Stranger
Ben Caplan Lyrics
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Would tuck me into bed
And each night as she kissed me
These are the words that she said
She said don't go to bed with strangers
Don't play with the dead
Always keep your wits sharp
Yay diridiri day diridiri day
Yay diridiri day daydaday
Yiridaydayday yirididaydayday
Dayday dayday dayday
When I was just a schoolboy
My father, he spoke unto me
He said, Voichick, my son
Don't trust anyone
And remember that nothing is free
And the world is full of strangers
The world is full of dread
The world is full of charm and wits
And millions of tears you will shed
Yay diridiri day diridiri day
Yay diridiri day daydaday
Yiridaydayday yirididaydayday
Dayday dayday dayday
Well, when I was a young man
My professor at university
Said advice is corrupting
Don't ever be trusting
Don't show your emotion
Human suffering is an ocean
And it's dark at the bottom of the sea
And there's no such thing as a stranger
They're equally backwards and wrong
Shapened axes, not wits
Bones are broken by sticks
And you never be free till you're strong
Yay diridiri day diridiri day
Yay diridiri day daydaday
Yiridaydayday yirididaydayday
Dayday dayday dayday
Well, young men grow older
And the world, it gets colder
Though it never was warm to begin
Don't let down your guard
For the reaper works hard
And he will not take pause till you're dead
Now I'm old and I'm rusty
My troubles like sand on a beach
They can't be calculated
I always have waited
For something just out of reach
And I to myself am a stranger
My heart is an island of lead
My world is resounding
With miseries abounding
There's only one thing to be said
I'll say Yay diridiri day diridiri day
Yay diridiri day daydaday
Yiridaydayday yirididaydayday
Dayday dayday dayday
The song "Stranger" by Ben Caplan starts with the artist's recollections of his mother’s bedtime warnings, advising him to avoid strangers, never play with the dead and always stay sharp. The significance of these warnings goes beyond child safety and implies the theme of distrust and caution that follows through the entire song. The second verse describes his father's similar warning about the reality of a world full of dread and strangers where nothing is free. The song then goes on to narrate the lessons he learned from his professor at university about the corrupting nature of advice, the need for emotional detachment and the inevitability of human suffering.
The final verse depicts the artist as an old man burdened with troubles and struggles that cannot be calculated, and he now views himself as a stranger within his heart that is islanded with lead. The song always comes back to the repeated chorus of "Yay diridiri day diridiri day," which evokes a sense of vulnerability, insecurity, and a deep yet indefinable yearning for security that never comes.
Overall, the song "Stranger" provides a bleak and melancholic outlook on life that is full of unknown dangers, suggesting that we can never trust anyone truly, and playing it safe is essential to survive in a world that is always full of surprises.
Line by Line Meaning
When I was a child my mother
The singer is reminiscing about when he was a child and his mother would tuck him into bed and impart some wisdom
Would tuck me into bed
His mother would physically put him in bed
And each night as she kissed me
Before the singer went to bed, his mother would kiss him goodnight
These are the words that she said
Every night his mother would say something important to the artist
She said don't go to bed with strangers
His mother's advice was to not sleep with people he didn't know
Don't play with the dead
His mother's advice was to avoid things that could lead to trouble
Always keep your wits sharp
His mother's advice was to be careful and aware of his surroundings
Like the axe inside the shed
One of the weapons to defend oneself is a sharp axe, which his mother kept handy in the shed
When I was just a schoolboy
Now the artist is remembering when he was a little older and something else his father told him
My father, he spoke unto me
His father gave him some advice
He said, Voichick, my son
His father addressed him in a loving way
Don't trust anyone
His father warned him about the dangers in the world
And remember that nothing is free
Life isn't free and one needs to work hard to succeed
And the world is full of strangers
There are many people in the world, some of whom are not familiar and could be dangerous
The world is full of dread
The world can be a scary place
The world is full of charm and wits
The world has many good things to enjoy
And millions of tears you will shed
The world has many hardships and people will suffer
Well, when I was a young man
The singer is now remembering something his professor said to him
My professor at university
His professor taught him something important
Said advice is corrupting
The professor believed that advice can be harmful
Don't ever be trusting
The professor advised being cautious and not to trust others easily
Don't show your emotion
Showing emotions makes you vulnerable
Human suffering is an ocean
There is a lot of pain and suffering in the world
And it's dark at the bottom of the sea
The depths of human suffering can be overwhelming and depressing
And there's no such thing as a stranger
The professor believes that everyone is the same and should be treated equally
They're equally backwards and wrong
All people are flawed and make mistakes
Shapened axes, not wits
The way to survive is to be strong and use weapons
Bones are broken by sticks
Violence is commonplace and can be painful and deadly
And you never be free till you're strong
To survive in the world, one must be strong or they will always be at the mercy of others
Well, young men grow older
The singer is now older and reflecting on life
And the world, it gets colder
As the singer got older, he realized that the world is not as friendly as he once believed
Though it never was warm to begin
The world was always harsh and unforgiving
Don't let down your guard
You cannot be too cautious
For the reaper works hard
Death is inevitable and everyone must eventually die
And he will not take pause till you're dead
Death never stops its work until everyone perishes
Now I'm old and I'm rusty
The artist is now very old and feels old and worn out
My troubles like sand on a beach
The singer's problems are many and seem never-ending
They can't be calculated
His problems cannot be quantified or analyzed
I always have waited
He has waited all his life for something that has never come
For something just out of reach
Whatever he was waiting for is still unattainable
And I to myself am a stranger
The artist no longer feels connected to himself or others
My heart is an island of lead
The singer's heart is heavy with pain and misery
My world is resounding
The world seems to be echoing with despair and sadness
With miseries abounding
There is much suffering in the world
There's only one thing to be said
There's only one conclusion to draw from his experiences
I'll say Yay diridiri day diridiri day
The artist repeats the refrain he used throughout the song
Yay diridiri day daydaday
The refrain is a nonsensical phrase
Yiridaydayday yirididaydayday
The refrain does not have any meaning
Dayday dayday dayday
The refrain is simply a way to fill out the song
Contributed by Evelyn I. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
@kalleklositz
When I was a child my mother
Would tuck me into bed
And each night as she kissed me
These are the words that she said
She said don't go to bed with strangers
Don't play with the dead
Always keep your wits sharp
Like the axe inside the shed
Yay diridiri day diridiri day
Yay diridiri day daydaday
Yiridaydayday yirididaydayday
Dayday dayday dayday
Well, when I was just a schoolboy
My father, he spoke unto me
He said, Voichick, my son
Don't trust anyone
And remember that nothing is free
And the world is full of strangers
The world is full of dread
The world is full of charm and wits
And millions of tears you will shed
Yay diridiri day diridiri day
Yay diridiri day daydaday
Yiridaydayday yirididaydayday
Dayday dayday dayday
Well, when I was a young man
My professor at university
Said advice is corrupting
Don't ever be trusting
Don't show your emotion
Human suffering is an ocean
And it's dark at the bottom of the sea
And there's no such thing as a stranger
We're all equally backwards and wrong
Sharpened axes, not wits
Bones are broken by sticks
And you never be free till you're strong
Yay diridiri day diridiri day
Yay diridiri day daydaday
Yiridaydayday yirididaydayday
Dayday dayday dayday
Well, young men grow older
And the world, it gets colder
Though it never was warm to begin
Don't let down your guard
For the reaper works hard
And he will not take pause till you're dead
Now I'm old and I'm rusty
My troubles like sand on a beach
They can't be calculated
I always have waited
For something just out of reach
And I to myself am a stranger
My heart is an island of lead
My world is resounding
With miseries abounding
There's only one thing to be said
I'll say Yay diridiri day diridiri day
Yay diridiri day daydaday
Yiridaydayday yirididaydayday
Dayday dayday dayday
@isaiahsevere4192
You enter a dimly lit tavern where only the darkest of bandits and assassins dwell. A stranger plays rhythmically from an old upright piano.
@thebritishippie
Underrated comment right here!
@shakeyabatty1348
literally what i pictured
@ryanmapps8473
> GET LANTERN
@luke_mckay
An upright piano, as opposed to a...downright one?
@tmurray1567
Shia LaBeouf
@heboottoobigforhegotdamnfeet
Crazy that this gem is 12 years old already, time is flying by.
@braceforskate
And still under a million views
@Beardbrand
awesome, awesome, AWESOME!
@xerospacious4024
you just find this ong searching through thumbnails of bearded men? xD