Gone
Ben Harper Lyrics


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Your feet barely touched the ground
By the time I turned around
When dreams come true
It's hard to sleep
Slowly drifting in the deep
She's growing
Growing
She's gone

Doesn't matter what I do or say
She's gonna do things her way
Blink of an eye has nothing on
How all the days have flown
She's growing
She's growing
She's gone

She's quite a sight behind the wheel
Now I'm in the passenger seat
With nerves of steel
I'm misery in harmony
Now that you're wild and free
You're growing
Growing
She's gone

Human nature isn't nature at all
Just an excuse we use with our backs against the wall
Someday, I'll apologize
And maybe she'll recognize
I'm growing




I'm growing
I'm gone

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "I'm in I'm Out and I'm Gone" by Ben Harper & Charlie Musselwhite express the desire to live life on one's own terms, free from the expectations and judgments of others. The opening lines state, "Don't want no high rise tombstone / Gonna gather up my things / Don't wanna hear you fussin' / If it is, or if it ain't." This suggests a rejection of societal pressure to conform and a focus on personal autonomy. The repetition of "If it is, or if it ain't" emphasizes the singer's determination to make their own choices, regardless of outside influences.


The chorus emphasizes the same theme - the need to answer to oneself rather than others. "You gotta answer to somebody / If you didn't learn, then you didn't read / Gonna live with it, gotta live with it, yeah / What's a man to do, what's a man to do / Gotta answer to somebody" suggests that while external pressures may exist, ultimately it's up to each individual to decide how they want to live their life. The repetition of "answer" further emphasizes the importance of self-determination.


The final verse introduces the character of the "death row preacher" and a woman who comes to him seeking guidance. The preacher warns her to be careful when talking to herself, suggesting that our inner dialogue can shape our reality. The song ends with the refrain "I'm in, I'm out, and I'm gone," underscoring the singer's commitment to living life his own way.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't want no high rise tombstone
I don't want an expensive monument when I'm dead


Gonna gather up my things
I'll gather my belongings and leave


Don't wanna hear you fussin'
I don't want to listen to your complaints


If it is, or if it ain't
Whether my decision is right or wrong, it's mine to make


And my life needs no witness
I don't require anyone to witness my life or achievements


And my burden is my own
I assume the responsibility of dealing with my own problems


My burden is my own
I deal with my problems independently


I'm in, I'm out, and I'm gone
I come and go as I please


You gotta answer to somebody
Everyone has to be accountable to someone


If you didn't learn, then you didn't read
If you didn't learn from your mistakes, then you didn't pay attention


Gonna live with it, gotta live with it, yeah
I have to accept the consequences of my actions


What's a man to do, what's a man to do
What choices can a person make?


Gotta answer to somebody
Everyone has to account for their actions


Answer to somebody
Be accountable to someone


Gotta answer, answer, yeah
Need to be responsible for what you do


And I'm in, I'm out, and I'm gone
I can come and go when I please


The death row preacher
A chaplain who provides spiritual assistance to inmates on death row


Came through the back door to greet her
Entered unobtrusively to meet the woman


Hardly can blame her
There's no reason to criticize her


For trusting a one-armed lion-tamer
For believing something seemingly impossible


She stepped in from a storm
She came into the building from the outside


As dry as a bone
She was completely dry, in spite of the rain outside


The preacher thought to himself
The clergyman considered his thoughts in silence


He never takes care of his own
He never pays attention to his own needs


She said look what your prayers
She pointed out the lack of effectiveness in his prayers


Look what they've done to me
Look at the price I'm paying because of your prayers


What can your prayers do for me?
What are the benefits of your prayers?


Preacher said, careful talking to yourself
The clergyman advised her to be careful when speaking to herself


Cause you may be listening
Be mindful of what you say to yourself


And I'm in, I'm out, and I'm gone
I can come and go when I please




Lyrics © Reservoir Media Management, Inc.
Written by: Benjamin Charles Harper

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@vikidprinciples

Possibly the most beautiful thing ever created.

@ulyssesfelicio9916

Jack and Ben, what vibe. Helps strengthen our hope in this generation🙏☝️

@RichySheehy

Unbelievable lyrics, and Ben Harper is just the guy you want to compliment you. Love the duo.

@JoeyAG92

I wish they would release an acoustic album together, that would be a dream come true!

@newtempphone-ash9507

I know I'm super late, but this is a great song.

@newtempphone-ash9507

also, I think jack would like that too

@loganwilliamson5929

that slide is so soothing

@celine7home

the guitar. awww my heart melted.

@kcfurn

Wow! Time flies
Nice to come upon this again❤❤

@Loveismygift

I sang this so much in the hallways in high school.

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