I Was a Lover a Leader of Men
Bee Gees Lyrics


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I was a lover, a leader of me
All of the women I knew were my friends
I was so happy, my feet on the ground
I didn't know I was on the way down
Cause you don't feel the same
It's only a game, it's only a game, it's only a game

I had a billion or two in the bank
I gave to charity, ain't got no thanks
You gave me all that a woman could give
Less you're affection, I don't want to live
Cause you don't feel the same
It's only a game, it's only a game, it's only a game

Cause you don't feel the same
I was a lover, a leader of me
All of the women I knew were my friends
I was so happy, my feet on the ground
I didn't know, I was on the way down




Cause you don't feel the same
It's only a game, it's only a game , it's only a game

Overall Meaning

The Bee Gees’ song I Was a Lover a Leader of Men is about a man who thought he had everything, but he didn't realize that the woman he loved didn't feel the same way about him. The song describes a man who had a lot of friends, a lot of money and a lot of love to give. However, he was unaware that he was on his way down emotionally, as the love of his life didn't feel the same way about him.


The first verse of the song talks about how the man had a lot of female friends, but he was not romantically involved with any of them. He was content with his love life and felt happy and grounded. But as the song progresses, he realizes that the woman he really wants doesn't want him back. He has plenty of money and is very charitable, but he finds that receiving affection from a woman is just as important. He doesn't have that love and affection from the woman he desires and stops feeling happy.


In the chorus, the man realizes that his feelings are not reciprocated, and he describes it as "only a game." To him, love is not just a game, but he feels like he was played by the woman he loved. The song's melody has a melancholic tune that evokes the feeling of loss and realization of the harsh reality; that the woman he loved doesn't feel the same way, leaving him on a downward spiral.


Line by Line Meaning

I was a lover, a leader of me
I was in charge of my own life and love


All of the women I knew were my friends
I had platonic relationships with all the women in my life


I was so happy, my feet on the ground
I was content and satisfied with my life


I didn't know I was on the way down
I wasn't aware that my life was headed in a negative direction


Cause you don't feel the same
My partner doesn't share the same feelings as me


It's only a game, it's only a game, it's only a game
Love is just a trivial pursuit


I had a billion or two in the bank
I was very wealthy


I gave to charity, ain't got no thanks
I made charitable donations without receiving gratitude


You gave me all that a woman could give
My partner gave me everything a woman could offer


Less you're affection, I don't want to live
Without your love, I don't want to continue living




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BARRY GIBB

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Bee Gees

I WAS A LOVER, A LEADER OF MAN

Lyrics:Barry Gibb Music:Barry Gibb

I was a lover, a leader of men,
all of the women I knew were my friends.
I was so happy, my feet on the ground,
I didn't know I was on the way down

'cause you don't feel the same, it's only a game,

I had a billion or two in the bank,
I gave to charity, ain't got no thanks.
You gave me all that a woman could give
less your affection, I don't want to live



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The Owner and the Creator of this song (full/complete song melody and style how to sing this song + lyrics------ ) I was a lover (a leader of men) by Bee Gees is Dian Rubianti /
Originally Published by Bee Gees (Bee Gees official Youtube)
Song Writer : Dian Rubianti (lyrics------, full/complete song melody style how-vocal personality character harmonize melody-genre and emotion-rhytm to sing the song created by Dian Rubianti )
Lyrics written by Dian Rubianti + --------------
song Title "I was a lover (a leader of men)" Own by Dian Rubianti.
(World first Original recorded by Dian Rubianti)
This song was taken without permission/illegally on air from Dian Rubianti's home when it was creating alone by Dian Rubianti by singing alone -----
one take only (Fast) song creation by Dian Rubianti by singing only without music instrument / Once in a lifetime taken on creating only----original Done by Dian Rubianti in home and taken.
Published Originally by Bee Gees (Bee Gees official audio /audio youtube) by original lyrics----- in perfect pitch song melody/original song melody by original style (vocal personality character harmonize melody-genre and emotion-rhythm) created alone by singing alone by Dian Rubianti without music instrument-
The lyrics (Dian Rubianti's heart feeling daily-emotion/the main theme) created instantly the song melody completely by the way/how it was singing spontanity in creating alone by Dian Rubianti (original style) (perfect pitch song by Dian Rubianti in creating this song) ---
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Shelley Wantiez

In this video, you can really tell that their voices got stronger and blended even better. I am so impressed with Mo and that twelve string. He was just naturally talented both with instruments, vocals, and composing. I say this because he was always so terribly underrated. I love them all but always have had a very tender spot for Mo.

Marilyn Newton GIBB

WOW YOU REALLY LOVE MAURICE SINGING AND PLAYING HIS 12 STRING GUITAR

Betty Boop

I know Mo would not believe he was underrated , he did what was comfortable to him , band of brothers , always , equal brothers in their minds and that’s all that matters

henry shu

Exactly, and you can tell Robin had already got that unbelievable range!

Ilona Jurecska

Mo was my number one !!!

felly saguino

I loved The Bee Gees but Robin is my no.1.

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guibson gibb

Bee Gees a maior banda de todos os tempos o mito da musica mundial

Patti Brooks

I really love The Bee Gees ! The Bee Gees were awesome in the 60s as well in the later years too ! A really big fan I am !

Maria Delfina de Souza Oliveira

Adolescentes, inocente lindos de coração e mente,pureza de caráter incontestável, foram escolhidos à dedo, para serem enviados à terra,para servir à Deus, alegrando a humanidade inteira, para sempre Bee Gees ❤.

Mironova Natalia

Подписываюсь под каждым Вашим словом !!🤝🤝❤❤🇷🇺🇷🇺

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