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Ben Lee Lyrics


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Today a boy outgrew his town
They say his sadness was his sign
It used to happen every day or so they say
He's gonna take it all this time

And everybody feels it
And everybody knows
There are those that have the flame
And then there's those that just want to get close

Today a boy became a man
Because he prepared himself to fail
He escaped one night
Just trying to save his life
I am the hero of this tale

And everybody has seen it
And everybody knows
There are those that have the flame
And then there's those that just want to get close

Please take off your clothes
Give me your hand
Please sleep in my bed
Please understand
I'm gonna lay down the law

Because everybody feels it
And everybody knows
There are those that have the flame
And then there's those that just want to get close

Closer to god
Closer for sure
Close your eyes
And watch me become more
Become more




Become more
Watch me become more

Overall Meaning

The opening lyrics describe the story of a boy who has grown beyond the limitations of his town. The town has defined him by his sadness, and he has become iconic because of it. However, he is ready to leave this town with a new determination to take on everything. The next verse is celebratory and suggests that even though some may not have the same flame, everyone understands the value of being close to those who do.


The chorus continues along the same lines, describing the evolution of a boy into a man. He prepared himself to fail through his escape one night, which has proved to be his greatest success. The following verse is a nod to the near-universal experience of unrequited love. Someone is invited to get closer in romantic or sexual terms, but the request is balanced with a clear assertion of power. Finally, the song concludes with an exhortation to close one's eyes, watch the singer become more, and to understand that everyone grows into who they are meant to be at their own pace.


Overall, the song seems to be about the importance of growth and change as well as the art of letting go. It encourages listeners to be confident in their choices and their own timelines when it comes to self-discovery. The lyrics suggest that everyone's journey is different but valuable.


Line by Line Meaning

Today a boy outgrew his town
A young man realized he needed to leave his small town in order to grow and develop


They say his sadness was his sign
His unhappiness was an indication that he needed a change


It used to happen every day or so they say
This problem was not uncommon or unusual


He's gonna take it all this time
He is determined to take control of his life and make a significant change


And everybody feels it
Others can sense his struggle and desire for change


And everybody knows
Others are aware of the situation and support his decision


There are those that have the flame
Some people have intense passion and drive


And then there's those that just want to get close
Others may not have the same level of passion, but admire those who do and want to be near it


Today a boy became a man
Through this experience, he matured and became more capable of facing challenges


Because he prepared himself to fail
He recognized that failure was a possibility, but was willing to take the risk anyway


He escaped one night
He made a quick and decisive decision to leave


Just trying to save his life
This change was necessary for his well-being


I am the hero of this tale
He is proud of himself for taking action and making a change


Please take off your clothes
A request for vulnerability and honesty


Give me your hand
A request for partnership and support


Please sleep in my bed
An offer of comfort and intimacy


Please understand
A request for empathy and patience


I'm gonna lay down the law
He is taking control of the situation and setting boundaries


Closer to god
He feels closer to a higher power or greater purpose


Closer for sure
This change has brought him closer to his desired future


Close your eyes
A request for introspection and reflection


And watch me become more
He is confident he will continue to develop and improve


Become more
A repeated affirmation of his growth and potential


Watch me become more
Others will see and recognize his transformation




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ABNER SILVER, BENNY DAVIS, BEN LEE

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

Emper

Lyrics:

My head is a box filled with nothing
And that's the way I like it
My garden's a secret compartment
And that's the way I like it
And that's the way I like it
Your body's a dream that turns violent
And that's the way I like it
And that's the way I like it
The winter is long in the city
And that's the way I like it

So please
Baby, please
Open your heart
Catch my disease

I was backstage in Pomona
And that's the way I like it
She drank beer with Coca-Cola
And that's the way I like it
And that's the way I like it
She told me about the winds from Santa Ana
And that's the way I like it
And that's the way I like it
She told me she loved me like fireworks
And that's the way I like it

So please
Baby, please
Open your eyes
And catch my disease

So please (Please)
Baby, please
Come on
And catch my disease
Catch it

Na na na na na na na

They play on the radio
And that's the way I like it
They play on the radio
And that's the way I like it
Yeah, that's the way I like it
I hear on the radio
And that's the way I like it
'Cause that's the way I like it
They don't play me on the radio
But that's the way I like it

So please
Baby, please
Open your heart
Catch my disease

So please
Baby, please
Come on
And catch my disease

Catch my disease
(Na na na na na na na)
Catch my disease
(Na na na na na na na)
Catch my disease
(Na na na na na na na)
Catch my disease
(Na na na na na na na)
(Na na na na na na na)
Whoo
(Na na na na na na na)
Na na na na
(Na na na na na na na)



Himadri Shekhar

My head is a box full of nothing
And that's the way I like it
My garden's a secret compartment
And that's the way I like it
And that's the way I like it
Your body's a dream that turns violent
And that's the way I like it
And that's the way I like it
The winter is long in the city
And that's the way I like it

So please
Baby please
Open your heart
Catch my disease

I was backstage in Pomona
And that's the way I like it
She drank beer with coca-cola
And that's the way I like it
And that's the way I like it
She told me about the winds from Santa Anna
And that's the way I like it
And that's the way I like it
She told me she loved me like fireworks
And that's the way I like it

So please
Baby please
Open your eyes
Catch my disease

So please (PLEASE!)
Baby please
Come on
Catch my disease
Catch it

They play good Charlotte on the radio
And that's the way I like it
They play sleepy Jackson on the radio
And that's the way I like it
And that's the way I like it
I hear Beyonce on the radio
And that's the way I like it
And that's the way I like it
They don't play me on the radio
But that's the way I like it

So please
Baby please
Open your heart
And catch my disease
So please
Baby please
Come on
Catch my disease
(catch my disease)
(catch my disease)
(catch my disease)
(catch my disease)



All comments from YouTube:

Peyton Parabdeen

So sweet and what a beautiful voice. this is one of the most underrated songs from my childhood. I remember loving this when I was 5 or 6 years old. Does anyone else remember this from their childhood?

NeekDaFreek

Came out in 2005 but I still consider it still has that feel good 90's vibe

JoshH

+neeksthecuz
wow, you're right. everything about this song and video...it could easily be 1995

Joe Humpston

neeksthecuz can hardly believe that it’s been 15 years

Fletch40

this song is pure mid 2000s vibe in its own. A positive vibe that played against Feel Good Inc's melancholic vibe the same year it came out

Uriah Heep

It's that Fisher/Price toy 🎹 piano 🎹! It's a timeless toy people relate to.

Derek Of Rivia

90s ended in 06 if you ask me.

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Peyton Parabdeen

Ahhhhhh, I remember loving this song when I was 5 or 6 years old in 2008. It did and still brings a smile to my face

John Allums

I didn't know about this song until 2013, when I had just graduated college. It was my transition summer between college and entering "the real world." During that summer, I was just binging Scrubs (I think that's where I heard this), playing MtG with my friends for the last few times, and just chillin' enjoying my last free moments before I embarked into adulthood. Reminds me of such an awesome, carefree time in my life...

J. Alexander

That intro is so great, I wish it was 3 times longer!

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