Duncan Where Have You Gone?
Ben Gibbard Lyrics


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Duncan, where have you gone?
It's been so, so long
Has London broken your heart?
It happen to the best of us

Duncan, the most regal blood flows through you
And there's someone for you to love
Whom you will find in due time

Do you feel like you don't really know yourself?
'Cause the people you meet they just see someone else?
And that your biggest dream is to be just a stranger you'd pass on the street?

Duncan send us a sign that you're alright
Have you sunken further below the coldest depth you've ever known

They raised you the best that they possibly could
And still you felt unknown and always misunderstood




And now your biggest dream is to be just a stranger you'd pass on the street
Duncan, where have you gone?

Overall Meaning

In Ben Gibbard's song "Duncan Where Have You Gone?" he sings about a friend named Duncan who seems to have disappeared. He wonders if London, where Duncan had presumably gone to, had broken his heart. Gibbard goes on to describe how Duncan has regal blood flowing through his veins, but despite this, he doesn't really know himself. He feels like people don't see him for who he truly is, and his biggest dream is to be a stranger to everyone he meets.


The song captures the feeling of being lost and misunderstood, despite having all the advantages and opportunities. Gibbard's lyrics paint a poignant picture of a person searching for their true identity and struggling to find meaning in their life. The chorus, where Gibbard asks Duncan to send a sign that he's alright, hints at how deep their friendship was and how worried he is about Duncan's well-being.


Overall, "Duncan Where Have You Gone?" is a beautiful and reflective song that explores themes of identity, loneliness, and friendship with a gentle and melancholic tone. It's a powerful reminder that even the most successful and accomplished people can sometimes feel lost and disconnected from the world around them.


Line by Line Meaning

Duncan, where have you gone?
Where are you, Duncan?


It's been so, so long
It has been a significant amount of time since we last saw each other


Has London broken your heart?
Have you experienced hurt while in London?


It happens to the best of us
This is a common experience that can happen to anyone


Duncan, the most regal blood flows through you
Duncan, you come from a noble lineage


And there's someone for you to love
You will find someone to love


Whom you will find in due time
But this will happen at the right moment


Do you feel like you don't really know yourself?
Do you feel uncertain of your true identity?


'Cause the people you meet they just see someone else?
Do the people you meet see an inaccurate version of you?


And that your biggest dream is to be just a stranger you'd pass on the street?
Is your greatest desire to go unnoticed, to live a life of anonymity?


Duncan send us a sign that you're alright
Reach out to us, Duncan, so we know you are doing well


Have you sunken further below the coldest depth you've ever known
Have you fallen to your lowest point?


They raised you the best that they possibly could
Your parents did their best to raise you right


And still you felt unknown and always misunderstood
Despite their efforts, you felt misunderstood and unnoticed


And now your biggest dream is to be just a stranger you'd pass on the street
Your hope now is to blend in, to be ignored in the crowd


Duncan, where have you gone?
Where are you, Duncan?




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