Sentimental Guy
Ben Folds Lyrics


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There's a moment in my mind
I scribbled and erased a thousand times
Like a letter never written or sent
These conversations with the dead
I used to be a sentimental guy
Now I'm haunted by the left unsaid

I never thought so much could change

Little things you said or did
Are part of me, come out from time to time
Probably no one I know now would notice

But I never thought so much could change

You drifted far away
Far away it seems
Time has stopped, the clock keeps going

People talkin' and I'm watching
As flashes of their faces go black and white
And fade to yellow in a box in an attic
But I never thought so much
Could change, now I don't miss anyone




I don't miss anything
What a shame cause I used to be a sentimental guy

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ben Folds's song Sentimental Guy delve deep into the human psyche, exploring feelings of regret and nostalgia. The opening line introduces a recurring theme in the song - thoughts of missed opportunities that have plagued the singer's mind. He describes a moment that he has mentally revisited countless times, much like an unsent letter. He alludes to conversations that he wishes he had had with someone who is now dead, possibly indicating unresolved feelings of guilt or unfinished business.


The second stanza focuses on the changes that have occurred in the singer's life, particularly the little things that have had a profound impact. He implies that he has become disconnected from people he used to know and that time seems to have stopped while the world keeps moving on without him. He is a spectator, watching as other people's lives play out before him while he remains suspended in time.


In the final line of the song, the singer laments the loss of his sentimental nature. He used to be someone who felt deeply, who wore his emotions on his sleeve, but now he is numb, unable to feel anything. The song is a poignant reflection on the passage of time and the lingering effects of our actions or lack thereof.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a moment in my mind
There's a memory I keep recalling in my head


I scribbled and erased a thousand times
I've tried to write out this memory but always end up erasing it


Like a letter never written or sent
This memory is like an unspoken letter


These conversations with the dead
I have conversations in my head with people who are no longer with me


I used to be a sentimental guy
I used to be emotional and attached to my memories


Now I'm haunted by the left unsaid
But now I regret not sharing some of those memories with others and it haunts me


Little things you said or did
Your actions or words have become a part of me


Are part of me, come out from time to time
These memories resurface occasionally


Probably no one I know now would notice
But people around me now wouldn't recognize the significance of these memories


You drifted far away
You've moved on and are far from me now


Far away it seems
Your distance feels greater than it actually is


Time has stopped, the clock keeps going
Everything stays the same, except time keeps moving forward


People talkin' and I'm watching
I'm a passive observer of other people's lives


As flashes of their faces go black and white
Their faces, once important to me, are now fading and gray


And fade to yellow in a box in an attic
These memories have been boxed up and tucked away in storage


But I never thought so much
I never realized how much things would change


Could change, now I don't miss anyone
Now, I've detached myself from my emotions and don't miss people or things anymore


I don't miss anything
I'm indifferent to everything and don't feel sentimental about anything anymore


What a shame cause I used to be a sentimental guy
It's a pity that I've lost my emotional attachment to my memories because I used to be someone who felt deeply




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: BEN FOLDS, BENJAMIN SCOTT FOLDS

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