Life in a Nutshell
Barenaked Ladies Lyrics


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A one, two three

When she was three
Her Barbies always did it on the first date
Now she's with me
There's never any need for them to demonstrate
'Cause she's like a baby, I'm like a cat
When we are happy, we both get fat and still
It's never enough, it's never enough
It's never enough

But I don't tend to worry 'bout the things that other people say
And I'm learning that I wouldn't want it any other way
Call me crazy but it really doesn't matter
All that matters to me is she

Her life in a nutshell
No way would she want it to change me
It's not that easy 'cause
My time is often decided for me
For me

She memorized every pencil crayon color in the box
Her blue-green eyes complement the burnt sienna in her locks
She's at the movies, I'm on the phone
When we're separated, we're never alone, but still
It's never enough, it's never enough
No, it's never enough

So, I don't tend to worry 'bout the things that other people say
And I'm learning that I wouldn't want it any other way
Call me crazy but it really doesn't matter
All that matters to me is she

Her life in a nutshell
No way would she want it to change me
It's not that easy 'cause
My time is often decided for me
For me

I fell down with no one there to catch me from falling
Then she came 'round
And only her tenderness stopped me from bawling my eyes out
I'm okay, and that's why

Her life in a nutshell
No way would she want it to change me
It's not that easy 'cause
My time is often decided for me

And I don't tend to worry 'bout the things that other people say
And I'm learning that I wouldn't want it any other way




Call me crazy but it really doesn't matter
All that matters to me is she

Overall Meaning

The song "Life in a Nutshell" by Barenaked Ladies speaks about the ups and downs of a relationship. The song begins by describing the female protagonist as a child who used to make her Barbies have sexual relations on the first date. However, now that she's with the male protagonist, there's no need for such demonstrations. Their relationship is portrayed as simple yet consuming, with the male protagonist likening the happiness of their union to the feeling of getting fat. However, he acknowledges that no matter how much they are happy, it's never enough.


The chorus further exemplifies their love, which is not easily changeable. The female protagonist is content with her life, and the male protagonist recognizes that his time is often dictated, but he doesn't worry about it as long as she's there. The song ends with a scene where the male protagonist has fallen, and only the tenderness of his female counterpart can bring him back up. He realizes that her love is all he needs, encapsulated in her life in a nutshell.


Overall, the song is studded with metaphors, from comparing the female protagonist to a child and him to a cat, to describing how they are never alone even when apart. The lyrics show that their life together may not be entirely 'perfect,' and they don't have all they want, but what matters is that they have each other.


Line by Line Meaning

A one, two three
The song begins with a simple counting intro, leading into the first verse.


When she was three, Her Barbies always did it on the first date
The girl in the song had an early curiosity about adult relationships, as evidenced by her playtime with dolls.


Now she's with me, There's never any need for them to demonstrate
Since the girl is now with her partner, she no longer needs to use toys to explore her sexuality.


'Cause she's like a baby, I'm like a cat, When we are happy, we both get fat and still, It's never enough, it's never enough, It's never enough
The artist compares their relationship to that of a content cat and a satisfied infant, but even though they both seem happy, they both want more.


But I don't tend to worry 'bout the things that other people say, And I'm learning that I wouldn't want it any other way, Call me crazy but it really doesn't matter, All that matters to me is she
The artist doesn't care about other people's opinions of their relationship, because their partner is the most important thing to them and they wouldn't want it any other way.


Her life in a nutshell, No way would she want it to change me, It's not that easy 'cause, My time is often decided for me, For me
The girl likes her life the way it is and wouldn't want her partner to change, but the singer's time is often dictated by other forces outside of their relationship.


She memorized every pencil crayon color in the box, Her blue-green eyes complement the burnt sienna in her locks
The girl pays close attention to details, such as remembering the names of all the colors in a box of pencils and noticing how her hair color complements her eye color.


She's at the movies, I'm on the phone, When we're separated, we're never alone, but still, It's never enough, it's never enough, No, it's never enough
Even when they are apart, the artist and their partner never feel truly alone, but they still want more from their relationship than what they have.


So, I don't tend to worry 'bout the things that other people say, And I'm learning that I wouldn't want it any other way, Call me crazy but it really doesn't matter, All that matters to me is she
Once again, the artist emphasizes that they don't care about outside opinions because their partner is the most important thing to them.


I fell down with no one there to catch me from falling, Then she came 'round, And only her tenderness stopped me from bawling my eyes out, I'm okay, and that's why
When the artist was feeling down and had no one to turn to, their partner was there with support and kindness, making everything okay again.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Ed Robertson, Steven Page

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