Wandering
Ben Folds Lyrics


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She's a million miles away from me.
Separated by a hollow wooden door.
And some time we can't erase, serves me right
to let her in the first time she knocked.

And all this wandering,
got you nothing.
You were ready to but, never could.

Things your never saw in me, she'll see.
Observations that she heard from other people
but she never understood, serves her right.
Not knowing just exactly what she wants

And all this wandering,
got me nothing.
You were ready to but, never could.

are you happy? Wandering
dah dah dah dah dah….

Remember sitting on your car, that night.
Clouds rolled out unveiling lights around the bay
and you told me all those things
remember that?
You told me you can't match your clothes
remember that?
I confess that when I laugh sometimes and crying
and we sat and didn't talk for half an hour
remember that? Alone….
Cause I wont, remember anymore

And all this wandering
And all this wandering,





la dah dah dah dah…..

Overall Meaning

The first verse of Ben Folds's song "Wandering" talks about a relationship that has gone sour. The singer is separated from his partner and feels a distance between them that can't be erased. The singer thought it was the right thing to let his partner in when she knocked on the door, but now he sees that it was a mistake. The use of the phrase "hollow wooden door" adds to the loneliness the singer is feeling, emphasizing the physical barrier which is coming between them.


The chorus of the song talks about how wandering has brought the singer nothing. He may have thought that by exploring the world or seeking out new experiences, he could achieve some sort of fulfillment or closure, but in reality, he is left with nothing. The second verse is about the partner in the relationship. The singer sings about how there were things about him that she couldn't see, but other people were able to observe. The partner didn't completely understand what she wanted, and now she's paying the price.


The final verse of the song is about memories of the relationship. The singer remembers sitting with his partner on a car, looking out at the bay. They talked about things and laughed together, but there were times when they sat in silence. The singer says that he won't remember those moments anymore, as if he's finally letting go of the relationship and moving on.


Overall, "Wandering" is a melancholic song about a relationship that was doomed to fail. It's about the deep sense of loneliness and loss that comes with the ending of a romantic connection.


Line by Line Meaning

She's a million miles away from me.
The singer's partner is far away from him, physically and emotionally.


Separated by a hollow wooden door.
Although there is a physical barrier between them, the bigger problem is that they have an emotional distance.


And some time we can't erase, serves me right to let her in the first time she knocked.
The singer did not realize the consequences of letting her in at first, and now he has regret.


And all this wandering, got you nothing.
Wandering from place to place without purpose did not help the singer to find his lost love.


You were ready to but, never could.
Despite the fact that the singer wanted to find his love, he was unable to do so.


Things your never saw in me, she'll see.
The singer's partner will see things in someone else that she never saw in him.


Observations that she heard from other people but she never understood, serves her right.
The singer believes that his partner's lack of understanding of the observations, which she had heard from other sources, comes back to serve her own interests.


Not knowing just exactly what she wants
The singer believes that his partner's indecisiveness regarding what she wants comes between them and their relationship.


And all this wandering, got me nothing.
The singer's wandering was fruitless and did not help him to gain anything.


You were ready to but, never could.
The singer wanted to find his love but was unsuccessful.


are you happy? Wandering
The singer questions his purpose in wandering and asks himself if he has found any happiness.


Remember sitting on your car, that night.
The singer remembers the night he sat on the car with his lost love.


Clouds rolled out unveiling lights around the bay
The clouds disappeared and the lights around the bay became visible.


and you told me all those things remember that?
The singer's partner confided in him during that moment.


You told me you can't match your clothes remember that?
The singer's partner revealed a flaw about herself during that moment.


I confess that when I laugh sometimes and crying
The singer confesses that he sometimes cries when he is laughing.


and we sat and didn't talk for half an hour
The singer and his partner had a moment of silence for half an hour.


remember that? Alone….
Remembering that specific moment, the singer feels alone.


Cause I wont, remember anymore
The singer is trying to forget the moments he had with his lost love.


And all this wandering
The singer's wandering continues.


la dah dah dah dah….
The chorus of the song repeats.




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