Where Do You Belong?
Barrett Wilbert Weed Lyrics

My momma used to tell me
Her mother gave her advice and guidance

Baby girl, don't ever eat lunch on the John
Don't make mistakes that would lead to embarrassment, shame, or negative labels

So what if all the ducklings think you're ugly?
Don't worry about the opinions of those who lack the ability to appreciate who you truly are

It's because they've never seen a swan
They lack the perspective and insight to recognize the beauty and value of unique individuals

It takes all kind of people who need people
Everyone has a need for social connections and human relationships

So find people you can bare
Find companions who you can tolerate and enjoy spending time with

Go find your group, your herd, your flock
Find a group of people who share your interests and personality traits

Come take a walk and answer my small questionnaire
Take a journey of self-discovery to identify where you belong

Where do you belong?
Reflect on your identity and social preferences to find where you fit in

You'll be judged on sight
People may form opinions about you before getting to know you well

And made to fit
You may feel pressure to conform to certain social norms and expectations

So find a clique and stick with it
Join a group and follow their rules in order to belong

Let's take a walk in the cafeteria, shall we?
Explore the different social groups in a high school environment

I'll show you the world as I see it
The singer will provide commentary and insight on each social group

Varsity jocks and jv jocks
There are different levels of athleticism and popularity among male sports teams

Will throw you in a locker if you say "hello"
Some jocks may bully or mistreat those who aren't part of their team or clique

The rich stoners hate the gangsta whites
Different subcultures may have conflicts or prejudices towards each other

Though they're all smokin' the same oregano
Despite their differences, they share some common interests or behaviors

Here's the sexually active band geeks
There are different stereotypes and expectations for different subcultures in high school

I've got two words for you
The artist is about to make a joke or provocative comment

Embouchure" and ew
Playing a musical instrument may require mouth movements that are deemed gross by others

And if you like blowing and fingering
Playing certain instruments may involve physical movements that can be made into crass jokes

This is the group of you!
Musicians and band members may share similar experiences and challenges

Back me up, show choir!
Show choir members may support each other and provide backup for the artist's song

We're dying to tell ya!
The show choir members are eager to share information and gossip about different social groups

We all get a box that's where we go
People are often labeled and stereotyped based on their social groups or interests

It's stifling but at least you know
Being part of a social group can be limiting, but may also provide a sense of identity or belonging

God who is at this table?
The artist is wondering about the identity or status of the people at her table

Why it's Janis and Damian, too (oh Oh)
The artist recognizes the two people as social outcasts who can offer unique perspectives and friendship

We're not exactly joiners
Janis and Damian are not part of a specific social group or clique themselves

But, we'll be good friends to you
Janis and Damian can offer support and companionship to those who feel lost or excluded

And our friendship means you can skip
Being friends with Janis and Damian means not having to follow strict social rules or expectations

The geeks and the freaks, and the peaking too soon
Janis and Damian are friends with social outcasts and early bloomers who don't fit in traditional cliques

The strivers, and the survivors, just waiting for june
Their social group includes people with different goals and challenges, not just high achievers or popular kids

The junior achievers
These people may try to excel academically or socially to get ahead

The christian believers
This group may share religious beliefs and values

The tall, flowering wallflowers, bending on sneakers
There may be people who are awkward, shy, or uncertain, but who still have unique attributes and potential

Forget this fuss and shall with us
Avoid the drama and pretentiousness of cliques and hang out with Janis and Damian

Come to lunch and sit with us!
Janis and Damian are offering a friendly and welcoming place to eat and socialize

Hey, Cady, this is where you fit
The artist is singling out Cady as someone who belongs in this more accepting and diverse social group

Hey, Cady, this is where you sit
The artist is encouraging Cady to join the group and stay at their table

Here's where you belong!
This social group is where Cady can truly fit in and find acceptance