Breakin' Down
Ben Harper Lyrics


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You don't believe that I love you
And even if that was true
Why just to keep our unhappy home
I'm gonna try to pretend that I do
But I'm breakin' down
I'm breakin' down
I'm breakin' down
I'm breakin' down
My baby she left me
Said she ain't comin' back around
And I'm breakin' down
I'm breakin' down

And if I thought that it was okay
For a grown man to cry
I would have filled up the whole mighty ocean
When she said goodbye
And I'm breakin' down
I'm breakin' down
I'm breakin' down
I'm breakin' down
You know my baby she left me
Said she ain't comin' back around
And I'm breakin' down
I'm breakin' down

One day you said everything was just right
I don't see how it changed overnight
One day you said everything was so strong
The next day you turn to me and say
It' s been wrong all along

Oh and now you won't even look at me
You pass me by in the street and you won't even speak
I never meant to cause you any harm
How could two people start so close
And end up so far
I'm breakin' down
I'm breakin' down




I'm breakin' down
I'm breakin' down

Overall Meaning

The Ben Harper song "Breaking Down" is a heart-wrenching ballad that describes the emotional turmoil of a man whose partner has left him, and he is trying to cope with the pain. The first stanza conveys how he is aware that his partner doesn't believe he loves her and even if it is true, he will pretend to love her just to keep their unhappy home from breaking up. The repetition of the phrase "I'm breaking down" conveys the emotional stress and turmoil that the singer is experiencing. In the second stanza, the singer says that if he thought it was okay for a grown man to cry, he would have filled up the whole ocean after his partner said goodbye to him. This line showcases how much the singer is hurting and how he is fighting to hold himself together. The final stanza describes how the singer remembers how everything was good before but doesn't understand how it changed overnight. The singer shows regret and sorrow over the cause of the partner leaving and how they were so close, but it ended up far away.


Overall, the song is a heartfelt representation of the emotional pain that a break-up can cause. The lyrics conveys how the singer is trying to deal with his emotional pain while putting on a brave face.


Line by Line Meaning

You don't believe that I love you
The other person is doubtful of the singer's love


And even if that was true
Even if they aren't loved by the singer, it won't make a difference


Why just to keep our unhappy home
The singer is trying to fake love to maintain peace in the home


I'm gonna try to pretend that I do
The singer is trying to put up a facade of love


But I'm breakin' down
Despite pretending, the singer is emotionally breaking down


My baby she left me
The singer's partner left them


Said she ain't comin' back around
The partner doesn't want to come back


And I'm breakin' down
The singer is emotionally broken down due to the partner's departure


And if I thought that it was okay
The singer wishes it was socially acceptable for a grown man to cry


For a grown man to cry
It is not considered socially acceptable for a grown man to cry


I would have filled up the whole mighty ocean
If it was okay to cry, the singer would cry a lot


When she said goodbye
The partner's departure caused immense emotional pain


You know my baby she left me
Reiteration of the partner's departure


One day you said everything was just right
The partner previously indicated that everything was perfect


I don't see how it changed overnight
The singer is confused about how everything went wrong so suddenly


One day you said everything was so strong
The partner assured the singer that everything was strong and stable


The next day you turn to me and say
The partner suddenly and unexpectedly declared that everything is wrong


It's been wrong all along
The partner believes that everything has been wrong from the beginning


Oh and now you won't even look at me
The partner is avoiding the singer


You pass me by in the street and you won't even speak
The partner is not even acknowledging the singer


I never meant to cause you any harm
The singer did not intend to hurt the partner


How could two people start so close
The singer is wondering how their relationship went so wrong


And end up so far
The relationship has ended up in a distant, broken place


I'm breakin' down
The singer is emotionally overwhelmed by the end of the relationship




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, A SIDE MUSIC LLC D/B/A MODERN WORKS MUSIC PUBLISHING, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: BEN HARPER

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