Different But the Same
Ben Kweller Lyrics


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There's no time to phone home
When you're racin', you're on time
You contemplate, you gotta wait your own turn

Up the noise with some poison, with great poise
You can't compare it too, or let it scare you through
If everything you do is not as smoothly as we planned
You gotta understand:
There is more for you.
But all you gotta do, ooh

Is put yourself with the people
They're the ones who make the world spin
Lust in favor, you can win.

And you'll take home the gold medallion
And ride the wobbly wave of fame.
That is why you came
That is why you

Came to your senses
To feel it out
And try to kill off every dial
Your mother worries, but no one worries quite like you.
And when you start you must rely on your own heart.
Cause nothing works the same or takes the blame or wins the game
With your head in your hands in the pouring rain
I want to see you as you are.
Like a lonely star.
There is more for you.
But all you gotta do, ooh

Is put yourself with the people.
They're the ones who make the world spin.
Lust in favor, you can win.

And you'll take home the gold medallion.
And ride the wobbly wave of fame.
That is why you came.
That is why you came.

You gotta be so strong
You gotta teach your son
How to stand up straight
When you want to run
How to carry on
How to be yourself
To be different, but the same.





That is why you came.

Overall Meaning

The song "Different But the Same" by Ben Kweller is about the struggle to find one's place in the world while maintaining individuality. The first verse talks about the pressures of society to be "on time" and to compare oneself to others, but the chorus emphasizes the importance of surrounding oneself with people who support and inspire us. The second verse touches on personal struggles, such as anxiety and self-doubt, but emphasizes the need to rely on one's own heart and be true to oneself rather than seeking validation from others. The final section encourages listeners to be strong, set an example for others, and embrace their unique qualities while still fitting into the larger community.


Overall, the lyrics suggest that success and happiness come not from conforming to societal norms or seeking external validation, but from finding a community that supports us as individuals and embracing our unique perspectives and qualities.


Line by Line Meaning

There's no time to phone home
When busy with important matters, one has no time to spare for leisure activities such as calling family or loved ones.


When you're racin', you're on time
When working hard and competing, being punctual and efficient is essential.


You contemplate, you gotta wait your own turn
In life, one often has to wait patiently for opportunities and not rush things.


Up the noise with some poison, with great poise
Using alcohol or other substances to increase enjoyment of life, but doing so in a controlled and elegant manner.


You can't compare it too, or let it scare you through
One should not be intimidated or overwhelmed by others' success or experiences, nor should one excessively compare oneself to others.


If everything you do is not as smoothly as we planned
Often, things do not go as expected or planned, and one must learn to adapt and persevere regardless of setbacks.


You gotta understand:
It is important to comprehend the realities of the situation and not be naive or idealistic.


There is more for you.
Opportunities and potential exist beyond the current circumstances, and one should strive to explore them.


But all you gotta do, ooh
The solution or path forward is simple and within reach.


Is put yourself with the people
To achieve one's goals, one must surround themselves with supportive and like-minded individuals.


They're the ones who make the world spin
Society and interpersonal relationships are the driving force behind progress and change.


Lust in favor, you can win.
One should follow their passions and desires, as it can lead to success and fulfillment.


And you'll take home the gold medallion
Success and achievement await those who work hard and seize opportunities.


And ride the wobbly wave of fame.
Success and fame can be uncertain and unpredictable, but can bring great rewards and experiences.


That is why you came
The pursuit of one's goals and dreams is the reason for one's existence.


Came to your senses
To realize the truth or reality of a situation through personal reflection or realization.


To feel it out
To take the time to fully understand and assess the situation or problem at hand.


And try to kill off every dial
To ignore distractions and focus solely on the task at hand.


Your mother worries, but no one worries quite like you.
Although others may worry for one's safety or success, one often worries the most about oneself.


And when you start you must rely on your own heart.
When embarking on a new path or venture, one should trust their own instincts and desires.


Cause nothing works the same or takes the blame or wins the game
Each situation or challenge is unique, and there is no single solution or strategy for success.


With your head in your hands in the pouring rain
During challenging times, one may feel overwhelmed and helpless.


I want to see you as you are.
Others seek authenticity and transparency in interpersonal relationships and interactions.


Like a lonely star.
Individuality and uniqueness are valued and respected, even if it means feeling isolated or alone at times.


You gotta be so strong
Strength and determination are necessary to overcome obstacles and achieve success.


You gotta teach your son
One should pass on their knowledge and values to future generations.


How to stand up straight
To have good posture and confidence in oneself and one's abilities.


When you want to run
During times of stress or fear, one may feel the desire to retreat or give up, but should instead face challenges head-on.


How to carry on
To persevere and continue working towards one's goals despite setbacks or obstacles.


How to be yourself
To embrace and express one's true identity and personality.


To be different, but the same.
To celebrate individuality and uniqueness, while still being part of the larger community and society.




Lyrics © IMAGEM U.S. LLC
Written by: A. JOHANSSON, A. RAJKOVIC, M. ERONEN, O. KARISSON

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