Aggravatin' Papa
Bessie Smith Lyrics


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I know a triflin' man
They call him Triflin' Sam
He lives in Birmingham
Way down in Alabam'

Now the other night
He had a fight
With a gal named Mandy Brown
She plainly stated
She was aggravated
And she shouted out to him

Aggravatin' papa, don't you try to two-time me
I said, don't two-time me
Aggravatin' papa, treat me kind or let me be
I mean, just let me be

It's been a while, I'll get you told
Stop messin' round, sweet jellyroll
If you stay out with a high-brown baby
I'll smack you down, and I don't mean maybe

Aggravatin' papa, I'll do anything you say
Anything you say
But when you go struttin', do your strut around my way
So papa, just treat me pretty, be nice and kind
The way you treated me will make me lose my mind
Aggravatin' papa, don't you try to two-time me

Just treat me pretty, be nice and sweet




I got a darn forty-four that don't repeat
Aggravatin' papa, don't you try to two-time me

Overall Meaning

In Bessie Smith's song "Aggravatin' Papa," the singer tells a story about a man named Triflin' Sam from Alabama. The singer sings about a recent fight Sam had with a woman named Mandy Brown. Mandy was clearly annoyed with Sam's behavior and vocalized her feelings, calling him an aggravatin' papa. She warns him not to cheat on her and to treat her with kindness or let her go. She tells Sam that if he decides to go out with other women, specifically high-brown ladies, she will not hesitate to put him in his place.


The singer's plea is for Sam to treat her with respect and kindness, instead of being an aggravatin' papa. She tells him that his behavior will make her lose her mind and that she will do anything for him but just wants him to be honest and loving. This song highlights the theme of trust and respect within relationships, and the consequences of not being transparent and loyal. Overall, the song portrays a woman who is strong, independent, and not afraid to put her significant other in their place.


Line by Line Meaning

I know a triflin' man
I am acquainted with a man who is known for his unfaithfulness and irresponsibility


They call him Triflin' Sam
He has earned the nickname of Triflin' Sam due to his behavior


He lives in Birmingham
He resides in the city of Birmingham


Way down in Alabam'
Which is located in the southern US state of Alabama


Now the other night
Recently, on a particular evening


He had a fight
He got into an argument


With a gal named Mandy Brown
His argument was with a woman named Mandy Brown


She plainly stated
She expressed clearly and directly


She was aggravated
She was annoyed and frustrated


And she shouted out to him
She yelled at him


Aggravatin' papa, don't you try to two-time me
Triflin' Sam, you are irritating me by trying to deceive me with another woman


I said, don't two-time me
I have already told you not to be unfaithful to me


Aggravatin' papa, treat me kind or let me be
Triflin' Sam, if you cannot treat me with kindness, then let me go


I mean, just let me be
I am serious, please leave me alone


It's been a while, I'll get you told
I have been patient for a long time, but now I am going to tell you some things


Stop messin' round, sweet jellyroll
Stop fooling around with other women, honey


If you stay out with a high-brown baby
If you continue to go out with a woman of higher social status


I'll smack you down, and I don't mean maybe
I will physically harm you, and there is no doubt about it


Aggravatin' papa, I'll do anything you say
Triflin' Sam, I am willing to obey you and do whatever you ask of me


Anything you say
I am completely obedient to you


But when you go struttin', do your strut around my way
However, when you decide to show off, make sure you do it in front of me


So papa, just treat me pretty, be nice and kind
So Triflin' Sam, please treat me with care, and show me some kindness


The way you treated me will make me lose my mind
The way you are treating me is driving me crazy


Just treat me pretty, be nice and sweet
Please treat me with respect and kindness


I got a darn forty-four that don't repeat
I own a gun that does not need to be loaded again before firing


Aggravatin' papa, don't you try to two-time me
Triflin' Sam, I am warning you not to cheat on me




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Comments from YouTube:

@mochawitch

Can't nobody sing that like Bessie. 🌹🌹🌹🌹

@Wolfhoundersful

I know a triflin' man
They call him Triflin' Sam
He lives in Birmingham
Way down in Alabam'

Now the other night
He had a fight
With a gal named Mandy Brymm
She plainly stated she was aggravated
And she shouted out to him

Aggravatin' papa, don't you try to two-time me
I said, don't two-time me
Aggravatin' papa, treat me kind or let me be
I mean, just let me be

Listen while I get you told
Stop messin' round, sweet jellyroll
If you stay out with a high-brown baby
I'll smack you down, and I don't mean maybe

Aggravatin' papa, I'll do anything you say
Anything you say
But when you go struttin', do your strut around my way
So papa, just treat me pretty, be nice and kind
The way you treated me will make me lose my mind
Aggravatin' papa, don't you try to two-time me

Just treat me pretty, be nice and sweet
I got a darn forty-four that don't repeat
Aggravatin' papa, don't you try to two-time me

@anewbugmusic

Love that washboard guitar strumming

@alanrichard8227

It’s a a banjo.

@Kelly-es3lb

Can't seem to find a clear version of aggravating papa

@oldgangster1034

It' October 2021.
70 likes including mine.
7000 views-less than a thousand in a year.
It's sad, man.

@teddycuthbert

September 2022.
99 likes including mine.
8,800 views.

@dudcats

Feburary 2023.
114 likes including mine.
9,300 views.

@mochawitch

It is a shame,? isn't it.