Gracious
Ben Howard Lyrics


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How would you know?
When everything around you's changing like the weather
A big black storm
And who would you turn to?
Oh had I a ghost, a shadow at the most, would you let me know?
'Cause I don't want to
Trouble your mind with the childish design of how it all should go
But I love you so
When it all comes clear, when the wind it settles
I'll be here, you know

'Cause you said ours were the lighthouse towers
The sand upon that place
Darling, I'll grow weary, happy still
With just the memory of your face

Oh, gracious goes the ghost of you
And I will never forget the plans and the
Silhouettes you drew here, no
Gracious goes the ghost of you, my dear

Oh, how would you know?
When everything around you is bruised and battered
Like the cold night storm
And where would you turn to?
Oh had I a ghost, a shadow at the most, would you tell me so?

'Cause I, I adore you so when it all comes clear
The wind is settled, I'll be here, you know
'Cause you said ours were the lighthouse towers
The sand upon that place
Darling, I'll grow weary, happy still
With just the memory of your face

Oh, Gracious goes the ghost of you
And I will never forget the plans and the
Silhouettes you drew here and
Gracious goes the ghost of you, my dear

Oh, gracious goes the ghost of you
And I will never forget the plans and the




Silhouettes you drew here and
Gracious goes the ghost of you, my dear

Overall Meaning

In Ben Howard's song Gracious, the lyrics describe a sense of uncertainty and fear of change. The opening lines use a metaphor of a storm to represent the unpredictability of life. The lyrics then turn to a question of who to turn to in difficult times, and the singer suggests they would appreciate a sign or some comfort from a loved one. The lyrics show the singer's fear of imposing on their loved one, but also their desperate need for reassurance.


As the lyrics progress, the singer turns to memories of a happy time in their relationship, tying back to the nostalgia and love present in Howard's other work. The use of the lighthouse as a symbol of stability in a tumultuous world is a recurring theme throughout the song. The chorus repeats the idea of the 'ghost' of the relationship, the memory of a love and a person that has now gone. The final lines of the song end on a bittersweet note, with the singer accepting the loss of the relationship but still cherishing the memories.


Line by Line Meaning

How would you know?
The singer questions how someone would know what to do in the midst of constant change


When everything around you's changing like the weather
The singer compares the changes in life to the ever-changing weather


A big black storm
A metaphor for the chaos and difficulty in life


And who would you turn to?
The singer wonders who to turn to in times of trouble


Oh had I a ghost, a shadow at the most, would you let me know?
The singer wishes for some kind of sign or guidance, even if it's just a faint whisper or hint


'Cause I don't want to
The singer doesn't want to burden anyone else with their own problems and doubts


Trouble your mind with the childish design of how it all should go
The singer doesn't want to impose their own naive expectations on others


But I love you so
Despite the difficulties, the singer expresses their love for another person


When it all comes clear, when the wind it settles
The singer anticipates clarity and peace after the turbulence


I'll be here, you know
The singer promises to stick around


'Cause you said ours were the lighthouse towers
The singer recalls a previous conversation where another person offered comfort and stability


The sand upon that place
A reference to a specific location that holds significance to the singer and their loved one


Darling, I'll grow weary, happy still
The singer expresses their willingness to endure difficulty as long as they can hold onto good memories and feelings


With just the memory of your face
The singer emphasizes the power of memory to sustain them through hard times


Oh, gracious goes the ghost of you
The singer reflects on the memory of a loved one who is no longer present


And I will never forget the plans and the Silhouettes you drew here, no
The singer recalls specific details about their loved one, such as their plans and the things they drew


Oh, how would you know?
The singer repeats the opening line, expressing continued uncertainty about navigating change


When everything around you is bruised and battered
The singer describes the harshness of life


Like the cold night storm
A metaphor for the difficulty and discomfort of life


And where would you turn to?
The singer repeats their earlier question, emphasizing the feeling of being lost


Oh had I a ghost, a shadow at the most, would you tell me so?
The singer asks for any kind of guidance or sign, no matter how faint or fleeting


‘Cause I, I adore you so when it all comes clear
The singer reiterates their love and devotion to their loved one


The wind is settled, I'll be here, you know
Repeating a previous sentiment, the singer promises to stick around through difficult times


Gracious goes the ghost of you
The singer repeats a key phrase, emphasizing the theme of memory and loss


And I will never forget the plans and the Silhouettes you drew here and
A repetition of an earlier line, reinforcing the idea of specific details the singer remembers


Gracious goes the ghost of you, my dear
A final repetition of the key phrase, underscoring the feelings of loss and remembrance




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Benjamin John Howard

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