And it took me two more to get over the loss, whoa, whoa
I took a beating when you wrote me those letters
And every time I remembered the taste of your lip gloss
Enid we never really knew each other anyway
Enid we never really knew each other anyway
Maybe we always saw right through each other anyway
But Enid we never really knew each other anyway

There were times when I wanted to hurt you
And there were times when I know that I did whoa whoa
There were times when I thought I would kill you
But can you blame me I was only a kid

Now tell me why we never respected each other
And tell me why I never believed that you were a person too
I always thought that you fancied my brother
I may not have liked it, oh but memory is a strange thing, oh, and Enid?
Enid I remember you

Enid, we never really knew each other anyway
Enid, we never really knew each other anyway
Maybe we always saw right through each other anyway
But Enid we never really knew each other anyway

It took me a year to believe it was over
Oh, and it took me two more to get over the loss
I took a beating when I wrote you those letters
And every time you told me to get lost

Now it's not fair to say that it's
'Cause I was three inches shorter then
And it's not fair to say that it's 'cause
I was only fifteen years old
But maybe it's fair to say it was a lack of communication
I took a phone message, oh and speaking of communication
Oh, and Enid
Enid you got a cold

I can get a job I can pay the phone bills
I can cut the lawn, cut my hair, cut out my cholesterol
I can work overtime I can work in a mine
I can do it all for you
But I don't want to

Enid, we never really knew each other anyway
Enid, we never really knew each other anyway
Maybe we always saw right through each other anyway
But Enid, we really never knew each other anyway
Enid, we never really knew each other anyway




Enid, we never really knew each other anyway
Enid, we never really knew each other anyway

Overall Meaning

The Barenaked Ladies song "Enid" is a reflection on a teenage relationship that appears to have been built more on an idealized fantasy than on any real connection. The song expresses the singer's confusion about the situation and his difficulty accepting that it is over. The repetition of the line "Enid, we never really knew each other anyway" underscores the sense of disconnection between the two characters, as does the admission that the singer sometimes wanted to hurt his former partner. The song is characterized by a sense of wistful regret, as the singer looks back on their relationship with a mixture of nostalgia and ambivalence.


Line by Line Meaning

Enid, we never really knew each other anyway
The singer and Enid were never truly close despite their past relationship


It took me a year to believe it was over
The singer needed a long time to accept the relationship had ended


And it took me two more to get over the loss, whoa, whoa
It took two additional years for the singer to recover and move on


I took a beating when you wrote me those letters
The letters from Enid deeply affected the artist, causing emotional pain


And every time I remembered the taste of your lip gloss
Memories of the relationship lingered in the artist's mind


Maybe we always saw right through each other anyway
Perhaps the lack of closeness between the singer and Enid was due to a mutual understanding of differences


There were times when I wanted to hurt you
The singer had moments of anger and malice towards Enid


And there were times when I know that I did whoa whoa
At times the artist acted on those feelings and hurt Enid


There were times when I thought I would kill you
The artist had extreme feelings towards and anger at Enid


But can you blame me I was only a kid
The artist recognizes the immaturity and naivety they had as a young person


Now tell me why we never respected each other
The singer reflects on the lack of mutual respect in the relationship


And tell me why I never believed that you were a person too
The artist never truly saw Enid as an individual


I always thought that you fancied my brother
The singer had insecurities and fanciful thoughts about Enid


I may not have liked it, oh but memory is a strange thing, oh, and Enid?
The singer admits the faulty nature of memory and remembers Enid


It took me a year to believe it was over
The singer needed a long time to accept the relationship had ended


Oh, and it took me two more to get over the loss
It took two additional years for the artist to recover and move on


And every time you told me to get lost
Enid's actions hurt the artist


Now it's not fair to say that it's
The singer doesn't want to place all the blame on external factors


'Cause I was three inches shorter then
The singer recognizes they were physically different at a younger age


And it's not fair to say that it's 'cause
The artist doesn't want to place all the blame on external factors


I was only fifteen years old
The artist recognizes their youth at the time of the relationship


But maybe it's fair to say it was a lack of communication
The artist believes the true problem was a lack of proper communication in the relationship


I took a phone message, oh and speaking of communication
The singer reflects on the irony that their poor relationship was compounded by simply taking a phone message


Oh, and Enid
The artist remembers Enid


Enid you got a cold
The singer recalls a specific moment in Enid's life


I can get a job I can pay the phone bills
The singer reflects on their own independence and success


I can cut the lawn, cut my hair, cut out my cholesterol
The singer recognizes their own efforts at self-care and improvement


I can work overtime I can work in a mine
The artist is willing to work hard and make sacrifices for others


I can do it all for you
The artist is willing to go above and beyond for love


But I don't want to
Despite being capable, the singer chooses not to do these things for Enid


Enid, we really never knew each other anyway
The singer reaffirms their lack of true closeness with Enid


Enid, we never really knew each other anyway
The artist reaffirms their lack of true closeness with Enid


Enid, we never really knew each other anyway
The artist reaffirms their lack of true closeness with Enid




Lyrics Β© BMG Rights Management, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Ed Robertson, Steven Page

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@CpnGame

For those curious what those background lyrics starting at 3:21 say:

I can teach you how to dance, how to sing, how to knit
How to make things that you never, ever made before
Enid, I can teach you how to use a cookie cutter
To make crazy things out of Play-Doh
Little houses, little farms, little accessories for your mom,
For your Barbie set, for your friends and your family
Enid, I can teach you how to snowmobile, cross-country ski, snow-shoe
But I don't want to



@vincentteetsov

I've always wondered what Ed sings starting around 3:20-- but apparently it's this:

"I can teach you how to dance, how to sing, how to knit,Β 
How to make things that you never ever made beforeΒ 
Enid, I can teach you how to use cookie cuttersΒ 
To make crazy things out of Play-Doh.Β 

Little houses, little farms, little accessories for your mom,Β 
For your Barbie set, for your friends and your familyΒ 
Enid, I can teach you how to snowmobile, cross-country ski, snowshoe,Β 
But I don't want to!"

Favourite part of the song :)



All comments from YouTube:

@richardthunderbay8364

Led by Enid, Gordon was such a great album. I love these guys.

@NateApplicable

Quite literally my favourite song of all time. I could never, ever get bored of hearing it.

@Ddd-pv6iy

Same! I’ve been listening to it at least 20 times a day since April. It’s amazing

@roryhofland7821

shoe

@klarebear7211

hearing one of their songs today is like reading a letter from an old friend, it;s familiar and nice, no one did it like these guys

@waltermitchell768

6 years later and a lifetime ago i miss this music

@ryderholowaty8583

Agreed

@Rick-hi8vs

6 years? I could only be so lucky, 30 + years ago....one of the best albums ever imo

@chonconnor6144

The briefest of unique sounds in the 1990s, one of the first tapes I remember buying and wearing out.

@laurendickson3998

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