Always Breaking My Heart
Belinda Carlisle Lyrics
Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴ Line by Line Meaning ↴
Every finger points at me
This might be funny
If it wasn't such a tragedy
After a while
It gets harder to smile
And pretend that things are OK
I won't be there 'cause you're always breaking my heart
You're always breaking my heart
you always tear it apart
Yeah oh yeah
So cross yourself now
Get down on your knees and pray
But no powers from heaven
Could ever take the darkness away
I've tried climbing your walls (ah ah ah)
But you've built them too tall (ah ah ah)
So it's time I walk away now (walk away now)
And when you call me in the middle of the night (of the night)
There's no one there 'cause you're always breaking my heart
You're always breaking my heart
You always tear it apart
Yeah yeah yeah
Reach out a hand to hold (ah ah ah)
Ain't it sad when the distance grows (ah)
Two hearts cling to their fates
Remember that first embrace
But I can't worry anymore
So when you need me in the middle of the night
(of the night)
I won't be there 'cause you're always breaking my heart
You're always breaking my heart
You always tear it apart
Oh yeah
You're always breaking my heart
You're always breaking my heart
You always tear it apart
Yeah yeah yeah
In "Always Breaking My Heart," Belinda Carlisle sings about the pain and frustration of being in a relationship with someone who constantly hurts her. The first part of the song, "Is this what you want, Every finger points at me," is a question to the significant other, asking whether they truly want to hurt her or whether they are just oblivious to the damage they are causing. The next line, "This might be funny, If it wasn't such a tragedy," suggests the irony of the situation: the pain is not amusing, and it is indeed a tragedy. The pre-chorus, "After a while, It gets harder to smile and pretend that things are OK," demonstrates the difficulty in trying to act as if everything is all right when they are clearly not.
The chorus, "So when you need me in the middle of the night, I won't be there 'cause you're always breaking my heart, You're always breaking my heart, you always tear it apart, Yeah oh yeah," is a statement of resignation on Carlisle's part. She has given up on the relationship and cannot bear to be hurt anymore. The line "So cross yourself now, Get down on your knees and pray, But no powers from heaven, Could ever take the darkness away" implies that the damage has been done and cannot be undone, even with a prayer.
The second verse is essentially a repetition of the first with more emphasis on how the persona has tried to make the relationship work. It has been an ongoing struggle, and it is time for the relationship to end. The ending of the song is therefore a reaffirmation of the persona's decision to walk away.
Line by Line Meaning
Is this what you want
Questioning whether the other person's actions are intentional
Every finger points at me
Feeling blamed for everything that goes wrong in the relationship
This might be funny
The situation may seem ironic or absurd
If it wasn't such a tragedy
But the reality is harsh and painful
After a while
Continuously undergoing this struggle has an effect on one's emotional state
It gets harder to smile
Putting on a façade becomes more difficult over time
And pretend that things are OK
Acting like nothing is wrong despite the real state of the relationship
So when you need me in the middle of the night
Realizing that the other person only comes to them when it is convenient
I won't be there 'cause you're always breaking my heart
Refusing to continue putting their heart on the line for someone who consistently causes them pain
You're always breaking my heart
Emphasizing how frequent and repetitive the heartbreak has become
you always tear it apart
The other person's actions consistently damage and ruin their relationship
So cross yourself now
Suggesting that the other person may need to seek divine intervention to change their ways
Get down on your knees and pray
Using religious imagery to emphasize the need for change
But no powers from heaven
Highlighting the idea that even divine intervention may not be enough to fix a broken relationship
Could ever take the darkness away
The pain caused by the other person's behavior cannot be easily eradicated
I've tried climbing your walls
Attempting to break through their partner's emotional barriers
But you've built them too tall
Realizing that their partner may be too closed off to truly connect with them
So it's time I walk away now
Choosing to end the relationship, despite the emotional pain it will cause
There's no one there 'cause you're always breaking my heart
Knowing that their partner will not be there for them, even in their moment of need
Reach out a hand to hold
Expressing a desire for physical and emotional connection with their partner
Ain't it sad when the distance grows
Recognizing the growing emotional gap between them and their partner
Two hearts cling to their fates
Acknowledging the powerlessness of both individuals to change the course of the relationship
Remember that first embrace
Reminiscing about the early days of their relationship, when things were better
But I can't worry anymore
Realizing that they must let go of their worries and move on with their life
You're always breaking my heart
Repeating the central theme of the song, that the other person is the root cause of their pain
Oh yeah
Expressing sadness, but also acknowledging the need to move on from the relationship
Yeah yeah yeah
An additional emphasis on the repetitive nature of their heartbreak
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: PER GESSLE
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
Jonnnn
She was my first big crush at about 13. 25 years later she’s probably my perfect woman here 😂
Springtrap Lover2010
I was 9 when heaven is a place on Earth came out and have loved her ever since.
M. W.
I can really understand this...
...!👍
Philippe Valois
La même chose pour moi : je suis tombé amoureux d'elle en 1987. Je suis toujours amoureux d'elle en 2021.
Arturo Del Fabbro
@Springtrap Lover2010 I was 13 and i was totally hooked by her and That Song and her music continues to be special to me .
Robbie
One of Belinda's underrated gems
Brandon Moore
@Mr Raum Belinda Carlisle Always Breaking My Heart is my favorite song
Gebus
It is good. Though in all fairness, the version by Per Gessle is better (for me). He wrote the song btw.
Tapani M
The perfect pop song. Absolutely brilliant. Love Belinda Carlisle. Her songs and albums are amazing.
Ocean Lover
I love this song! Belinda looks amazing as usual! ✌🏻🙂✌🏻