For You
Barenaked Ladies Lyrics


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I have set aside everything I love
I have saved everything else for you
I cannot decide what this doubt's made of
Though I've thought over it through and through
In a book in a box high up on a shelf
In a locked and guarded vault
Are the things I keep only for myself
It's your fate, but it's not your fault

And for every useless reason I know
There's a reason not to care
If I hide myself wherever I go
Am I ever really there?

There is nowhere else I would rather be
But I can't just be right here
An enigma wrapped in a mystery
Or a fool consumed by fear?

And for every useless reason I know
There's a reason not to care
If I hide myself wherever I go
Am I ever really there?

I will give you all I could ever give
Though it's less than you will need
Could you just forget if you can't forgive
All the things I cannot concede?

And for every useless reason I know
There's a reason not to care




If I hide myself wherever I go
Am I ever really there?

Overall Meaning

The Barenaked Ladies' "For You" is a poignant ballad about sacrifice, doubt, and vulnerability in a romantic relationship. The opening verse sets the tone of the song with the singer stating that they have given up everything they love for their partner, keeping only a few things for themselves in a box locked away. The way the singer speaks about their sacrifice suggests a sense of martial duty, like a soldier setting aside their own desires to serve their country. The chorus speaks to the singer's constant internal conflict about their love for their partner, wondering if they truly care, and if their own self-doubt will lead to them disappearing altogether. The second verse maintains the metaphor of the locked box, alluding to a key that could unlock the singer's vulnerability if only they could trust their partner with it. The final verse is a plea to their partner to love them despite their flaws and limitations.


The lyrics of "For You" evoke a sense of intimacy and emotional complexity that is not always present in typical love songs. Rather than relying on grand romantic gestures or flowery language, the song speaks to the unspoken fears and doubts that can linger in relationships. The repeated refrain of "for every useless reason I know, there's a reason not to care" suggests a sense of apathy or existential resignation that many people experience when confronted with their own vulnerabilities.


Overall, "For You" is a touching and relatable exploration of the internal struggles that come with loving someone else. Through its use of metaphor and introspective lyrics, the song captures the often-unspoken anxieties and fears that can be present in even the strongest relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

I have set aside everything I love
I have sacrificed all that I hold dear


I have saved everything else for you
I have prioritized you over everything else


I cannot decide what this doubt's made of
I'm uncertain about the nature of my doubts


Though I've thought over it through and through
I've analyzed my doubts thoroughly


In a book in a box high up on a shelf
I keep some private things out of reach


In a locked and guarded vault
I keep some things secret and protected


Are the things I keep only for myself
Those are the things that I hold to myself


It's your fate, but it's not your fault
You didn't cause this, but it's meant to be


And for every useless reason I know
I can list many worthless motives


There's a reason not to care
But I have reason to ignore them


If I hide myself wherever I go
I wonder if I can conceal myself completely


Am I ever really there?
Or am I non-existent in the places I attempt to hide?


There is nowhere else I would rather be
I'm content being where I am


But I can't just be right here
However, I'm still not satisfied being where I am


An enigma wrapped in a mystery
I'm a perplexing puzzle wrapped in mystery


Or a fool consumed by fear?
Or am I just a coward?


I will give you all I could ever give
I will offer everything I have


Though it's less than you will need
However, it may not be enough for you


Could you just forget if you can't forgive
Is it possible to let go if you can't forgive?


All the things I cannot concede?
I struggle to accept some things.


And for every useless reason I know
Once again, I'm motivated by useless reasons


There's a reason not to care
But I still have enough good reasons to disregard the bad


If I hide myself wherever I go
I still question whether I can disappear completely


Am I ever really there?
Do I even exist in this world?




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Ed Robertson, Steven Page

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