When Do I
Bee Gees Lyrics


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Tell me if dreams do come true
If so then I know that I'm losing you
And you know the address where we live
But I swear there'll be no turning back to you
I won't forgive

When do I and when do I
Know if there's an answer why?
I wonder if I know where I fit in

How do I and how do I
Stop myself from gonna cry?
I wonder if I know where I fit in

Tell me if dreams do come true
If so then I know that I'm losing you
And you know the address where we live
But I swear there'll be no turning back to you
I won't forgive

When do I and when do I
Know if there's an answer why?
I wonder if I know where I fit in

And how do I and how do I
Stop myself from gonna cry?
I wonder if I know where I fit in

And when do I and when do I
When do I




When do I
Know if I fit in?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Bee Gees' song "When Do I" express a sense of confusion and uncertainty about the future of a relationship. The opening lines "Tell me if dreams do come true, if so then I know that I'm losing you" suggest that the singer is beginning to accept that their relationship may be coming to an end. The following lines "And you know the address where we live, but I swear there'll be no turning back to you, I won't forgive" indicate that the singer is determined to move on and will not be looking back on the relationship.


The chorus of the song brings up questions, "When do I and when do I know if there's an answer why? I wonder if I know where I fit in. How do I and how do I stop myself from gonna cry?" These lyrics suggest that the singer is struggling to understand the reasons behind the end of their relationship, and how they fit into the world around them now that they are no longer with their partner. The final lines "And when do I and when do I, when do I, when do I know if I fit in?" further emphasize this feeling of confusion and searching for a sense of belonging.


Interestingly, the song features a prominent use of the synthesizer, which was a relatively new technology at the time of its release in 1981. The Bee Gees were known for their experimentation with new sounds and styles in their music, and "When Do I" is no exception.


Line by Line Meaning

Tell me if dreams do come true
I need to know if my dreams of being with you will ever come true


If so then I know that I'm losing you
If my dreams won't come true, then I realize that I'm losing you


And you know the address where we live
You know where I am and how to reach me if you want to come back


But I swear there'll be no turning back to you
Despite your knowledge of where I live, I'm resolute in not going back to you


I won't forgive
I can never forgive you for the pain and heartache you've caused


When do I and when do I
I can't help but wonder at what point will I


Know if there's an answer why?
Understand the reason for my heartbreak and unanswered questions


I wonder if I know where I fit in
I'm pondering if I have any place in your life or if I'm just an afterthought


How do I and how do I
I'm feeling helpless and wondering what I can do to


Stop myself from gonna cry?
Prevent myself from breaking down and crying over the loss of you


And when do I and when do I
I can't help but wonder at what point will I


When do I
Find my place in this world and move on from my heartbreak


Know if I fit in?
Finally feel like I belong somewhere




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Barry Gibb, Robin Hugh Gibb

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Philip Kassabian


on Stayin Alive

What a fantastic song by the Bee Gee's.

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