Please Be Kind
Benny Goodman Lyrics


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Well, this is my first affair, please be kind
Handle my heart with care, please be kind
This is all so grand, my dreams are on parade
If you'll just understand, they'll never, never fade

So tell me your love's sincere, please be kind
Tell me I needn't fear, please be kind
'Cause if you leave me, dear, I know my heart will lose its mind
If you love me, please be kind

This is my first affair, so a-please be kind
Handle my heart with care, oh a-please be kind

So tell me your love's sincere, yes, please be kind
Tell me I needn't fear, please be kind




'Cause if you leave me, dear, I know my heart will lose its mind
If you love me, baby, please be kind

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Benny Goodman & His Orchestra Feat. Martha Tilton's song "Please Be Kind" are those of a person who is experiencing their first love affair. The person is aware that this is a significant moment in their life and is asking their lover to handle their heart with care. They are hopeful that their relationship with their lover will be sincere and full of love. The person is also aware that if their lover leaves them, their heart will lose its mind. Overall, the song is about vulnerability and the need for kindness, sincerity, and love in a relationship.


The lyrics of the song are straightforward and heartfelt, making it relatable to anyone who has experienced their first love affair. The lyrics highlight the excitement, the hope, and the vulnerability that come with this experience. These emotions are well captured in the music of the song, especially the swing era jazz style that Benny Goodman and his orchestra were known for. The song originally featured Martha Tilton's vocals, which added to the purity and sweetness of the song's message.


Line by Line Meaning

Well, this is my first affair, please be kind
As this is my first experience with love, I ask that you treat me gently.


Handle my heart with care, please be kind
I am entrusting you with my heart, so I implore you to handle it with tenderness.


This is all so grand, my dreams are on parade
I am overwhelmed with joy as my hopes and desires are coming to fruition.


If you'll just understand, they'll never, never fade
If you can comprehend the significance of this moment, my happiness will endure forever.


So tell me your love's sincere, please be kind
I need assurance that your feelings for me are genuine, so I ask that you be compassionate in your response.


Tell me I needn't fear, please be kind
I am afraid of losing you, so I plead with you to offer me comfort and reassurance.


'Cause if you leave me, dear, I know my heart will lose its mind
My emotions would spiral out of control if you were to abandon me, and I am scared of that possibility.


If you love me, please be kind
If you truly care for me, I implore you to treat me with kindness and consideration.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: SAMMY CAHN, SAUL CHAPLIN

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Comments from YouTube:

Joe Carbery

Beautiful! Any idea of rest of personnel?

Tobias Ryan

Bass – Percy Heath
Drums – Connie Kay
Guitar – Cal Collins
Written-By – Sammy Cahn, Saul Chaplin

Got from Verve Jazz Masters 33

Joe Carbery

@Tobias Ryan Thank you, Tobias.

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