The Flag
Barenaked Ladies Lyrics


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The phone rings, it's early, it's seven o'clock
He says sorry I woke you, but I just had to talk
You know last night, remember when I tried to choke you?
I didn't mean it, I was drunk, it was only a joke
You should know that by now
When the checkered flag comes down
No one, no one, no one has won the race
The next night he's over and over and under
And after he's finished she lies there and wonders
Just why does she need him and why does she stay here
And then in the darkness she'll quietly say dear
You've never really known that when the white flag is flown
No one, no one, no one has won the war

They're complicated people
Leading complicated lives
And he complicates their problems
Telling complicated lies
He tells her he's sorry, she tells him it's over
He tells her he's sorry, she says over and over
You've never really known that when the white flag is flown
No one, no one, no one has won the war

There goes a forest and there goes a bluebird
There goes a partridge and there goes a Go Train
There goes an angel and there goes a steeple
There goes a cop car and there goes an eagle
There goes a raven and there go the ribbons
There goes a raven and there go the ribbons
There goes a raven and there go

The ribbons, the ribbons, the ribbons
The ribbons of the flag
Of the flag
Of the flag
Of the flag (of the flag)
Of the flag (of the flag)




Of the flag (of the flag)
Of the flag

Overall Meaning

"The Flag" by Barenaked Ladies is a sad and complicated song that deals with domestic violence and the cycle of abuse. The song tells the story of a couple whose relationship is marked by violence and apologies. The first verse describes a phone call from the man to the woman in which he apologizes for his violent behavior, blaming it on being drunk and assuring her that it was a joke. The chorus likens the situation to a race, suggesting that no one truly wins when it comes to domestic violence. The second verse explores the ambivalence of the woman's feelings towards her abuser, describing how she wonders why she needs him and can't leave him. The second chorus again likens their situation to a "war" that can't be won by either party. The song ends with a series of images that capture the fleeting nature of life and the country (Canada) that the band calls home.


One interesting fact about "The Flag" is that it was written by Steven Page and Ed Robertson of Barenaked Ladies, both of whom are known for their ability to write poignant lyrics that tackle a wide range of topics. Another fact is that the song was not released as a single but has become a beloved deep cut among fans of the band. The song has been interpreted in different ways, with some seeing it as a commentary on the cycle of abuse and others as a metaphor for the larger conflicts that plague society. The use of racing metaphors in the song has been particularly noted, as they add a layer of complexity to the narrative.


Another interesting fact about "The Flag" is that it was released on the album "Gordon," which was named after the band's mascot, a mannequin named Gordon who sits on stage with them during their concerts. The album was a huge success in Canada and helped to launch the band's international career. The song features a unique blend of acoustic and electric guitars, with the signature harmonies of Page and Robertson adding depth to the lyrics. The imagery in the final verse of the song is particularly striking, with the loss of the forest and the bluebird serving as a powerful metaphor for the sense of loss and disconnection that the couple is experiencing.


Chords: Unfortunately, the chords for "The Flag" are not available at this time.


Line by Line Meaning

The phone rings, it's early, it's seven o'clock
He calls her early in the morning, apologizes for waking her up, and tells her about the night before.


He says sorry I woke you, but I just had to talk
He apologizes for disturbing her, but he feels the need to apologize and talk about what happened last night.


You know last night, remember when I tried to choke you?
He reminds her of what he did to her last night, which was attempting to choke her.


I didn't mean it, I was drunk, it was only a joke
He tries to justify his actions by saying he was drunk and it was only meant to be a joke.


You should know that by now
He implies that she should have realized it was a joke.


When the checkered flag comes down
The metaphorical representation of the end of a race, like a finish line.


No one, no one, no one has won the race
No one has truly won the race if they are not in a healthy and happy relationship.


The next night he's over and over and under
He engages in sexual activity with her in various positions that she may not enjoy.


And after he's finished she lies there and wonders
She is left thinking about why she stays with him.


Just why does she need him and why does she stay here
She questions why she feels the need to be with him and why she stays in the relationship.


And then in the darkness she'll quietly say dear
She never vocalizes these thoughts to him, instead keeps them to herself.


You've never really known that when the white flag is flown
Neither of them knows what to do when they finally surrender to their problems.


They're complicated people
Both of them have a lot of emotional baggage and issues that they bring to the relationship.


Leading complicated lives
Their personal lives are not simple.


And he complicates their problems
His behavior augments their problems in the relationship.


Telling complicated lies
He tells lies that are not easy to unravel and perhaps has gotten himself tangled up in them.


He tells her he's sorry, she tells him it's over
They are stuck in a pattern of behavior where he apologizes and she breaks up with him but ultimately they stay together.


There goes a forest and there goes a bluebird
The lyrics are meant to be nonsensical and random to symbolize the chaotic nature of their relationship.


There goes a partridge and there goes a Go Train
More nonsensical, random lists of things are listed, which symbolize the complications of their relationship.


There goes an angel and there goes a steeple
The random lists continue, and the imagery is meant to create an atmosphere of uncertainty and confusion.


There goes a cop car and there goes an eagle
This repetition of random lists is a motif throughout the song and emphasizes the chaotic nature of their lives together.


There goes a raven and there go the ribbons
The ribbons symbolize the flag, which represents the relationship, and when they go, it symbolizes the relationship falling apart or coming to an end.


The ribbons of the flag
The ribbons represent the flag which is, metaphorically, the relationship between the two.


Of the flag
Repeating the phrase to emphasize the significance of the flag (representing the relationship).




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Steven Page

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