Jaded
Benji Madden Lyrics


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There's a time and place, for everything.
There's a reason why, certain people meet.
There's a destination, for everyone.
What's the explanation, when we're done?
All the summer nights spent wondering;
So many questions asked, but no one's answering.
Would it be okay if I left today?
Took my chances on what you said was wrong?
I'm jaded, stupid, and reckless.
Not sorry, and I'll never regret.
These years spent, so faded and reckless.
Not sorry, and I'll never regret these years.
I'll never regret these years.
Now here I sit, so far away.
Remembering all our memories.
Its times like these that I miss you most,
Remembering when we were so close.
I'm jaded, stupid, and reckless.
Not sorry, we'll never regret.
These years spent, so faded and reckless.
Not sorry, and I'll never regret these years.
We'll never forget the places we've been, you and i.
Our lives are slipping away.
Don't want to let time pass us by, by
I'm jaded, stupid, and reckless.
Not sorry, and I'll never regret.
These years
Spent, so faded and reckless,
Not sorry, and I'll never regret




I'm jaded, stupid, and reckless.
Not sorry, and I'll never regret these years.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Jaded" speak to the experiences and emotions of someone who has gone through a transformative period in their life. The verses reflect on the idea that everything happens for a reason and we all have a purpose or destination, but what happens when we reach that destination? There's a sense of confusion and uncertainty that can come from reaching a milestone or achieving a goal. Often, there are more questions than answers, and those questions can linger even after the accomplishment.


The chorus repeats the phrase "jaded, stupid, and reckless" as a self-identifier. This could be interpreted as either a negative or positive statement. On one hand, it could be seen as a self-criticism. The singer sees themselves as jaded, as if they've lost their enthusiasm or energy for life. They might feel stupid or foolish for the mistakes they've made. And they could feel reckless, like they've taken unnecessary risks or not thought things through. However, on the other hand, this self-identifying phrase could also be seen as empowering. By accepting these qualities about themselves, the singer is embracing who they are and not apologizing for it. They're owning their experiences and the person they've become.


The bridge of the song reflects on the nostalgia and longing for the past. The singer is far away from someone they used to be close with, and they reflect back on the memories they shared. They acknowledge that time is passing them by and they don't want to let it slip away. The song concludes with a repetition of the chorus, further emphasizing the theme of self-acceptance and owning one's experiences.


Overall, "Jaded" speaks to the human experience of growth, change, and reflection. It acknowledges the confusion and uncertainty that comes with that process, but also celebrates the importance of owning one's experiences and embracing who we are, flaws and all.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a time and place, for everything.
There are appropriate and inappropriate times for actions and decisions.


There's a reason why, certain people meet.
People cross paths for a purpose.


There's a destination, for everyone.
Everyone has a predetermined end or outcome.


What's the explanation, when we're done?
What is the reasoning behind the outcome?


All the summer nights spent wondering;
Endless nights spent pondering questions.


So many questions asked, but no one's answering.
Questions remain unanswered despite attempts to seek answers.


Would it be okay if I left today?
Is it acceptable to leave behind the current situation?


Took my chances on what you said was wrong?
Risking it all on actions deemed incorrect by others.


I'm jaded, stupid, and reckless.
Feeling worn out, foolish, and carefree.


Not sorry, and I'll never regret.
No apologies or remorse; standing by one's decisions.


These years spent, so faded and reckless.
Memories of hazy and imprudent times.


Now here I sit, so far away.
Reflecting from a distant location.


Remembering all our memories.
Recalling moments shared together.


Its times like these that I miss you most,
Feeling most nostalgic for shared experiences.


Remembering when we were so close.
Recalling a time of closeness.


We'll never forget the places we've been, you and i.
Shared experiences and locations are lasting memories.


Our lives are slipping away.
Growing older and further from past moments.


Don't want to let time pass us by, by
Desire to cherish and seize the present moment.


These years
The passage of time.


Spent, so faded and reckless,
Feeling as though time has slipped away carelessly.


Not sorry, and I'll never regret
No apologies or remorse for past decisions.


I'm jaded, stupid, and reckless.
Feeling worn out, foolish, and carefree.


Not sorry, and I'll never regret these years.
No apologies or remorse for the memories made during this time.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: JOHN FELDMANN, TONY LOVATO, BENJI MADDEN

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