Friend of Mine
Betty Elders Lyrics


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For ten long years of running
You have been my one companion
Friend of mine
You are courage you are wisdom
There is no one who stands taller
In my eyes

Now your hair is turning silver
Near the lines my weakness left upon your face
And you walk a little slower
Than the restless one who tries to set the pace
All the times you filled my needs before your own
I never once heard you complain
Time and again
You were my friend

I wrote songs for different lovers
Distant lands and countless others
None for you
I've been linked to some old memories
By the chains that bind
But never chained to you

All the flaws you never mention
Serve to edify your gentle selfless grace
And it was never my intention
You should ever have to suffer for my ways
All the times I could have told you
Well I guess perhaps I thought somehow you knew
Time and again
You were my friend

All the times I should have told you
Well I guess somehow I thought perhaps you knew




Love without end
You are my friend

Overall Meaning

The song "Friend of Mine" by Betty Elders is a beautiful tribute to a dear friend who has been a constant source of support and guidance for the past ten years. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of the deep bond that exists between the singer and her friend. The opening lines set the tone for the rest of the song, as the singer acknowledges the unwavering loyalty of her friend and the importance of that friendship in her life. The imagery of "ten long years of running" creates a sense of resilience and determination, as if the two women have weathered the storms of life together.


The second verse of the song touches on the passage of time and the changes that come with it. The contrast between the friend's silver hair and the singer's restlessness is particularly poignant, as it speaks to the idea that true friendship is based on acceptance and understanding rather than superficial traits. The line "all the times you filled my needs before your own" is especially meaningful, as it highlights the selflessness of the friend and the singer's gratitude for her unwavering support.


The final verse of the song is perhaps the most heartfelt, as the singer reflects on all the times she could have expressed her love and appreciation for her friend but didn't. The repetition of the line "time and again, you were my friend" reinforces the importance of this friendship, while the final line "love without end, you are my friend" speaks to the deep, enduring nature of the bond between these two women.


Overall, "Friend of Mine" is a moving tribute to the power of friendship and the importance of showing gratitude to the people who matter most in our lives.


Line by Line Meaning

For ten long years of running
For the past ten years, you have been my constant companion, accompanying me on this journey called life.


You have been my one companion
Out of all the people I have met and befriended, you are the one who has stayed with me through thick and thin.


Friend of mine
Simply put, you are my friend.


You are courage you are wisdom
You possess bravery and insight beyond measure.


There is no one who stands taller
In my eyes, you are incomparable and dignified.


In my eyes
From my perspective, my opinion stands true.


Now your hair is turning silver
As time has passed, you have aged gracefully, as evidenced by your greying locks.


Near the lines my weakness left upon your face
The marks and wrinkles on your face are probably the result of the times when I was relying too much on you and couldn't support you.


And you walk a little slower
Your movements have slowed down a bit, perhaps due to old age or exhaustion from taking care of me.


Than the restless one who tries to set the pace
In comparison to me, who is always in a rush and pushing things forward, you take your time and never rush needlessly.


All the times you filled my needs before your own
Unselfishly, you have always put my needs before yours.


I never once heard you complain
Despite all the times I've leaned on you and caused you inconvenience, you never expressed dissatisfaction or displeasure.


Time and again
Repetitively, throughout our friendship.


You were my friend
You always have been and always will be my friend.


I wrote songs for different lovers
Over time, I have composed melodies for various romantic interests in my life.


Distant lands and countless others
These love interests were scattered throughout far-off places and were many in number.


None for you
Sadly, I never wrote a song for you, despite the depth of our friendship.


I've been linked to some old memories
mI am sometimes haunted by memories of the past.


By the chains that bind
These memories can be painful reminders of experiences that are difficult to forget.


But never chained to you
However, these past experiences have never caused any feelings of bondage or restraint in regards to our friendship.


All the flaws you never mention
You possess many qualities such as humility and grace, which are not easily seen or appreciated by others.


Serve to edify your gentle selfless grace
These qualities only serve to highlight your kind nature and selflessness.


And it was never my intention
My desire was never to cause harm or cause you to suffer in any way.


You should ever have to suffer for my ways
You should never have to pay for the mistakes or shortcomings that I possess.


All the times I could have told you
There were moments when I should have expressed my gratitude and admiration for you.


Well I guess perhaps I thought somehow you knew
I assumed you already knew how much you meant to me and didn't consider vocalizing it.


Love without end
My affection and appreciation for you is boundless.


You are my friend
I cherish our friendship and everything it represents.




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Written by: ANDREW WILSON III BRAXTON, DERRICK L GARRETT, FRED ROSSER, STEPHANIE COOKE

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