You to Thank
Ben Folds Lyrics


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By the time the buzz was wearing off
We were standing out on the sidewalk
With our tattoos that looked like rings
In the hot Nevada sun

Kids piled high, our moms and dads shook hands
In a party of Polaroid friends
Rented a pool and hired a band
Maybe they knew more then we knew
Cause they danced and drank
While we jumped off the deep end

Oh I've got you to thank
For this

Christmas came around
Yeah and everything was going to crap
And our moms and dads not a clue to be had
Yeah we put on a pretty good act
And they seemed to all need to believe it
So we danced and smiled and paddled hard beneath it

Oh I've got you to thank
For this

You can't say you've never had a doubt
And smoked it down but really wanted out

By the time the buzz was wearing off
We were standing out on the sidewalk
With our tattoos that looked like rings
In the hot Nevada sun
And they won't fade





I've got you to thank

Overall Meaning

The song "You to Thank" by Ben Folds is an autobiographical piece in which the singer reflects on his past and expresses gratitude towards a specific individual. The song appears to be written with nostalgic fondness for a time in the singer's life where he and a group of friends were gathering outside in the Nevada sun, all with matching tattoos. The lyrics suggest that the group of friends were perhaps in their youth and that their parents had rented a pool and hired a band, suggesting that there was a celebration of some sort taking place. The singer reflects that perhaps their parents knew more than they did, as they danced and drank, while the singer and his friends jumped off the deep end, indicating a sense of recklessness.


The song then transitions to another moment in time, perhaps years later, where the singer and the same individual he is expressing gratitude to - presumably a close friend - are putting on an act for their families during Christmas. The lyrics indicate that things were "going to crap" but they put on a "pretty good act" so that their families wouldn't know. The singer appreciates that the friend helped him keep up appearances and keep their families at bay. The song ends with the same imagery from the beginning, of the group of friends with matching tattoos standing on the Nevada sidewalk, expressing gratitude for the memories and the person that helped him navigate life.


Line by Line Meaning

By the time the buzz was wearing off
As the effects of the drugs wore off,


We were standing out on the sidewalk
We found ourselves on the pavement outside,


With our tattoos that looked like rings
Markings on our skin resembling circles,


In the hot Nevada sun
In the blazing sunshine of Nevada,


Kids piled high, our moms and dads shook hands
We, the children, huddled together and our parents greeted each other,


In a party of Polaroid friends
Celebrating with instant-photo friends,


Rented a pool and hired a band
We paid for a swimming pool and a musical group,


Maybe they knew more then we knew
Perhaps our parents understood more than we did,


Cause they danced and drank
As they danced and drank,


While we jumped off the deep end
As we recklessly dove into deep waters,


Oh I've got you to thank
I am grateful for you,


Christmas came around
When Christmas arrived,


Yeah and everything was going to crap
Everything seemed to be falling apart,


And our moms and dads not a clue to be had
And our parents were clueless,


Yeah we put on a pretty good act
We performed convincingly,


And they seemed to all need to believe it
And they seemed to desperately want to believe our act,


So we danced and smiled and paddled hard beneath it
So we danced and smiled and worked hard to maintain our facade,


You can't say you've never had a doubt
You cannot deny questioning oneself,


And smoked it down but really wanted out
And trying to suppress one's desires while wishing to escape,


And they won't fade
And the tattoos will not disappear,


I've got you to thank
I am grateful to you,




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: BEN FOLDS, BENJAMIN SCOTT FOLDS

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