I'd Rather Be Me
Barrett Wilbert Weed Lyrics


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So your best friend screwed you over
Acted nice when she's not nice
Well, I have some advice
'Cause it's happened to me Twice

Here's my secret strategy
It always works because
The world doesn't end
It just feels like it does

So raise your right finger
And solemnly swear
"Whatever they say about me
I don't care!"

I won't twist in knots to join your game
I will say, "you make me mad"
And if you treat me bad
I'll say "you're bad"

And if I eat alone from this moment on
That's just what I'll do
'Cause I'd rather be me
I'd rather be me
I'd rather be me than be with you

We're supposed to all be ladies
And be nurturing and care
Is that really fair?
Boys get to fight, we have to share

Here's the way that turns out
We always understand
How to slap someone down
With our underhand

So here's my right finger
To how girls should behave
'Cause sometimes what's meant to break you
Makes you brave

So I will not act all innocent
I won't fake apologize
Let's just fight and then make up, not tell these lies

Let's call our damage even
Clean the slate till it's like new
It's a new life for me
Where I'd rather be me
I'd rather be me
Than be with you

I'll say, no (No!)

I'll say, knock it off, with your notes and your rules and your games
And those sycophants who follow you, I'll remember all their names

And when they drag you down like they inevitably do
I will not laugh along with them
And approve their palace coup
'Cause that's not me

(Janis Janis Janis Janis)

I don't need their good opinions
I have plenty of opinions
Everybody has opinions but it doesn't make them true
What's true is being me
And I'd rather be me
I'd rather be me than be with you

So raise them high 'cause playing nice and shy is insulting my IQ
Yeah yeah yeah

I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I'd rather be me than be with you!

I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)




I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I'd rather be me than be with you

Overall Meaning

In Barrett Wilbert Weed's song "I'd Rather Be Me," the singer offers advice for when someone has been wronged by a friend. She acknowledges that the situation can be hurtful, but she urges the listener not to lose themselves in the process. The singer suggests confidently owning one's identity and not conforming to social expectations. She doesn't advocate for lying and says that if someone treats her poorly, she will call them out on it. She encourages others to stand up for themselves and not be afraid of confrontation.


The second verse challenges gender norms and expectations that force girls to avoid conflict and always be polite. The song suggests that while boys are taught to fight and assert their dominance, girls are supposed to be accommodating and nurturing. The singer rejects this notion and encourages others to be themselves and not conform to societal expectations. The song concludes with an affirmation that it's better to be true to oneself than to fit in with others.


Line by Line Meaning

So your best friend screwed you over
Your closest friend betrayed you


Acted nice when she's not nice
Pretended to be kind, but really is not


Well, I have some advice
I have a suggestion


'Cause it's happened to me Twice
I have gone through it twice


Here's my secret strategy
I have a secret approach


It always works because
It is always successful as


The world doesn't end
The world does not stop existing


It just feels like it does
It just seems like it has ended


So raise your right finger
Raise your right middle finger


And solemnly swear
Make a serious promise


"Whatever they say about me
Whatever they say regarding me


I don't care!"
I do not care about their opinion


I won't twist in knots to join your game
I will not contort myself to fit in with your plans


I will say, "you make me mad"
I will express my anger


And if you treat me bad
And if you treat me poorly


I'll say "you're bad"
I will tell you that you are a bad person


And if I eat alone from this moment on
And if I dine by myself from now on


That's just what I'll do
I am fine with it


'Cause I'd rather be me
Because I prefer being myself


I'd rather be me
I would rather be myself


I'd rather be me than be with you
I would rather be alone than be with you


We're supposed to all be ladies
We are expected to act like proper women


And be nurturing and care
And be caring and compassionate


Is that really fair?
Is that truly equitable?


Boys get to fight, we have to share
Boys are allowed to brawl while we have to cooperate


Here's the way that turns out
This is the outcome of that approach


We always understand
We comprehend very well


How to slap someone down
How to humiliate someone


With our underhand
Secretly and covertly


So here's my right finger
So here is my right middle finger


To how girls should behave
To how girls are expected to act


'Cause sometimes what's meant to break you
Because sometimes what is meant to shatter you


Makes you brave
Makes you courageous


So I will not act all innocent
So I will not pretend to be naive


I won't fake apologize
I will not falsely say sorry


Let's just fight and then make up, not tell these lies
Let's argue and reconcile honestly, without deception


Let's call our damage even
Let's consider our harm equitable


Clean the slate till it's like new
Start anew without any burden of the past


It's a new life for me
It is a fresh beginning for myself


Where I'd rather be me
Where I prefer being myself


I'd rather be me
I would rather be myself


I'd rather be me than be with you
I would rather be alone than be with you


I'll say, no (No!)
I will say no with emphasis


I'll say, knock it off, with your notes and your rules and your games
I will tell you to stop with your strict instructions and regulations


And those sycophants who follow you, I'll remember all their names
And I will keep a list of all your followers who are insincere flatterers


And when they drag you down like they inevitably do
And when they inevitably bring you down


I will not laugh along with them
I will not join them in mocking you


And approve their palace coup
And allow them to take over your throne


'Cause that's not me
Because that is not who I am


(Janis Janis Janis Janis)
(Chorus)


I don't need their good opinions
I do not require their favourable views


I have plenty of opinions
I have an abundant amount of ideas


Everybody has opinions but it doesn't make them true
Everyone has an opinion, but it is not necessarily accurate


What's true is being me
What is genuine is being myself


And I'd rather be me
And I prefer being myself


I'd rather be me than be with you
I would rather be alone than be with you


So raise them high 'cause playing nice and shy is insulting my IQ
So raise your middle fingers high because acting polite and bashful is offensive to my intelligence


I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I prefer being myself


I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I prefer being myself


I'd rather be me than be with you!
I would rather be alone than be with you




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Jeffrey Richmond, Nell Benjamin

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@kikiskatalog

Lyrics: So your best friend screwed you over
Acted nice when she's not nice
Well, I have some advice
'Cause it's happened to me Twice

Here's my secret strategy
It always works because
The world doesn't end
It just feels like it does

So raise your right finger
And solemnly swear
"Whatever they say about me
I don't care!"

I won't twist in knots to join your game
I will say, "you make me mad"
And if you treat me bad
I'll say "you're bad"

And if I eat alone from this moment on
That's just what I'll do
'Cause I'd rather be me
I'd rather be me
I'd rather be me than be with you

We're supposed to all be ladies
And be nurturing and care
Is that really fair?
Boys get to fight, we have to share

Here's the way that turns out
We always understand
How to slap someone down
With our underhand

So here's my right finger
To how girls should behave
'Cause sometimes what's meant to break you
Makes you brave

So I will not act all innocent
I won't fake apologize
Let's just fight and then make up, not tell these lies

Let's call our damage even
Clean the slate till it's like new
It's a new life for me
Where I'd rather be me
I'd rather be me
Than be with you

I'll say, no (No!)

I'll say, knock it off, with your notes and your rules and your games
And those sycophants who follow you, I'll remember all their names

And when they drag you down like they inevitably do
I will not laugh along with them
And approve their palace coup
'Cause that's not me

I don't need their good opinions
I have plenty of opinions
Everybody has opinions but it doesn't make them true
What's true is being me
And I'd rather be me
I'd rather be me than be with you

So raise them high 'cause playing nice and shy is insulting my IQ
Yeah yeah yeah

I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I'd rather be me than be with you!
I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I'd rather be me than be with you



@saturn245

LYRICS:

So your best friend screwed you over
Acted nice when she not nice
Well, I have some advice
‘Cause it’s happened to me. Twice

Here’s my secret strategy
It always works because
The world doesn’t end
It just feels like it does

So raise your right finger
And solemnly swear
"Whatever they say about me
I don’t care!"

I won’t twist in knots to join your game
I will say, "you make me mad."
And if you treat me bad
I’ll say “you’re bad”

And if I eat alone from this moment on
That’s just what I’ll do
‘Cause I’d rather be me
I’d rather be me
I’d rather be me than be with you

We’re supposed to all be ladies
And be nurturing and care
Is that really fair?
Boys get to fight, we have to share

Here’s the way that turns out
We always understand
How to slap someone down
With our underhand

So here’s my right finger
To how girls should behave
'Cause sometimes what’s meant to break you
Makes you brave

So I will not act all innocent
I won’t fake apologize
Let’s just fight and then make up
Not tell these lies

Let’s call our damage even
Clean the slate till it's like new
It’s a new life for me
Where I’d rather be me
I’d rather be me
Than be with you

I'll say, "NO!"

I’ll say, "knock it off, with your notes
And your rules and your games."
And those sycophants who follow you
I’ll remember all their names

And when they drag you down
Like they inevitably do
I will not laugh along with them
And approve their palace coup
‘Cause that’s not me

I don’t need their good opinions
I have plenty of opinions
Everybody has opinions but it doesn’t make them true

What’s true is being me
And I’d rather be me
I’d rather be me than be with you

So raise them high ‘cause playing nice and shy is insulting my IQ

I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I'd rather be me than be with you
I'd rather be me
I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I'd rather be me (I'd rather be me)
I'd rather be me than be with you

Hi that took a while to type



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@angiesole9983

barrett wilbert weed: *is successful in singing/acting and much more*
me every time i see her: tHaTs VeRoNiCa SaWyEr

@zeturtlegurl-_-763

angie draws completely accurate

@crimsondahlia

TBH Same--

@otti8169

angie draws sameeeeee

@johannaplockl463

Who's that with heather?

VERONICA

@jordanwillows6487

LEGIT HOW I FEEL! 😂

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@hollylane3152

Imagine being disappointed about being hugged by Barrett.

@yes-mh8hh

impossible.

@danipoo766

Holly Lane atrocious

@jennahkay7923

is that even remotely possible?! if you are, quit being a mythic bitch ;)

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