I Don't Know Why Bother Myself
Bee Gees Lyrics


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I'm a fool , I've taken no advice
And I'm so cruel , I'm talkin' to you nice
But then again you may not take me back
Oh just to put my hat back on your rack

Guess I don't know why I bother with myself
You will find a part of me in someone else
I never argued with the fact that she is mine
I only hurt her and kissed her three times out of nine

You have the edge to talk to men and make them feel at home
You spent that every lasting cent on someone that's not your own
Bear with me there's bound to be a chance
To heal the wound and start back our romance

I gained a heart and part of it is yours
Oh just to see my love walk through these doors
Oh and my life's bound out ahead , I can not look
And if you read me , then I am just a book

You don't care if rain falls in my room
You won't be there if trouble fills my spoon




I'm just a clown that plays around with misery in my way
Forgetting all the rules of love...

Overall Meaning

In "I Don't Know Why I Bother with Myself," Bee Gees sing about a man who is aware of his own mistakes, but he cannot help himself from repeating them. He has ignored the advice given to him in the past and has been cruel to his loved one, but deep down inside, he knows that he has feelings for her. The man realizes that he has hurt her multiple times, and that he does not deserve her. Still, he hopes that he can win her back and that they can heal the wounds in their relationship.


The song speaks to the universal theme of love and heartbreak, highlighting the ways in which we often hurt the people we care about the most. The lyrics suggest that it is not easy to navigate the treacherous waters of relationships, and we are bound to make mistakes along the way. However, the song also conveys the message of forgiveness and second chances, as the man hopes that his loved one will give him another opportunity to right his wrongs.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm a fool , I've taken no advice
I have made foolish decisions without seeking advice from others.


And I'm so cruel , I'm talkin' to you nice
Despite my cruel actions, I am trying to speak kindly to you.


But then again you may not take me back
I am unsure if you will forgive me and take me back.


Oh just to put my hat back on your rack
I long to return to a place where I feel at home and comfortable with you.


Guess I don't know why I bother with myself
I am questioning why I continue to make poor decisions and hurt others.


You will find a part of me in someone else
I have given a part of myself to someone else and cannot get it back.


I never argued with the fact that she is mine
I have accepted that I have a partner, but still made mistakes and hurt her.


I only hurt her and kissed her three times out of nine
I have hurt and betrayed my partner multiple times, even though I only kissed someone else a few times.


You have the edge to talk to men and make them feel at home
You have a natural ability to make men feel comfortable and at ease when talking to them.


You spent that every lasting cent on someone that's not your own
You have given all of your money and resources to someone who is not your partner.


Bear with me there's bound to be a chance
Please be patient with me, as there may be a chance for us to reconcile.


To heal the wound and start back our romance
We can work to mend our relationship and rekindle our romance.


I gained a heart and part of it is yours
My heart is yours, and you hold a special place in it.


Oh just to see my love walk through these doors
I long to see you walk through the doors and return to my life.


Oh and my life's bound out ahead , I can not look
I am uncertain about the future and unable to see what lies ahead.


And if you read me , then I am just a book
If you understand me, then you know all there is to know about me.


You don't care if rain falls in my room
You are indifferent to my struggles and problems.


You won't be there if trouble fills my spoon
You will not be there to help me if I am in trouble or need support.


I'm just a clown that plays around with misery in my way
I often make light of my own problems and am not taking them seriously.


Forgetting all the rules of love...
I have disregarded the basic principles and expectations of being in a loving relationship.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ROBIN HUGH GIBB

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Philip Kassabian


on Stayin Alive

What a fantastic song by the Bee Gee's.

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