Lonely
Ben Folds Lyrics


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I'm not so bad
I just hate to see a good time had
By everyone but me
On this lonely Christmas Eve
I hear them up and down
And up and down the street

They're making noise
Noise, noise, noise
How I hate their happy noise
There's only one thing I hate more, come to think of it
And that's the people who keep
Makin' it

Feast, feast, feast, feast
They'll have more than anyone could ever eat
Me, I'm stuck here with my Cream of Wheat
There's no one here to feast with me
On this lonely Christmas Eve

Don't they know I'm up here all alone
In my cave up in the hills?
How I wish that this would go away
This dreadful holiday
That they call Christmas Day
Oh...

When they're done with all their Christmas noise
And they've had their Christmas feast
Just when I think that I might finally
Get a moment's peace
They start to

Oh, sing, sing, sing, sing
Now I'll never get no sleep
I'm screamin' out the window, but it don't do no good
They sing and sing and sing all through the neighborhood

Sing, sing, sing
They take their little break, then they do it all again





It's a lonely Christmas Eve

Overall Meaning

The above lyrics are from Ben Folds's song Lonely, a song that talks about the feelings of loneliness that can be intensified during the holiday season. The first verse talks about how the singer is not a bad person but feels bad when he sees other people having a good time while he cannot seem to be able to connect or join in the festivities, making Christmas Eve even lonelier.


The second verse talks about how the singer resents the noise and happy sounds that are coming from outside. He hates to hear them and wishes that they could all stop. He wishes that the people who make these noises kept quiet so that he can find some peace. The third verse of the song talks about how everyone else is eating and enjoying themselves, and he is stuck with some Cream of Wheat, all alone. He is feeling misunderstood and lonely, which he sings about with a sad and melancholic tone.


In the fourth verse, the singer expresses his desire to run away and escape all the noise and frustration. He wishes the whole holiday would just go away. He feels trapped by this holiday that is supposed to bring people together, but in his case, it just magnifies the feelings of isolation and loneliness. Finally, the last verse talks about how the singer screams out of his window, but nobody seems to hear him. He is dealing with this on his own.


Overall, the song "Lonely" is evocative and emotional. It is relatable to those who feel lonely during the holidays and brings a sense of catharsis to those who listen to it.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm not so bad
I'm an okay person


I just hate to see a good time had
I don't like seeing others party and have a good time without me


By everyone but me
Everyone except me seems to be enjoying themselves


On this lonely Christmas Eve
This Christmas Eve feels desolate and empty


I hear them up and down
I hear the sound of people enjoying themselves everywhere


And up and down the street
The sound is coming from every direction


They're making noise
The sound of people is very loud


Noise, noise, noise
It's an irritating sound


How I hate their happy noise
I despise their cheerful sounds


There's only one thing I hate more, come to think of it
The only thing I hate more than their sounds is the people who make it


And that's the people who keep
Any person contributing to the sound is bothersome to me


Makin' it
The sound they are producing frustrates me


Feast, feast, feast, feast
Everyone is indulging in a feast


They'll have more than anyone could ever eat
They have prepared more food than they could possibly consume


Me, I'm stuck here with my Cream of Wheat
I'm alone with nothing but bland Cream of Wheat to eat


There's no one here to feast with me
There isn't anybody here to eat with


On this lonely Christmas Eve
This Christmas Eve is exceedingly lonely


Don't they know I'm up here all alone
I'm lonely and by myself


In my cave up in the hills?
I'm isolated in a cavern on a mountain


How I wish that this would go away
I'm yearning for this holiday to end


This dreadful holiday
This holiday causes more harm than good for me


That they call Christmas Day
This holiday that everyone calls Christmas Day is problematic for me


When they're done with all their Christmas noise
After people finish making noise because of Christmas


And they've had their Christmas feast
Once everyone has completed their dinner


Just when I think that I might finally
When I believe that I may finally


Get a moment's peace
I might finally have a moment to myself without any disturbance


They start to
They begin to


Oh, sing, sing, sing, sing
People begin to sing loudly


Now I'll never get no sleep
I am so agitated and bothered that I won't be able to sleep


I'm screamin' out the window, but it don't do no good
I yell out my window, but it doesn't affect them


They sing and sing and sing all through the neighborhood
People continue to sing everywhere, throughout the entire neighbourhood


Sing, sing, sing
They keep singing non-stop


They take their little break, then they do it all again
People rest briefly before continuing their festivities again


It's a lonely Christmas Eve
This Christmas Eve is extremely isolating for me




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: BEN FOLDS, BENJAMIN SCOTT FOLDS

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