The gross gross man
Bif Naked Lyrics


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He keeps looking at me
With his groping, watching eyeballs
Gross! We women, we are supposed to
Just drop our eyes and be quiet
Just don't look at the gross, gross man
And hope he quits ogling

Believe it or not,
I want to flip him the bird, ya know?

But I don't, 'cause we women don't
Once I gave the finger to a bunch
Of construction dudes,
But they were yelling really bad stuff
About my "cookie"
It just got 'em all riled up,
And then they yelled, "dyke!"
And I had PMS so I cried all the way home

Gross, gross man still gawking
As I sit here writing... what's he thinking?
Gee, maybe I'll invite him up
To my sex den and he can fondle my boobies
Yeah, right!

Stupid gross man, quit staring!
Gosh, he just won't let up
It makes me feel really uncomfortable
I wish I could just crawl under a rock!
'Cause we women are supposed to
Just feel bad about ourselves
Like we're doing something wrong
I'm not!
I swear!




Being "we women" sucks!
Fuck you!

Overall Meaning

The song "The gross gross man" is a feminist anthem that tackles the issue of unwanted attention from men. The lyrics showcase the struggle of women who are constantly being harassed by the so-called "gross" men. The first verse sets the tone of the song, where Bif Naked sings about the male gaze and how women are expected to ignore it. The second verse shows the anger and frustration of the singer as she contemplates flipping off the "gross" man but decides against it due to the possibility of facing further harassment.


In the second half of the song, Bif Naked sings about the discomfort caused by the continuous staring of the "gross" man. She talks about the absurdity of the situation where women are made to feel bad about themselves for not reciprocating the advances of men. The song is an excellent commentary on the typical patriarchal society that normalizes sexual objectification of women.


Overall, the song is a powerful message addressing the plight of women who face unwanted attention and harassment from men. The lyrics highlight the frustration and anger felt by women in these situations and call for an end to such behaviors.


Line by Line Meaning

He keeps looking at me
The gross man is staring at me continuously


With his groping, watching eyeballs
The man's intent in staring is questionable


Gross! We women, we are supposed to
Women are expected to ignore such a stare and be submissive


Just drop our eyes and be quiet
To avoid attention, women are meant to avert their gaze


Just don't look at the gross, gross man
The only way to avoid harassment is to cut off eye contact


And hope he quits ogling
The situation will better only when the man stops looking


Believe it or not,
The situation is difficult


I want to flip him the bird, ya know?
She wants to show him a middle finger, but it's not that simple


But I don't, 'cause we women don't
Women are not expected to retaliate as it may lead to further trouble


Once I gave the finger to a bunch
She tried doing that once before


Of construction dudes,
But the group harassing her ended up doing worse


But they were yelling really bad stuff
Their comments were disgusting


About my "cookie"
They were vulgar about her body


It just got 'em all riled up,
Her response made things worse


And then they yelled, "dyke!"
The abusers stooped to homophobic slurs


And I had PMS so I cried all the way home
The abuse took a toll on her while she was already emotionally distraught


Gross, gross man still gawking
The man is still staring even now


As I sit here writing... what's he thinking?
She's wondering what is going on in his mind


Gee, maybe I'll invite him up
The man's stare is suggestive of his intentions


To my sex den and he can fondle my boobies
He might rape her even in her hypothetical joke


Yeah, right!
The thought itself is ridiculous


Stupid gross man, quit staring!
She's requesting him to stop with expletives now


Gosh, he just won't let up
The man is not stopping his stare despite her distress


It makes me feel really uncomfortable
The stare is making her distressed


I wish I could just crawl under a rock!
She wants to escape this harassment


'Cause we women are supposed to
The societal norms place women at a disadvantage


just feel bad about ourselves
Such harassment makes women feel downtrodden


Like we're doing something wrong
Women are often blamed for the abuse they face


I'm not!
She did nothing to deserve such harassment


I swear!
She asserts her innocence


Being "we women" sucks!
Society mistreats women as a collective whole


Fuck you!
The singer lampoons the societal biases




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