why say anything nice?
Barenaked Ladies Lyrics


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Why'd you put your dress shoes on if you didn't come to dance?
Frankly, I'd be on my own if I thought I'd stand a chance
Why'd you take your glasses off if you don't intend to fight?
Frankly, I'd be on my own if I thought I'd last the night

No screaming or fighting, no scratching or biting
We're just shaking hands goodnight
Sullen and silent, emotionally violent
I waited a while and nothing, nothing

Why say anything nice when you can say nothing at all?
Why say anything nice when you can say nothing at all?
Why'd you put your backpack on if you won't just take a hike?
Frankly, I'd be out the door if you hadn't sold my bike

No fencing or sparring, no bruising or scarring
And no 'au revoiring' yet
No communication, just alienation
I've tried to be patient but nothing, nothing

Why say anything nice when you can say nothing at all?
Why say anything nice?

Say anything nice, a simple device
That makes everything beautiful just ordinary
Nice can come at a price, forever imbued with all this boredom
Sacrifice can only suffice when something is beautiful

After all the resentment, all the discontentment
The flowers you sent meant nothing, nothing

Why say anything nice when you can say nothing at all?
Why say anything nice when you can say nothing at all?
(Why say anything nice?)

You can say nothing at all
Woo hoo hoo
Nothing at all
Woo hoo hoo

You can say nothing at all




Woo hoo hoo
Nothing at all

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Barenaked Ladies' song "Why Say Anything Nice?" is a commentary on the inauthenticity and passivity of modern relationships. The singer of the song questions why their partner is going through the motions of being in a relationship, by putting on dress shoes, taking off their glasses, and wearing a backpack when they have no intention of engaging fully in the relationship. The chorus of the song repeats the question "why say anything nice when you can say nothing at all?", implying that the singer's partner is not expressing genuine emotion or investing in the relationship in any significant way.


The lyrics also convey a sense of futility and a lack of communication in the relationship. The lines "no screaming or fighting, no scratching or biting, we're just shaking hands goodnight" suggest that there is no passion or conflict in their interactions, but rather a static civility. The singer is frustrated by their partner's emotional distance and lack of effort, expressed in lines like "I've tried to be patient but nothing, nothing." In the end, the singer acknowledges that even gestures of kindness, like the flowers their partner sent, mean "nothing, nothing" when they are not backed up by genuine feeling and effort.


Line by Line Meaning

Why'd you put your dress shoes on if you didn't come to dance?
Why did you make an effort to dress up when you did not intend to participate or enjoy yourself?


Frankly, I'd be on my own if I thought I'd stand a chance
To be honest, I would be alone because I do not think I have a genuine opportunity to succeed with you.


Why'd you take your glasses off if you don't intend to fight?
Why do the opposite of what makes sense if you did not plan on being involved in a combative situation?


Frankly, I'd be on my own if I thought I'd last the night
To be honest, I would be on my own because I do not think I could physically handle a fight.


No screaming or fighting, no scratching or biting
Let us refrain from engaging in any form of physical altercation where we might have outbursts or cause harm.


We're just shaking hands goodnight
We are just giving each other a cordial farewell.


Sullen and silent, emotionally violent
We are both upset and resentful, but we are not expressing these emotions.


I waited a while and nothing, nothing
I was patient and expected to see some change or progress, but nothing happened.


Why say anything nice when you can say nothing at all?
What is the point of trying to make amends or be pleasant with each other when it is easier to ignore the situation entirely?


Why'd you put your backpack on if you won't just take a hike?
Why did you prepare to leave if you did not have any intention of actually doing so?


Frankly, I'd be out the door if you hadn't sold my bike
To be honest, I would have left by now if you had not caused trouble by selling my belongings without permission.


No fencing or sparring, no bruising or scarring
We should not engage in any metaphorical combat that could lead us to hurt each other emotionally or mentally.


And no 'au revoiring' yet
We have not even said goodbye yet.


No communication, just alienation
We are not talking things out, but instead building up a divide between us.


I've tried to be patient but nothing, nothing
I have tried to give this situation some time to improve, but it still remains unresolved.


Say anything nice, a simple device
Sometimes, it can be helpful to just say kind words to try and ease tension.


That makes everything beautiful just ordinary
When everything is nice, it can become monotonous or unremarkable.


Nice can come at a price, forever imbued with all this boredom
Being too nice can lead to feeling like there is no excitement or stimulation in a relationship.


Sacrifice can only suffice when something is beautiful
Giving up or compromising for someone else is only worthwhile if it leads to a positive outcome or strengthens the relationship.


After all the resentment, all the discontentment
Despite holding contempt and dissatisfaction towards each other,


The flowers you sent meant nothing, nothing
any attempts at a nice gesture or communication hold no weight due to the deeper issues between us.


You can say nothing at all
Sometimes, it is better to not say anything at all and let things be.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: ED ROBERTSON, STEVEN PAGE, TYLER STEWART

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